Recently, major media rushed to report that the 7-year-old girl was abused by her biological father and stepmother and lived on the balcony for a long time. The girl also fell from the balcony on the second floor because of hunger and went to the convenience store to steal something to eat. Then it was sent to the rescue station, and the street office also launched an investigation and help. I am deeply sympathetic and angry about this. This incident exposed various social problems. First of all, children from single parents or divorced families are vulnerable. Children who grow up in such a family lack the love of one parent. And this love needs more care and love from parents to make up for it, but many parents just ignore their children's desire for this love. This has a negative impact on children's physical and mental health, coupled with parental abuse and violence. So can such a child be healthy? Second, society does not pay enough attention to these children. Why did the 7-year-old girl fall off the balcony on the second floor before being found out about her tragic experience? Why have children been abused for a long time, but no one cares? Then, when teachers and schools found that students dropped out of school, did they communicate with their parents? If you communicate, won't the students know that they have been abused? Then people come and go in the community. I wonder if the children live on the balcony for a long time? If you know why you didn't lend a helping hand to the girl at that time, only after she was wronged did you stand up and speak. Isn't that ironic?
Home is like a big tree. The tree fell and the fruit was scattered all over the floor. People are talking about why the tree fell, but they ignore the fruit that is about to mature. For children living in single-parent or divorced families, parents should strengthen their self-cultivation and set an example. At the same time, with healthy psychology, personality strength and social morality, we should help our children to establish a sound personality of autonomy, self-confidence, self-esteem, tenacity, honesty and openness.
In this regard, social media can do more than just report and help, but fundamentally solve the problem-put an end to such incidents. Instead of letting the tragedy happen before it can be remedied, why not stop it? Communities and streets should organize more residents to carry out activities about the harm of child abuse, so that people can know more about how to take good care of children and change their ideas. Schools and teachers should communicate with students and parents to avoid child abuse.
Children are the flowers of the motherland and the hope of the future. It is the unshirkable responsibility of every parent to educate their children correctly and let them grow up healthily.
2. The truth of child abuse case in Beijing Red, Yellow and Blue Kindergarten Reference: 2017165438+1On the evening of October 22nd, more than ten parents of children reported that the children in Class II of Guanzhuang Red, Yellow and Blue Kindergarten (Xintiandi Branch) in Chaoyang District were stabbed by their teachers and given unknown white pills.
2017165438+1On the evening of October 26th, the Beijing police informed that the kindergarten children were suspected of being given drugs by needles, and the kindergarten teacher Liu Moumou suspected of child abuse was detained. 165438+1On October 29th, R, B and L educational institutions issued an apology letter for the incident of Xintiandi Kindergarten in R, B and L.
20 18 in may, the procuratorial organ has prosecuted the case of child abuse in Beijing red, yellow and blue kindergarten. 20 18 18 On the morning of February 26th, Beijing Chaoyang District People's Court publicly pronounced the case of the defendant Liu Yanan abusing the ward, and sentenced Liu Yanan to one year and six months' imprisonment for the crime of abusing the ward in the first instance. At the same time, it is forbidden to engage in nursing education for minors within five years from the date of execution of punishment or parole.
3. Ask about the topic of the speech about child abuse. Recently, the high school level has been hotly debated on the Internet. A young kindergarten teacher held up a boy's ear, and the child cried. The teacher had a smile on her face. This photo was discovered on the social networking platform, and was immediately exposed on the Internet and widely forwarded. In the photo, the teacher's smile made netizens angry: "You are so unscrupulous, how can you be a teacher?" Although the child abuse teacher has been dealt with, the kindergarten involved has also paid the price for "hiring undocumented teachers", but this is far from eliminating the shock brought by this incident to society.
Children are the flowers of the motherland, and young children deserve the best education and care. However, in recent years, incidents of child abuse by kindergarten teachers have occurred frequently. First, a five-year-old girl in Taiyuan, Shanxi Province won't be slapped by a teacher for dozens of times, and then Wenling, Zhejiang Province has transformed the "slap in the face" into "pulling her ears off the ground" ... The incident of child abuse by kindergarten teachers has sounded the alarm for our early childhood education, and the frequent occurrence of child abuse incidents has even led to kindergartens blooming everywhere, disorderly management, and preschool education, especially children. The relevant departments have extensive management of early childhood education and lack of supervision. The low entry threshold for running kindergartens leads to uneven quality of preschool education institutions. Kindergartens with poor educational facilities, living conditions and teachers are also listed. Some kindergarten teachers have never even participated in systematic education and training, and have never understood the true meaning of teachers' morality and style. This may be an important reason for the frequent incidents of child abuse.
