Yes.
Money can be said to be a good thing, but there are also people who turn against each other because of money, so money is the thing that can best see through people's hearts. My aunt has always said that the elderly should be raised by their sons. Her two children have lived in my house for at least ten years, and their clothes have not been washed. In the past, when my family's conditions were good, my grandma subsidized a lot of the family's money to them. What's the point? My cousins ??get priority when it comes to food, and sometimes even our siblings don’t have it.
Later, they all grew up and started working. My family's conditions are not very good. My father was seriously ill twice and spent a lot of money. My father and my grandmother live in my house. Every time there is a festival, such as the Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, Spring Festival, and their birthdays, I buy gifts for my sister and me. Give them expensive gifts.
And they all go to my uncle’s relatives first. Their relatives there are all small leaders with some real power. They all buy good things. When the festival is almost over, they will pick them up in the afternoon. A carton of milk worth more than 20 yuan, a kilogram of eggs, and a bag of Shaqima came to my house to visit my grandma. It was like this every time.
Later my father passed away, and she said that her daughter would not support her parents in their old age, but would be raised by our grandchildren. That was fine. My siblings took good care of my grandma.
She sometimes took her grandma over to save her face, but she often scolded her. Grandma couldn’t eat the food she cooked, and she didn’t dare to say anything. She would scold her, and grandma fell down several times at their house. , my cousin wanted to take her to the hospital, but she stopped her and asked us to pick up my grandma and bring her back. Grandma quietly told us and we quickly took her to the hospital.
Just after the New Year the year before last, my grandma wanted to go back to her hometown. There was no way. My mother was not very good at taking care of people. She could cook, wash clothes and do some work. My brother resigned and went back with his mother and grandma. , half a year after returning home, my grandma fell down in the bathroom and was admitted to the ICU. The three of us sisters quickly booked flights to go back.
My aunt said she wanted to go back and asked me to give her a fixed ticket. I said I didn’t have enough Alipay money, but she was still unhappy. Now her family’s conditions are much better than ours. Later, my cousin gave me the ticket. The air tickets cost more than 3,000 for two people. Back home, the four of us stayed in the hospital during shifts, and she went to visit relatives and friends with her uncle every day to show off that her family was rich and her son-in-law was going to buy a villa.
When grandma came out of the ICU, my sister and I turned her over and massaged her every two hours, wiped her body every day, fed her through a nasogastric tube, made her incontinent, and changed her diaper. She just came over every day to take a look and then left. He also asked us to get grandma out of the hospital as soon as possible. Later, my grandma became sober one day and insisted on going home. She passed away four days after returning home from the hospital at the age of 98.
On the morning of my grandma’s funeral, my aunt fell down while going to the bathroom and broke her wrist. People who knew her back home were talking about retribution. My mother was almost dead but she still went out to visit friends here every day. , the visiting relative spent 40,000 to 50,000 yuan on her wrist. The key is that now her wrist can no longer be used, like a semi-disabled one.