Let's talk briefly about the plot of the whole play.

At first glance, it is the same as gakki's "Escape is Shameful but Useful" next door last year. The men and women are all set by Cheng Xuyuan. They were originally strangers' men and women, and they hit it off as "contract marriages".

However, the Korean version is more advanced than the Japanese drama, and the screenwriter has a story than the Japanese version.

The Japanese edition focuses on women's independent consciousness and the misunderstanding of the value of housewives in society; The Korean version only talks about one thing: marriage.

What is marriage? Marry who? Under what circumstances do you get married? Are marriages all the same? Will a marriage without love be happy?

Of course, behind the main line of marriage, the screenwriter also interspersed with the dreams of every young man who has left his hometown and has no property.

Today, Laochong will talk about this drama from the perspective of marriage and love.

The circle of "This Life is the First Time" is so small that the last husbands of three high school girlfriends are all Cheng Xuyuan of the same company.

Female 1 Yin Zhihao, high flyers, who graduated from Seoul National University, chose to work as an assistant screenwriter under a difficult screenwriter for five years because she liked writing, but later she quit her job because she was almost sexually assaulted by the director's assistant and went to a coffee shop to do odd jobs.

The hostess is a crazy person. In order to get rid of the fate of "girls can only be teachers" planned by her father, she secretly changed her wishes and went to Seoul National University. In order to save rent and survive, he chose to "contract marriage" with the male room Southeast Shixi.

Yin Zhihao, who has lived in Seoul for ten years, gradually realized that he is not much better than himself ten years ago.

Zhi Hao's landlord, Nan Shixi, the male owner, is the chief designer of an app company. It seems that he doesn't understand the amorous feelings. The wooden man actually chose the life of one person, one room and one cat because of the pain in the past. Marriage is not in his plan, and he "marries" the female owner, but in the name of marriage, he finds a roommate who is in tune to ease the pressure of repaying the loan.

Female 2 Xiuzhi, an agent of a big company, lives under the pressure of performance and sexual harassment from her boss every day. She doesn't wear underwear and smokes, which is her little resistance to the fucking life.

Compared with gentle Zhihao, Xiuzhi takes the cold route of a strong woman, with a cold face and an aura of keeping strangers away. In minutes, she thinks she is the black boss. From a distance, you will think that she doesn't need love, and money is her life's core monuments.

The representative of man 2 and horse is completely opposite to Xiuzhi. He is obviously the CEO of app company, but he looks like a white rabbit in front of Xiuzhi, and he especially likes to cry. He is moved to cry and abused to cry. He has been trying his best to melt Xiuzhi's cold and closed heart.

Xiuzhi would rather screw up his investment when he is bullied; Hiding his secret, Xiuzhi walked forward fearlessly and told Xiuzhi that he was not alone. When I think Xiuzhi is twisting the bar, frankly speaking, this world is not what Xiuzhi thinks.

The love represented by the horse is completely obtained by its own courage.

Female 3 Hao Lang, the head waiter of the restaurant, has a single-minded and long-lasting love compared with her mother, Zhi Hao, and the old driver, Xiu Zhi. A 7-year relationship is also a 7-year personal training of her boyfriend.

Hao Lang is the representative of pink. Her dream is not to be a strong woman and have her own career like Xiuzhi. She just hopes that she can be a good wife and mother and spend her life with the people she loves. But in reality, these are extravagant for her and her boyfriend, so extravagant that two people will break up because of when they get married.

Male 3 yuan tin, persistent app entrepreneur, but has been unable to find investors. After graduation, the biggest asset is to have Haolang.

Yuan Xi's youth is successful, but his career is still unfinished in middle age. He loves Hao Lang, but he can't give him a good life. Marriage is a pressure, a burden and a fear for him. He hopes that time can be more, and Hao Lang can wait for him. For example, can we talk about another five years of love?

Talk about 12 years of love, then get married, this is won-seok.

Three men and three women, six attitudes and three loves.

The first pair is pragmatism, you can get married without love; The second pair is to eat, drink, and be happy instead of getting married; The third pair is the conventional route, expecting to fall in love, get married and have children as normal as people and spend an ordinary life.

When the episode 14 was broadcast, the barrage began to disagree, that is, after Hao Lang and Yuan Xi broke up, should they get back together?

Judging from the finale, the screenwriter gave a composite card, which is also in line with the logic of the screenwriter from beginning to end.

The screenwriter laid a line a long time ago. Ma represents the company's APP-only falling in love and not wanting to get married, and automatically matching personal data such as class, interests and hobbies through the background system to help you find the opposite sex, that is, people who meet you will meet because all the conditions are very suitable.

However, Hao Lang and Yuan Xi didn't choose to be together by numerical matching. They met in college and talked about love for seven years.