My view on "child abuse" is more than 800 words. From the teacher's point of view, the authenticity of the report is worth investigating. Teachers punish students, but teachers can't abuse children. This is in our nature. Simple corporal punishment, in the media, will be infinitely magnified. For the authenticity of the report, the relevant websites have no real investigation, so they let individuals or so-called journalists upload it at will. That's right. ! ! ! From the child's point of view, we have a heartfelt awe of the teacher. Teachers are very concerned about our study, and sometimes they criticize us severely. We know that the teacher is kind to us, and sometimes we really don't understand what the teacher says. We know that we all like PE teachers, because the teacher always takes us to play and the teacher beats us, and we don't hate him, because the teacher doesn't care about us, and we won't learn! ! From the parents' point of view, it is wrong for teachers to hit children. Tell us what you have to say. My own children are spoiled, sometimes naughty, and we also have a headache. But we send our children to school to study, not to fight. Sometimes we can understand the teacher and hate iron for not turning into steel. However, I feel that corporal punishment is always not a good way! From the point of view of the subordinate audience, this matter is not that simple. I hope I can suggest a mechanism that can make children really want to learn, want to learn and want to learn. The school has a great responsibility for this matter. I hope the relevant departments care about school education.
5. My opinion on the incident of child abuse by kindergarten teachers in Wenling, Zhejiang Province: 10/On October 24th, an incident of child abuse by kindergarten teachers occurred in Wenling, Zhejiang Province, which triggered a hot discussion among netizens after being exposed on the Internet.
Subsequently, the Wenling Education Bureau and the Public Security Bureau responded quickly and punished the relevant parties according to law. 10 year 10 On October 28th, Wenling Public Security Bureau formally applied for approval to arrest Mr. Yan, so that the storm of public opinion gradually subsided.
However, recently, after reviewing the child abuse case of Yan, the procuratorial organ thought that supplementary investigation was needed, and Yan's relatives also requested judicial expertise. The public security organ will continue to investigate the case. At this point, the public opinion incident has made waves again, triggering a hot discussion on the Internet.
I. The event was replayed in Weibo, and the media 10 followed up. 1October 24 13 or so, the netizen "Talking 090080" posted some pictures related to child abuse by female teachers in Wenling in Weibo, saying that a teacher surnamed Yan abused children in a kindergarten in Wenling, and Weibo forwarded a lot of comments according to law. Subsequently, China News Network took the lead in reporting the incident with the title "Zhejiang Wenling Child Abuse Kindergarten Department called the behavior" fun ". After the incident was exposed, it caused netizens to watch and discuss.
When Wenling Education Bureau promptly rectified and dismissed Yanmou101October 24th 16, Wenling Education Bureau issued a message saying that it instructed Blue Peacock Kindergarten in Chengxi Street to make an in-depth inspection, rectify in time and immediately dismiss relevant teachers. At the same time, the education department has reported to the public security department, and if there is any violation, the public security department will deal with it.
In addition, Wenling has informed the whole city of this matter, asking all kinds of schools at all levels in the city to take a warning and earnestly strengthen the education of teachers' morality. Police handle child abuse teachers according to law 65438+1At noon on October 25th, Wenling police gave criminal detention and administrative detention to two female child abuse teachers, Yan and Tong respectively.
Yan was detained on suspicion of seeking trouble, and Tong was administratively detained for 7 days. 1On October 26th, Zhejiang Provincial Department of Education apologized to the injured kindergarten children and their parents, and announced that new kindergarten teachers in the province must have teacher qualification certificates in the future, which will be a necessary condition for employment.
Zhejiang will establish a special inspection system for teachers' morality and style throughout the province, once a semester, and incorporate teachers' morality and style into the annual assessment of grass-roots education administrative departments and schools at all levels, as well as the annual inspection and rating of private kindergartens. 10 year 10 On October 27th, the director of Blue Peacock Kindergarten, where child abuse teacher Yan was located, was dismissed. At the same time, the local education bureau transferred three public kindergarten management cadres with rich experience in kindergarten management from Wenling City to form a "three-person working group" to enter the Blue Peacock Kindergarten and temporarily take over the daily work of the garden.
6. Discussion on Child Abuse In recent years, incidents of child abuse by kindergarten teachers have occurred frequently.
The kidney beans of the 3-year-old girl were licked by the old teacher, the 7-year-old boy was forced to accept the punishment of ultraviolet "disinfection", and seven children were burned by the teacher with an electric iron for talking in class ... The kindergarten teacher's poisonous hand frequently reached out to the children, which made us feel ashamed. Kindergarten teachers were originally the group that children wanted to be close to, but why did the former "angel" and "intimate sister" become "devil" and "grandma wolf" today? This is not only the sorrow of children and parents, but also the sorrow of kindergarten teachers and preschool education, and it is also the sorrow of this society.
We can't help asking, "Is there a dutiful son under the stick?" It has to be admitted that due to the lack of high-quality educational resources, in order to improve the quality of education, some places often turn a blind eye to teachers' corporal punishment of students. Parents who have high hopes for their children, for fear of offending teachers and missing their children, can only submit to humiliation even if they have a slight complaint about corporal punishment.
However, in this way, children's dignity, freedom, rights and childhood fun are almost overhead. This has to be said to be a failure of education.
Teachers have the right to criticize pedagogy students in teaching, but criticism does not mean unscrupulous punishment, let alone unreasonable abuse. Teaching students by corporal punishment is itself a manifestation of teachers' incompetence.
