1. Learn to be kind to yourself. Even if you can't escape, you must give yourself time and space to breathe. You must live a more enjoyable life so that you can accumulate the courage and strength to move forward. Go to rest when you are tired, don’t grit your teeth and hold on, take a nap when you are sleepy, don’t stay up too late, love yourself, love this unique self, make this life dull and happy, and make every day wonderful and easy.
2. Rely on yourself to be happy, no one can sympathize with and share your sorrow; rely on yourself to be strong, no one will pity your cowardice; rely on yourself to work hard, no one will stay where you are; cherish it, rely on You and others are not willing to squander their youth; if you rely on yourself persistently, no one will advance or retreat with you; if you go all the way by yourself, no one can accompany you to the end. 3. Don’t be too entangled in the present, and don’t worry too much about the future. There is no useless experience in life, and no wasted effort. Every period of life has a deep understanding. After you have experienced something, the scenery in front of you is no longer the same as before. It’s the same, but different visions determine a different future.
4. When you are in your twenties, you lie down all night after get off work and sleep all day on weekends. You are envious of other people's achievements, but you don't have the courage to jump out of your comfort zone. In fact, everyone has their own path to take, and no one has it any easier than anyone else. Behind the glamor in front of people is persistence and hard work. Good luck never comes out of nowhere, you have to work harder. Believe in yourself. Good morning! 5. The road to pursuing your dreams is not a smooth one, and challenges and setbacks are inevitable. In the face of difficulties, some people rise to the challenge while others quit midway. In fact, sometimes, failure is not because we are incompetent, but because we give up too early. If you persist for a while when you encounter difficulties, maybe there is only a distance between success and failure: "try again".
6. Even though you have missed many people over the years, suffered many betrayals, and have been in a state of embarrassment. But it really doesn't matter, as long as you can't die, you can still stand up. Don't underestimate yourself, you are not that fragile. 7. The greatest attraction between people is not your appearance, your wealth, or your talent, but the trust, steadiness, sincerity and kindness you convey to the other person. Life is not all about competition and interests, but more about winning! If you know how to be grateful, you will be lucky!
8. Thanks to the hardships, we can taste the joy after pursuit and struggle, and the excitement is also Okay, so be it normal, just let it happen. If your heart is simple, you will be relaxed and at ease; if your heart is relieved, you will be calm and happy. Keep a healthy and indifferent heart, don’t get entangled, and just be content with whatever comes. Life is originally a matter of understanding. Only by thinking through it and looking at it can we practice better. Don’t be arrogant when things are smooth, and don’t be depressed when you are frustrated. No matter whether the road ahead is flat or muddy, we still carry our ideal luggage and go through wind and rain. 9. Never let go of a glass of water easily, no matter how hot it is, because the moment we let go, we lose not only the water, but also the cup; never let go of a career, no matter how difficult it is, because the moment we let go, we lose everything. Not just career, but also our dreams!
10. Life is not won by gaining, but won by letting go. Put down a seed and harvest a big tree; let go of a worry and harvest a surprise; let go of a prejudice and harvest a kind of happiness; let go of a persistence and harvest a kind of freedom. Obtaining something that you are reluctant to let go of is like holding a hot potato in your hand, you are the one who gets burned. Letting go is courage and wisdom. Let go of one thought and feel completely at ease. In life, you win by having the courage to let go.