Interpretation of body movement language
Interpretation of body movement language. In life, some people like to use some gestures to express their opinions when speaking. It doesn't move at all, but if you look carefully you can still see some body movements. Let's take a look at the interpretation of body movement language. Interpretation of body language 1
Body language is a silent language. Through a person's gestures and body movements, we can understand his ideology, emotional changes, etc., which are often more authentic and credible than vocal language that is good at "disguising".
In the 2009 hit American TV series "Lie to me", micro-expression expert Carl Letterman did not need a lie detector, no conclusive evidence, or even a voice. In most cases, he only relied on subtle changes in expressions. You can tell whether a person is lying or not. When the editor was following the show, he also painstakingly studied Carl's "mind-reading skills."
Below I will share with you 15 common body languages. If you learn these, you will be able to more easily get into the other person's heart and understand the other person's true thoughts and feelings. Even if they don't say it, their body language will tell you the answer.
1. Crossing your legs usually means resistance or disagreement, which is not a good sign in negotiations
Gerard 61, author of "How to Read People Like a Book" Nirenberg and Henry Calero recorded 2,000 negotiations, in which "as long as there is a negotiator with his legs crossed, no agreement can be reached."
From a psychological point of view, crossed legs mean It causes a person to close themselves off mentally, emotionally, and physically, which means they may be unwilling to compromise in negotiations
2. Opening the palms is a traditional way of showing honesty
People When swearing to tell the truth in court, one hand is placed on a religious text and the other is raised in the air, with the palm facing the person speaking.
That's because throughout Western history, the open palm has been associated with "truth, honesty, loyalty, and obedience."
3. A smile without wrinkles at the corners of the eyes may be a fake smile
If someone is trying to appear happy, but is not happy from the bottom of his heart, Then you can't see the other person's smile lines.
A recent study from Northeastern University found that people can fake a perfect fake smile even when they are not feeling particularly happy.
So it is safer to say that a smile without wrinkles proves that a person may not be truly happy. But just because there are wrinkles in laughter, that doesn’t mean a person is truly happy.
4. Raising your eyebrows is often a sign of discomfort
A real smile will cause wrinkles around your eyes. Similarly, uncomfortable emotions such as worry, surprise or fear will make you feel uncomfortable. The person raised an eyebrow.
5. If the other person imitates your body language, your conversation is likely to go smoothly
Positive psychologist Barbara 61 Fredrickson says this is Because when we are connected, we imitate each other.
6. But if someone looks at you for too long, he might be lying
According to behavior analyst and body language expert Lillian 61 Grace, in order to avoid looking Some liars deliberately prolong eye contact for too long, making people feel uncomfortable.
They may also stand motionless without blinking.
7. A series of body movements indicates a tacit understanding
Conveying goodwill does not rely on a single signal, but a series of body language.
Neuropsychologist Martha 61 Lucas advises people to pay attention: "After two people look at each other, whether the other person's eyes slightly glance down, fiddle with their hair, and then slightly look up at you."
8. If someone keeps touching their face or rubbing their hands, they may be nervous
What are the most common symptoms of anxiety? Answers include touching your face and rubbing your hands. Both of these actions can help soothe your mood when you're feeling uncomfortable.
9. If someone laughs with you, then they probably like you.
If someone buys into your humor, then they are probably interested in you.
Evolutionary psychologists say humor and positive responses to humor played a crucial role in human development. They can signal a desire for a relationship, whether platonic or erotic.
10. Leg shaking is a sign of inner uneasiness
Susan Whitburn, a professor at the University of Massachusetts, said: "The legs are the largest body part of the human body, so when the legs When you move, it's hard not to notice."
Shaking your legs can indicate anxiety, annoyance, or both, Susan said.
11. Looking directly at the other person with a slight smile may be an attempt to discharge
Research by psychologist Ronald 61E61 Li Qiao shows that when people try to release sexual attraction, they will Give off a certain type of smile.
"They usually show positive emotions - smile and look directly at each other, then slowly look away while maintaining the smile.
12. If a person's brows are not drawn inward If he lifts up, he may not be as sad as he looks
Psychologist Paul Ekman used "reliable muscles" to describe the facial muscles that people cannot control freely. If you notice that someone is expressing sadness with words and facial expressions, but his brows are not raised and drawn, he may not be sad at all, but despite his best efforts, he cannot contract these muscles freely.
< p> 13. If one half of a person's facial expression is more obvious than the other half, then it may not be a real emotionMost facial expressions expressing emotions are symmetrical, that is, both sides of the face The expressions are symmetrical. Next time you tell a joke, see if the other person’s smile is symmetrical. 14. A bold posture means power and a sense of accomplishment.
If a person leans back in a relaxed manner, they may feel powerful and confident. In fact, studies have found that even people who are born blind raise their arms in a V-shape when winning in sports.
15. A shrug is a universal body signal that indicates confusion
A shrug is a universal body language that indicates that a person does not know or understand what you are talking about. Body Action Language Interpretation 2. p>
In fact, the "expression of the hands" is much richer and more real than the "expression of the face".
