Thirty years ago, Dong Li Fan on the ground can vaguely see the shadow of the current "fierce", personality is also big, and even some fat body.

She met her first love in her early twenties, and her first love was cheerful and clean-looking, and she was obedient and considerate.

At that time, she was young and thought it was love.

One day, her lover said, he opened the company, the capital chain broke.

She didn't think of a way out, or a way to stop the loss, and put together 50,000 dollars - 50,000 dollars in 1985 - with all her heart. It was all the hard-earned money she could scrounge up, her entire family fortune, and she dedicated it single-handedly to the love of her life, to **** in and out with him.

She waited and waited and waited at home, trying to wait for good news. Want to wait for his company back to normal, want to wait for his urgent need to solve the ......

Finally, she did not wait for anything, because the so-called "love" has taken the 50,000 dollars she gave, ran away.

She cried at home and laughed out loud: cheating even if the money, how do you still "kill the heart" ah.

The so-called once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of well rope. The first time I saw the movie, I was so scared of the rope that I didn't dare to go near it, and then I didn't dare to get involved in a new relationship.

Today, let's get closer to her, to talk about this Dong Li Fan, who has only been in love once in his life.

01

In 1964, Dong Li Fan was born in Shenyang, Liaoning Province.

The family consisted of four people, her father, her mother, her brother, and her. This small family is as ordinary as thousands of small families, and also as secular small families - the son is more important than the daughter.

Brother is like the little emperor of the family, he can study, can learn accordion, set parents' favor in one, set the whole family's hope in one. Everyone wants him to be good, wants him to be talented.

Dong Li Fan, on the other hand, is like the maid of the house, with her family ignoring her and even forcing her to go out to work at a young age.

After graduating from junior high school, Dong Li Fan did not dare to stay at home, she was afraid of her father, afraid that he would say that she was "idle".

So, at the age when other children are in the arms of their parents, Dong Li Fan ran to her father's factory as a leader, and went to work as a mason.

In the beginning, Dong Li Fan just wanted to work hard and earn some money, but she never thought that her father would bring the same kind of oppression to the factory as he did to her at home.

He was unusually harsh on her, often criticizing her and educating her. Even when his daughter was injured at work, his father did not feel any pain at all, but only reprimanded her for working too slowly and refusing to suffer.

The absence of a father's love has tempered Dong Li Fan's extraordinary will.

For the family's indifference, she broke her teeth and swallowed; for the heavy work, she did not say a word of pain, a word of fatigue, just bury their heads in the sand, sometimes a person on top of two people make.

Dong Li Fan's hard work has been recognized by colleagues in the plant, but as a leader of the father was afraid of being gossiped about, every time the daughter to the hand of the "first-class honor" to someone else.

Once, twice, three times ...... then hot blood is also doused with cold water.

Dong Li Fan no longer hope in the immediate terrible life, she began to open her eyes and see a broader world.

By chance, Dong began to develop a strong interest in vocal music.

She took the initiative to find a famous local voice teacher, who routinely conducted a series of tests on her, and came to the conclusion that it was not appropriate.

If she had been a pampered girl, she would have been scared off, but Dong Li Fan, who has lived under injustice and oppression since she was a child, has a strong heart and nothing can make her back down.

The teacher doesn't teach, right? It doesn't matter, she practiced on her own. The first time I saw this was when I was a student at the University of California.

The teacher didn't accept it, right? It's okay, she'll be able to impress her teacher someday.

The teacher quickly surrendered and agreed to teach this stubborn girl to sing.

So Dong Li Fan began to live her dream, working in the factory and going to her teacher's home to study voice.

The days were hard but fulfilling.

Dong Li Fan has put herself low enough, she has enough understanding, enough patience, but there is always someone to be the last straw that bends her, there is always someone who wants to set up one barrier after another for her on the flat road. This person, is still her father.

Dong Li Fan is a good patriotic youth.

She worked hard, honest and down-to-earth, and has long met the requirements of the party. But it was her father, the one who was always afraid of gossip, who took away her hopes year after year, time after time.

This time, Dong Li Fan is no longer silent. She officially broke with her father and went to the rolling mill.

After the job transfer, she still did not give up her dream. In such a good year, the brave pursuit of their own life.

Colleagues around her are busy falling in love, only she, in the plant, outside the plant, and actively participate in the activities of the propaganda team, performance team.

02

In just a few years, Dong Li Fan's dream map expanded to the Shenyang Power Plant, rolling mill, amateur propaganda team, Shenyang Song and Dance Troupe, Liaoning Opera House and other art work organizations.

In these places, she met more artists, saw more ways of artistic performance, she began to dream of being a ballet dancer.

Dong Li Fan was known to have a fierce face and a strong body, which gave her a "recognizable" look, but also limited her career in ballet.

What you don't get is always on the move.

She couldn't give up, so she decided to go to the Beijing Film Academy to study a different kind of acting, and her destiny also turned around because of this persistence.

In 1990, Dong Li Fan finally met the man of honor in her life, Zhao Benshan.