In seven years, Yuanxi's career was in a mess, and finally he had to enter the company represented by Ma to be an honest Cheng Xuyuan; Hao Lang has been waiting for marriage since he was in love, thinking that he would get married if he proposed. As a result, Yuan Xi has to wait for Hao Lang for another five years ...

In reality, love can't match money and time. They broke up!

What a pity? Not at all.

After breaking up, Hao Lang, because of fate, met the man on the app, who matched Hao Lang in all aspects and was warm and caring; Yuanxi also discovered that Pumei, the only female programmer in the company, still has an unknown side.

In fact, the speed-dating combination after their breakup seems to the old worm to be a harmonious and perfect match, and they don't want them to get back together at all.

But these were all lost to sesame.

The new lover loves four people to eat at the same table. The accounting man Hao Lang's new acquaintance wanted to add sesame seeds to her dishes on his own initiative, but Yuan Xi stopped him and told him: "Hao Lang doesn't eat sesame seeds" = "I know her better than you".

It is at this point that the screenwriter put Hao Lang and Yuan Xi on the road of reunion.

To tell the truth, this stalk is really bad. Yuanxi and Haolang talked for 7 years. It is normal for him to be familiar with Haolang's tastes and habits. The accounting man just had a meal once, and he didn't know that Haolang's various things were normal.

Just because of this little detail, it proves that the love between two people, emmm, is powerless and unreasonable.

And why did the old worm say that it was inappropriate for them to get back together?

Yuanxi is a person who has no responsibility. With Hao Lang, two people are children playing house, and neither one is much more mature than the other. Hao Lang wants a safe, stable and reliable home. What Yuanxi needs is someone who can soothe his broken heart anytime and anywhere, encourage and support him to stick to his dreams.

Two people who are both demanding, together, completely take away all the energy from each other.

On the contrary, an accounting man who is gentle and willing to pay is more suitable for Hao Lang. She can be assured of coquetry, dream of being a princess and become a good wife and mother. And Yuanxi's entrepreneurial dream also needs such a decisive person as Pumei to constantly wake him up and let him see the reality as soon as possible and grow rapidly.

Who to choose between a matching love and a suitable lover is the question of the screenwriter po.

From the episode of 15, the style of barrage painting suddenly changed again, and it was screened by "rotten tail" and "heroine".

This starts from the end of 14 episode, and the plot is reversed, changing the sweetness before. Nan Shixi, who was supposed to confess to Zhihao, did not say it. On the contrary, Yin Zhihao, who was completely in love with Nan Shixi, decided to terminate the contractual relationship and leave Nan Shixi.

Clearly in love, but not together, this is the unfinished logic mentioned by the barrage.

However, the old worm doesn't agree with the rotten tail. Yin Zhihao is not zuo. She is affectionate and should be cautious.

Deeply in love with Nan Shixi, she refused the screenwriter invitation of Nan Shixi's ex-girlfriend company on the grounds that she could not handle this complicated relationship well, which was her frankness.

Yin Zhihao who wants to terminate the contract is not melodramatic, but brave.

Yin Zhihao's dream has never been to be a screenwriter. That's just what she likes. Her dream is: to love and meet someone like fate.

Who is that man? Nan Shixi.

Therefore, Yin Zhihao will tell her mother-in-law that marriage is not sacred to her, but love is.

And this sentence also happens to coincide with Yin Zhihao, who originally agreed to sign a "contract marriage" with Nan Shixi. It has nothing to do with the fact that two strangers chose to get married for a living, but it was the best choice for her life at that time. Where is the sacredness and injustice, everything can be measured by money, such as taking a bus is cheaper than a taxi, renting a wedding dress is more cost-effective than buying one, and the cost of the wedding is shared equally ...

But all this has changed since she fell in love with Nan Shixi.

/kloc-Room/0/9 described in episode 0/4, the housewife in the novel longs for a small room that will not be discovered by others, even her husband. There is a real her in that room, so she will say that she is cheating in order to keep that room.

Nan Shixi also has "Room 19", which started when his ex-girlfriend aborted, left and gave him a book saying that you don't deserve to love anyone again.

It is this sentence that made Nan Shixi stay away from his feelings and live a life of one person, one room and one cat. Whenever he wants to love and express himself, there will be a voice repeating "You don't deserve it" in his ear.

Yin Zhihao broke into Nan Shixi's room 19 because of an accident.

I wanted to borrow a novel, but I didn't expect that it happened to be the one sent by Nan Shixi's ex-girlfriend, so I naturally knew the existence of his ex-girlfriend, knew that marriage was not the first time for Nan Shixi, and knew Nan Shixi's past, but these were just what she knew, and Nan Shixi never mentioned to her.

Everyone needs room 19, a small breathing space, and a place to hide the true self.

However, at the end of Room 19, the husband still found the room.

From another angle, what is the 19 room in marriage like?

