Take the time two people spend together as an example. And whether the parents of both sides are willing to communicate in depth. It is also the main reason that affects the development of two people.
Are there three views of harmony and disharmony in the same language? Are the six views compatible?
Maybe the dialogue is separate, which means that two people still have no real soul fusion experience.
Of course, in the case of having a beautiful full moon, most people always want to have a stable relationship. It is more appropriate for parents to meet after half a year or three months.
Ask the woman or the man's opinion, of course. Parents should be the first to know. You also need to inform your parents when you meet, and you also need to arrange it in advance. We can't do this suddenly.
If it really doesn't work, find a middleman to talk to the other parent. This can also achieve the goal. Will not hurt the feelings and faces of both sides. Try to give the woman's parents a long face. This is a function of your future son-in-law and half a son. Let the other person rest assured that you can manage it well in the future, reach the level of family responsibilities and obligations, and improve the comprehensive quality of being a husband. So parents can have the confidence to marry their daughter to you. To succeed.
It's good to spend a long time until you can judge:
1. His attitude towards work and whether he is dedicated and enterprising determine his ability to make money.
Second, what attitude he takes towards his friends, whether he is sincere or not, and whether he is willing to help others sincerely determines whether his social support system is strong or not.
Third, what attitude do you use to treat your elders? A person who respects his elders and is willing to consider their positions shows that he knows how to give back and be grateful. Of course, this is not filial piety.
Fourth, what is the attitude when encountering difficulties? A person's attitude towards difficulties can reflect whether he is strong and optimistic, and whether he has the ability to solve various problems and tests given by life with you. 5. What's his attitude when you are sick or in trouble? Whether he can understand you and take responsibility for you when you need him is the most important relationship chip for the couple in the future. If he only cares about himself, then no matter how rich and capable he is, you should consider it.
Why review these?
First, because each of us wants to find a partner worthy of relying on and entrusting, this person can't be perfect, but at least the quality is necessary, such as having a certain ability to make money and being able to support the family with you; Have a certain psychological ability, and can handle interpersonal and family relationships well.
Second, because once we take him to meet his parents, his parents will think that you are 80% sure of this person. Taking him to see his parents means that you have to confirm the relationship, not ask for permission, so if this person has no obvious problems, it will take him a few days to go home, and his parents don't have much time and opportunity to help you judge these.
Therefore, in the end, we are going to marry this person, so we must polish our eyes and distinguish clearly.