Don't fall into the parenting anxiety created by "famous parents"

Yuan kuankuan

Can a pair of Tsinghua parents raise the next generation of Tsinghua children? Faced with this situation, what should I do to see the mother of Peking University? Stanford's mother recommended these picture books ... She just became a "novice mother" for more than a year, and Li Xiao paid attention to many accounts labeled as parents of famous schools on the short video platform. In recent years, many parents from prestigious schools have accumulated millions of fans by relying on Sun's parenting ideas, parenting methods and parenting deeds, and some even quit their jobs to become full-time short video bloggers. (Beijing Evening News June 2 1)

Tsinghua's mother, Peking University's father, Harvard's mother, Stanford's mother ... All kinds of parenting numbers and video numbers are outputting all kinds of parenting ideas and educational methods every day, which is dazzling. It is precisely because these parenting numbers are labeled as "prestigious parents" that they attract so many fans that fans will believe the "parenting tips" and "educational treasures" taught in them.

Many operators of parenting WeChat official accounts or short video bloggers are willing to quit their real high-paying jobs to operate WeChat official accounts or short videos full-time, which is nothing more than a business. This business may be doing well now, but the parenting concept, educational concept or way it exports may not be suitable for every child.

Just like some parents of children are confused, today's "Peking University Mom" said that educating children is a "chicken baby", and all the financial and material resources of a family should be invested, and they should not lose at the starting line of their peers. But tomorrow's "Father of Tsinghua" advocates Buddhist education, creating a relaxed growth and learning environment for children, which is conducive to their healthy physical and mental growth. So as a subscriber of these WeChat official account or short videos, who should you listen to?

Every child's situation is very different. How can you mechanically copy other people's educational ideas and then apply them to your own children? Many parents pay attention to multiple parenting numbers and short video accounts, and then follow their rhythm, so it is easy to fall into an educational anxiety created intentionally or unintentionally by these "prestigious parents", which is not conducive to children's growth and learning.

Although these bloggers with parenting titles or short videos graduated from famous schools at home and abroad, can their children still enter famous schools after more than ten years? Many people use this banner to attract fans and realize it, but that's because it takes more than ten years to verify the results, which means parents can't verify it at all.

Don't blindly "chicken baby" and don't be led by others. There is no ready-made education model in the world that can be applied to every child. We can learn from other people's educational ideas and methods, but we must not fall into educational anxiety in the noise of "famous parents".