According to the screenwriter, different families, couples and individuals have different boundaries for Room 19, which can be exclusive or shared by husband and wife.

From another angle, room 19 is not so much a refuge for breathing and breathing, but rather a time room for returning to the beginning and beating heart.

In this room, husband and wife will see the best of each other and themselves, and every loving memory diluted by trivial matters can be found in this room. The husband found that his wife was not a chattering yellow-faced woman; The wife was shocked that her husband was not a greasy middle-aged man who had accomplished nothing ...

Room 19, which locks the time and keeps the love certificate, is a supply station on the long road of marriage, telling every couple how much you loved each other, why you chose him/her in the first place, and you can do it no matter how difficult it is in the future ...

For lovers in love, room 19 is honesty and trust to each other.

Therefore, when Xiuzhi hid her lame mother in Room 19 and was caught by the horse representative, Xiuzhi yelled at the horse representative crazily. She felt that the horse representative had broken into her restricted area because it was her own secret.

But the crying horse represents a man. Instead of running away, he chose to meet him and face him with Xiuzhi.

The screenwriter represents this pair through Xiuzhi and Ma, and also conveys to Nan Shixi and Yin Zhihao: 19 Room is, if you are tired, I will carry it; If you are unhappy, please tell me; I am not someone else, but someone who can cry with you, laugh with you and rely on you with confidence.

This room 19 is the envy of Zhihao. She envies Ma, the representative. As Nan Shixi's best friend, he has met Nan Shixi who is drunk, swearing and crying.

But Yin Zhihao has never seen it once. In front of her, the door of Nan Shixi's room 19 has never been opened once.

Therefore, Yin Zhihao's departure is not melodramatic, but he wants Nan Shixi to get out of his ex-girlfriend's heart and paint it for her. He can bravely chase Zhihao and express it, just as he did to his father, and tell the grievances between his father and son for many years.

A year later, Nan Shixi, who was angry with Yin Zhihao for not contacting him, was what Yin Zhihao wanted, love!

The screenwriter of "The First Time in My Life" should be a person with a story. She has a thorough view of marriage and love. What's more brilliant is that she has always used the values we agree with to overthrow us.

When Yin Zhihao and Nan Shixi decided to sign the contract, Yin Zhihao's line: Marriage is temporarily unnecessary for me.

However, most people can't agree with the solitary mode of people, houses and cats in Nan Shixi. Compared with the trouble of getting along with two people, it is not as real as the mode of landlord and tenant. With a fixed monthly rent income, some people share the garbage classification, and cats are not afraid of going hungry again.

Marriage without love is the best annotation of a good marriage.

However, marriage is never about two people, but about two families. From the moment they met their parents, Nan Shixi and Yin Zhihao realized that things were not simple.

In order to get approval, they have to say such nonsense as "ten fingers don't touch the spring water" and "because of love, together"

At the wedding, Yin Zhihao's mother's words to her son-in-law made people cry, but Nan Shixi's words of comfort responded skillfully: because he was married by contract, he had no more responsibilities, and the only thing he could do was not to be a hindrance to Yin Zhihao.

In other words, during the term of the contract, when the tenant Yin Zhihao unilaterally decides to terminate the contract, he will only agree, but will not keep it, which happened in episode 15.

Yin Zhihao and Nan Shixi's married life began with "we". Because of the wedding, they had an illusion. Marriage by contract seemed to be a real marriage, and their role orientation was deviated, which also broke the relationship between them. The screenwriter kept reminding the people watching the drama that they were not so familiar, but only a fake marriage, just the relationship between the landlord and the tenant.

However, after the "Funan incident", the relationship between the two people is undergoing subtle changes-they are beginning to care about each other.

Real family life is also telling two people that getting married is not as simple as they think.

The woman host will be called back to work for free by her mother-in-law, while the man complains that she can refuse. Why go? The angry hostess, in order to make the male subject feel that he can't refuse because he is a family member, didn't let the male subject make financial compensation, but replaced him with a pickle at the female host's house.

Therefore, when the woman scolded the man for doing it, the man also understood the grievances and feelings that the woman could not refuse before.

Finally, two people decide each other's mind-ex-girlfriend appears-divorce, which is the later story.

A marriage without love begins and ends with a divorce with love.

The screenwriter seems to be saying, Look, this is a relationship that you agreed to get married by contract at first, without any emotion, but in fact, there are too many people involved in this relationship. Once family, friends and themselves have devoted themselves to true feelings, they realize that they want more, more ...

Therefore, when other idol dramas are talking about love and mother-in-law dramas are talking about marriage, This Life is the First Time is like a transitional drama.

Marriage-love-marriage seems to be not a linear progressive relationship, but a circular cycle, but the most important thing is that it will happen and continue because of love.

Born to be human, we are all for the first time in this life. Please give me more advice for the rest of my life!