1. The fingers. Action
(1) Thumb. The thumb is used to show control, superiority, and even "aggression" when someone's thumb is exposed from the pocket or unintentionally from the back pocket. It shows that they have a domineering attitude. Usually, people who adopt the thumb posture also stand on tiptoe to make them look taller.
When the thumb is pointed at others, it means ridicule or disrespect. For example, the husband leaned on his friend, pointed at his wife with his fist, and said: "You know, women are all the same." "In this case, wagging the thumb is usually used to ridicule the unfortunate woman. Therefore, pointing the thumb at others often makes people angry.
(2) Index finger. The index finger knows everything, Its distinguishing feature is sensitivity. Since we always use our index finger if we want to touch something, a sensitive index finger provides us with precise information when talking. , it will give people the impression that you are teaching someone.
Raising your index finger but pointing your palm towards the speaker means you want to interrupt others, which means: "Wait, I have an idea! "This body language is more reasonable and will not appear too abrupt.
(3) Middle finger. The middle finger reflects the self. Most of us use the middle finger to send signals unconsciously. Usually, when People who touch, caress or massage their middle fingers when talking have a desire for self-expression and hope to be appreciated by others.
(4) The ring finger represents emotion. .
People who frequently touch and caress their ring fingers during conversations indicate that they expect emotional care rather than intellectual explanations.
(5) Little finger. The little finger is the social finger. It doesn't do much, but it's everywhere. When you bring the cup to your mouth, you raise your little finger. There is a hidden request behind this action: "Don't forget, I'm still here!" The person stroking the little finger wants to attract other people's attention.
2. Crossing of hands
Fingers crossed, people usually use this gesture when talking happily. Others cross their fingers and place them flat on the table. This action is common among speakers. This action indicates that the conversation is calm and eloquent.
Counting your fingers is used to emphasize or enhance persuasion and clarity. For example, when a leader assigns work that involves some numbers and terms, this action is often used in order to make the listener understand.
When we report work, we often twiddle our fingers. In this way, it will appear more organized and will not give people a sense of generality and confusion, which will also make your charming speaking image more vivid.
The fingertips tapping each other represent that the actor is looking for a point of convergence between his own expectations and the other party's suggestions. In this case, you should never make repeated suggestions. Instead, you should ask yourself, what is the gap between my suggestions and the other party's expectations? Or propose a new plan.
There are also some principles for the use of finger language. First, it depends on the context. Use specific finger language in appropriate situations, otherwise it will make a joke. Secondly, don’t abuse finger language. Making unfriendly gestures while talking to others can have unexpected consequences.
Finally, pay attention to the frequency and amplitude of finger use. If the frequency is too high and the amplitude is too large, it will give people the impression of lack of self-cultivation at first, and it will give people the feeling of being arrogant at worst.
Finger movements contain rich language. If you can use fingering techniques appropriately, you can make conversation easier and more cordial. Interpretation of Body Movement Language 3
Japanese people use rich body movements to help language expression
Japanese people have rich body language. Using body movements to help language expression can make the speaker express what he wants. The content is more vivid and straightforward. The following are some common body movements:
1. With one hand, palm down, make a neck-cutting motion. This action has nothing to do with death, violence, suicide or anything like that. This means "no job". The Japanese name is "First になる". It can be translated as "resignation or dismissal", or more popularly as "fired" or "lost one's job". Probably because losing a job means losing a way of living, which is almost like wiping one's neck.
2. Stretch the index fingers of both hands upward from both sides of the head. The meaning of this action is "anger, かんかんになる". Depending on the degree, it can be translated as "angry, angry, angry", etc.
3. Put the five fingers of one hand together and make a cutting shape from the cheekbone to the jaw. This action means "gangster, robber, bad guy". This is because evil men in the past often used violence and often had scars from knife wounds on their faces. The Japanese name is "ゃくざもの, evil".
4. Make a fist with one hand and rub it in a circular motion on the palm of the other hand with the palm facing upward. This action means "flushing one's beard and flattering". But the literary translation is "present attentiveness, flattery" and so on. It's called "ごまをする" in Japanese. The literal translation of this meaning is "grinding sesame oil", but for some reason grinding sesame oil is "flattering", maybe because it is a horse-drawn grinder.
5. Japanese people are very patriarchal, so if you extend your thumb, it means a man, and if you extend your little finger, it means a woman. Rather than what Chinese people mean by good or bad.
6. Form a circle with the thumb and index finger of one hand. Depending on the occasion of speaking, this action is regarded as "money or good - a positive expression". The coin is round, and the latter represents OK.
7. Crossing the index fingers of both hands means "rejection". Nowadays, Japanese people often use the English letters "NG" to express. But after eating in a restaurant, calling the waiter to do this means paying the bill and settling the bill. Because the meal is over, it means it’s over. In addition, if they want to express their rejection strongly, some people even cross their hands. Even more so if you hold your head high.
8. Sometimes Japanese people will suddenly feel like falling down after hearing a word or thing, with exaggerated expressions. This action is used to express surprise, unimaginability, inconsistency with the facts, denial, rejection, disappointment, etc. It is widely used. Sometimes this action can only be understood but cannot be expressed in words. No exact meaning.
For example, if you suddenly hear that a fool has become the president, you may do this, which means "how is this possible?"