The higher the level of the person, the more they know how to make people comfortable, considerate of others from the heart, for the sake of others, sincere treatment of others, tolerance of others. As the spring night rain, moist and silent.
Let people comfortable, not smooth, not to cater to please, but long in the heart of the good, is carved in the bones of the education, is a person's charisma.
"Vegetable Root Tan" has a sentence: "The article to the extreme, there is no other strange, but just right; character to the extreme, there is no other different, just natural."
Appreciation of a person, starting from the face value, trapped in the talent, loyal to the character. A person's top charisma is not a stunning talent. Instead, it is the character that makes people comfortable everywhere, and the warmth and kindness that is y rooted in the bones.
A variety show, Tang Guoqiang a slip of the tongue to "He Gui" called "He Ling", led to laughter. He immediately ran out and said: "I know Mr. Tang Guoqiang ten years ago, he used to call me He Ling, this is our nickname, don't misunderstand," and instantly dissolved the embarrassment into thin air.
He Gui and Huang Lei went to buy abalone, Huang Lei and the stall owner cut the price to 20 yuan three, He Gui heartache stall owner business is not easy, picked the three smallest abalone, but also has been to the stall owner thank you. The company's first step is to make sure that you have the best possible experience in the field.
The first time I've seen this, I've seen a lot of people who have been in the world for a long time. The more you have seen the world, the more compassionate you are, the more you treat all the people and things around you gently, making people feel comfortable everywhere, like a spring breeze.
Being able to make people comfortable is because there is enough strength, chest with gullies, belly with Qiankun, more bodhisattva heart, love in the heart, the eyes will have warmth.