At that time, Zhao Benshan went to the major acting colleges and universities to recruit actors, traveled a large circle down, was a bold fat girl impressed.

This bold fat girl is our protagonist - Dong Li Fan.

The two of them hit it off right away, and there's not much in the way of mundane red tape, just a direct invitation: come on, let's do the movie.

And so it was that Tung was cast in his first movie, The Living Treasure.

There is a scene in the movie where Dong Li Fan is given kimchi to eat.

I don't know if it was on purpose or by mistake, but Jounal replaced the prop kimchi on the table with chili peppers.

When the filming started, the director shouted "action" and Dong Li Fan picked up his chopsticks to eat the kimchi, only to realize that the props had been swapped.

More than 30 years ago, movies were shot on pure film, and film was very expensive.

In reality, Dong Li Fan does not eat chili peppers, she is afraid of spicy, but now it is a job, it is a shooting, she did not dare to NG, hard to clip the chili peppers, hard to stuff into the mouth, revealing the hard to squeeze out of the tears of the tears of the smile.

This "naive" spirit of dedication impressed Zhao Benshan, he took her to shoot a movie "to come are guests".

In this movie, Dong Li Fan's role is heavier, and the character is more complex and varied.

But she interpreted it well, and it was very well received. She also had a lot of theater engagements.

The movie brought Dong Li Fan confidence, but also officially opened her acting career, but history tells us that there are good people, there are inevitably bad people.

Dong Li Fan recalled this period in an interview program, saying: "There were teachers who said that I was not good at the play, and to be honest, it stimulated me. Then I made up my mind that I must act well, I must be a good actor, even if I am a supporting role."

03

"Even if it is a supporting role, but also to play a good game" of this seriousness, so that the famous director Zhang Yimou also noticed this quite distinctive actor.

He threw an olive branch to Dong Li Fan.

A movie called "Alive" and a movie called "Happy Days" established her unique position in Chinese film and television.

Dong Li Fan then went on to star in a number of films, including Getting Better and Better and The Legend of the Fragrant City, and her career has steadily grown.

Only to lament that life is always full of good things.

Dong Li Fan's career is going well, but his family of four in Shenyang, Liaoning Province, has had a series of changes, first his father had a cerebral thrombosis, and then his mother got rectal cancer.

Even though she didn't get much care from her parents when she was young, Dong Li Fan was still a filial daughter. She decided to give up her career and return home to be by her parents' side until her father's death.

When she returned to Beijing, the world of show business had changed.

No one knew who she was in the fast-changing world.

Anyone else would have given up.

But who is she? She is Dong Li Fan, who is the best at patience, waiting, and never giving up in the face of adversity.

She began to start from scratch again, from the nameless and faceless passer-by, and rebuilt her foundation step by step.

Finally, the cold came and went, and in 2007, she waited for a Crazy Racer.

Dong Li Fan played a rich woman in the movie, different from the traditional rich woman, she is stingy, tough, strong and unreasonable.

Because of the popularity of the "Fat Sister" image, investors always look for Dong Li Fan to play all kinds of rich women, and over time, she has been enthusiastically referred to as a "rich woman professional" by her fans and friends.

Some of her fans even said, "I don't want to work hard, rich woman" to her stills.

04

Dong Li Fan was lucky enough to have a second spring in her career, but emotionally, she stayed in the last winter forever.

When she first arrived in Beijing, Dong Li Fan met her first love.

Her first love was gentle, gentlemanly and obedient.

Dong Li Fan grew up in a caring environment, and had an unusually strong desire for intimacy.

The two soon fall in love. The two quickly fell in love, but the simple Dong Li Fan how to know that this sweet love, is a well-designed scam, her so-called "lover" also cheated her 50,000 yuan after the disappearance.

The liar left, she first denied, and then doubt, and then realize, in their own hearts covered with a cage, "click" a lock.

So far, it has not been opened again. 2017 Dong Li Fan was a guest on "Big King Little King", the host asked:

She shook her head: "No."

And after a while, added: "I may be this life."

Now 57, Dong Li Fan is still single and unmarried!

05

It hasn't been an easy journey for Tung Lip Van, who has gone from grimy tiler to golden supporting actor in the entertainment industry.

She was alone all the way, she was all the way back and forth, from Shenyang, Liaoning Province to Beijing, from obscurity to a small show, from the film to the dust, and then hibernate in winter, waiting for the flowers to bloom.

Like Strickland, Maugham's protagonist, who was full of sixpence, she looked up and saw the moon.

This is true for your dreams, and it is also true for the people around you.

Dong Li Fan's parents were patriarchal, loving their son and treating their daughter harshly.

When the family suffered a change of heart, she disregarded the past, regardless of their own career is in the ascendant, without regard to the three years, to take care of the parents of the heavy responsibility.

The first love carefully designed a scam, lying that his company was in trouble, the financial chain broke. The first time I saw him, I was so happy to see that he was able to get out of the house.

No matter when others treat me, I will return the favor.

I hope that her future path will be more smooth and less rugged.