I often hear novice parents vomit: it is too difficult to bring a baby!

I can't talk, I can't express myself, whether I want to eat milk, sleep or pee, all my thoughts are just "crying". I start guessing his "little thoughts" every day, and I always guess wrong. It's too difficult to be a parent!

Of course, this is just the tip of the iceberg in the daily difficulties of bringing a baby. When it comes to feeding, changing diapers, taking a bath, getting dressed, doing early education, and even when you are sick, you will face various problems and often treat your baby as a mouse ...

In fact, although the small-month-old baby can't speak, his ability of independent activities is poor, and it seems to be a mess with his baby's daily life. If it is straightened out, it is not so difficult.

Because after the baby is born, his growth and development are regular every month, such as how many kilograms and centimeters he grows every month, how much milk he eats every day and how many times, the most common problem of this month's age is actually "regular".

The premise is that novice parents must first understand these parenting rules, and then raise their babies according to the corresponding ones, which will be handy.

Next, Jing Ma will talk about the development law of the baby in the first three months after birth, hoping to help novice parents adapt to their parents' identity as soon as possible, explore the law of getting along with the baby and bring the baby smoothly.

Sleep in January: the baby who is one month old is a good boy and sleeps most of the time?

After living in the most expensive small house in the world for 10 months, with the birth of a baby, it will go through an "adaptation period" after birth.

Therefore, the newborn baby will have a long period of time, continuing its current state-legs curled up like a little frog.

Moreover, because the baby's development in many aspects is still incomplete and the ability of independent activities is poor, it needs rapid growth and development, and will sleep most of the time.

Newborns can sleep for 16-20 hours every day, which is normal except for breastfeeding.

If it's time to nurse and the baby is still sleeping, the mother doesn't have to wake the baby intentionally, but can use the baby's mouth, and he will "wake up to nurse".

PS: But there are also special circumstances. In both cases, parents should be vigilant and go to see a doctor if necessary.

If the baby sleeps for more than 4 hours in a row, it is necessary to pay attention;

When the baby is breastfeeding, it is also sleepy. If you are in a daze, you should be careful.

In addition, this month, mothers may have the most problems with breastfeeding, which is usually 8- 10 times every 24 hours, or even more times. Breastfeeding pays attention to "adaptive feeding", that is, when the baby is hungry and wants to eat, he will feed.

Mothers whose breast milk is not enough for their babies should find ways to catch up with their milk, by taking a balanced diet, drinking some milk soup properly, trying to ensure enough sleep and trying to be in a good mood.

Mothers who can't finish the breast milk and always swell up should suck it out with a breast pump every time after feeding, which can be stored in a milk storage bag. Don't be lazy when you feel swollen, which will happen seriously.

Generally, around the full moon, breast milk can reach the state of "supply and demand balance" by running in with the actual needs of the baby.

Crying in February: the baby slept less in the second month, but it became difficult to cry?

From around the full moon, parents will find that the baby seems to be different from the time when it was born.

Every time I wake up, I can play for a while when I am full, but maybe new problems appear again.

Some babies sleep during the day and play at night. This situation is "black and white upside down", which is because parents don't pay attention to helping their babies develop a routine.

For example, if the baby wakes up in the middle of the night and wants to play, and the mother doesn't sleep in time, she will play with the baby. Slowly, she may develop the habit of playing at night and sleeping for a day. It is necessary to correct it as soon as possible and help the baby develop a correct "day and night routine".

Other babies have to cry every evening, which is very puzzling and difficult to bring.

This situation is probably because the baby has flatulence, and the serious one may be colic. Novice parents should help the baby correct it in time and correctly. When the baby is comfortable, it will naturally stop crying.

▲ How to judge whether the baby has flatulence?

In fact, it's not difficult. When touching the belly, it's a little hard. When touching it, the baby may cry even more, and it may be as shown in the picture below, which is basically flatulence (serious colic).

▲ What should parents do?

First of all, it is the response when the baby is "crying and uncomfortable". The most effective thing is "venting".

For example, letting the baby lie on the stomach of an adult, giving the baby a stomach clockwise, hot compress the stomach (don't burn the baby), airplane hug, etc., can all help the baby exhaust; You can also listen to white noise to stop your baby from crying and calm down.

Secondly, the usual prevention is also important. The most effective thing is to "prevent the baby from eating too much air".

(1) every time when feeding to correct:

Breast-fed baby, the posture is correct, so that the baby's mouth is whole, and the mother can press it with her fingers when the milk array comes.

The baby who drinks milk, the feeding posture is correct, holding the baby obliquely, so that the bottle and the baby's mouth have a certain angle, above the nipple; The nipple matches the baby's age to avoid oversize aperture.

(2) to burp after each feeding:

There are three kinds of burps, no matter which one is used, it is better to burp the baby after each feeding and burp the empty food; Otherwise, if there is more air in the baby's stomach, it will be flatulent and uncomfortable.

(3) usually help the baby exhaust and keep warm;

For example, often helping the baby's stomach clockwise, doing passive exercises on both legs, etc., also helps exhaust.

Then don't dress your baby too little, cover it too thin and get cold and flatulence. You can wear a small sleeping bag or wrap it in swaddling clothes, which will help keep warm and reduce the startle reflex.

Save your stomach in March: how many days may the baby be in the third month? No, it's not necessarily constipation.

As I said before, the newborn baby is underdeveloped in many aspects, including gastrointestinal digestion.

After being born for a period of time, the gastrointestinal function is gradually enhanced, and the baby will begin to "squat". The most obvious performance is that the number of babies is less.

It used to be 7-8 times a day, and suddenly it only pulls 1-2 times a day; Or the baby who used to pull once a day 1-2 times has changed to pull once every 4-5 days.

So novice parents will be very anxious, worried that the baby is constipated and his stomach is uncomfortable.

In fact, such a small baby generally does not have constipation, but will experience diarrhea at this month's age to meet the nutritional needs of the baby's rapid growth and development.

So, how do you judge whether your baby has a stomachache? You can refer to the following picture:

If the baby is the situation in the picture, he eats well and plays beautifully without any discomfort, it may be that he has a stomachache, so mom and dad don't have to worry at all.

In short, the common problems of babies every month are basically those. As long as parents study in advance, many problems are not problems, and they can be dealt with very well, so it is not so difficult to take care of them.

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How many months is your baby now? What do you think are the most common problems every month in the first three months? Welcome to share and discuss your parenting problems and experiences with your parents.

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The above is related to the small formula table in January and February, and it is about the sharing of infant care. After reading the songs of the lunar calendar, I hope this will help everyone!