In today's society that advocates gender equality, women can be independent and self-reliant, but they cannot bully others unreasonably. Women who are too strong in marriage are absolutely unacceptable, because in marriage, if the husband and wife When a person encounters a problem, if no one gives in to the other, and no one compromises first, then the relationship will become very fragile and cracks will quickly appear.
A woman who is too strong will make a man very tired
It is impossible for people to live in this society without making mistakes. If a husband makes a small mistake, then most of the The wife will choose to forgive her husband, and at most she will tell her husband not to do this again in the future. But a strong woman will hold on to a man's small mistakes, and may even say things like: Why are you so useless? Or, it's really bad luck to marry such an incompetent man like you.
They don’t realize how harsh and unreasonable their words are. Maybe they simply feel that their husbands have no self-esteem. Faced with his wife's unreasonable dominance, an honest and weak man may grit his teeth and endure it, but a capable and confident man will never let his wife humiliate him like this. They will usually fight back immediately.
If this is the case, then this marriage will not last long. In fact, in marriage, the correct way for couples to get along is to understand and respect each other. However, many people forget the original intention of marriage after a few years of marriage. Regardless of whether a man will actually divorce, a wife who is too arrogant will make a man feel very exhausted in this marriage.
A woman who is too strong will be helpless when she gets old
My colleague’s mother-in-law is a very strong person. Because she can’t stand her shrewish behavior, her colleague’s father-in-law has been with her for a long time. Divorced. This old lady has many evil ideas in her heart that people cannot agree with. In her eyes, people who do business are unqualified and uncultured, and those who are better off than her are either corrupt, accepting bribes or opportunistic.
Girls who like to dress up are generally very evil-minded and will definitely cheat after marriage. Her daughter married her son-in-law out of compassion, and her daughter-in-law was lucky enough to marry her son. She has always firmly believed that everyone outside is bad and her family is the only good person. In addition, this old lady also likes to curse people. If others don't do things according to her wishes, she will immediately curse.
The old lady is over 70 years old this year, but she still lives alone. Although her children will be responsible for her illness or insufficient pocket money, no one is willing to take her to live with her. The son-in-law hates this mother-in-law who likes to make sarcastic comments about him when she has nothing to do. His colleagues even stay away from this mother-in-law and are unwilling to even look at her.
My colleague's husband and sister have already agreed to send her mother to a nursing home when she can no longer move, so that she can save herself from having to live in her own home and make a lot of noise every day. Most strong women are more willing to blame others than to care and love others, so when they get older, they will usually be alone and without anyone to accompany them.
No matter how good a man is, he is not willing to endure his wife’s overbearing and unreasonable behavior again and again. I sincerely suggest that strong women should understand, care and respect their husbands more after marriage, because this is the only way As the relationship between two people develops, the relationship between the two will get better and better, and the married life will become happier!