A really good teacher will never teach with sticks. As far as education is concerned, we should not only pay attention to the quality of education, but also ensure the healthy growth of children.
Frequent child abuse incidents have also sounded the alarm for our early childhood education, and even triggered a series of heavy topics, such as the false color of kindergarten teachers, the blooming of kindergartens everywhere, and the imperfection of early childhood education system. In-depth thinking, we can easily find that behind the "child abuse incident" is the absence of three parties: First, the level of teachers is generally low.
Kindergarten teachers work hard, their wages are low, and their recruitment standards are relatively low. When recruiting kindergarten teachers, some schools only pay attention to personal education and external appearance, ignoring personal inner morality, and work assessment is also "more important than quality". Early childhood education is simply equivalent to "taking care of children", and now the professional quality of kindergarten teachers is getting lower and lower.
Some kindergarten teachers go to work without special training, and even don't understand the basic knowledge of early childhood education, the age and personality characteristics of young children, and the educational methods. Their patience is extremely limited and their management is ineffective, which has laid the groundwork for the occurrence of "child abuse incidents". Second, educational institutions are mixed.
"It is difficult to enter the park, but it is difficult to go to heaven." This cry has already spread all over the earth. There are many problems in preschool education, such as the scarcity of public parks, the polarization of private parks, the privilege of high-quality resources, and the aristocratization of fees.
Judging from the current situation of education in China, preschool education is not included in the compulsory education category, can not be included in the overall national financial planning, has no preferential policies, has little investment, and has a serious shortage of preschool education practitioners and talents, resulting in a large demand for preschool education, a small supply and expensive fees. Driven by market interests, the public welfare of pre-school education is gradually weakening, and there is even a trend that public kindergartens are turned into private ones in some places.
When the foundation, publicity and public welfare of early childhood education are ignored and the main responsibility of early childhood education is pushed to social forces and markets at all levels, many unhealthy institutions take the opportunity to set up kindergartens. The purpose of running a school is to collect money, and you can become a teacher by recruiting some people casually, regardless of the safety, diet and daily life of young children. Similar "child abuse incidents" will inevitably happen.
Third, external supervision is weak. Almost every time after the "child abuse incident", the parties are just fined or dismissed, and then nothing happens.
What's more, from one kindergarten to another, I keep extending my invisible claws to young children. In the face of the explicit provisions of the Law on the Protection of Minors, the Law on Compulsory Education and the Law on Teachers, there are very few cases that bear corresponding criminal responsibilities.
Simple punishment can't play a deterrent role at all. In addition, the law is not complied with and the law enforcement is lax. We have to watch the tragedy unfold again and again. The "sadness of preschool education" reflected by the "child abuse incident" cannot simply point the finger at kindergarten teachers.
Teachers, educational institutions, and * * * should find reasons from themselves, find problems, improve them, and form a joint force to avoid such incidents. First of all, we should strengthen the professional quality training of kindergarten teachers.
Kindergarten teachers' profession is also the most sacred profession in the world, and kindergarten teachers are also engineers of human souls. Teachers' morality in kindergarten is the most conscientious work. Compared with other industries, the professional quality of kindergarten teachers is particularly important.
At present, under the new situation of socialist modernization and reform and opening up, in the process of establishing a socialist market economic system, the demand for talents is bound to be high-quality and high-level professional and technical talents. As a basic education, kindergarten teachers should also improve their own quality to meet the requirements of the new era.
First of all, we should strengthen political study, cultivate lofty professional ethics, selfless dedication, meticulous care, tireless patience in teaching, and pure and simple childlike innocence. These are the basic conditions for a kindergarten teacher. Secondly, we should strengthen theoretical study and cultivate a reasonable knowledge structure. Kindergarten teachers who don't understand business and have no professional culture are misleading children. Solid theoretical knowledge, extensive popular science knowledge, profound professional knowledge and emerging frontier knowledge will be the source of lifelong learning and education for a kindergarten teacher.
Preschool teachers must deeply understand the great and far-reaching significance of strengthening the construction of professional ethics, so as to consciously love their careers and children, improve their professional and cultural quality, and pay attention to their image, so as to improve their own quality, adapt to the needs of reform and opening up in the new period, and become a qualified preschool teacher. The second is to improve the entry threshold for kindergartens to run parks.
"A hundred years of life is based on childhood." Early childhood education is the foundation of adult education and the highest education, which directly affects the growth and development of children, is an important stage related to children's cultivation and life growth, and has a key impact on people's behavior habits, cognitive styles and personality characteristics.
In order to improve the basic quality of Chinese citizens and ensure the continuity of national education, * * * should increase financial support for preschool education and properly consider bringing preschool education into the scope of public services. The relevant departments should formulate a set of.
7. The incident of child abuse in red, yellow and blue kindergartens is shocking. How to supervise frequent child abuse incidents? I dare say what I can think of:
1. each district should set up a supervision department for this kind of incident and go to school for inspection at least twice a week! From the hierarchical management of cities, counties and towns, the superior must check the work once a month;
2.ZF has issued special laws to deal with this problem, and all those who appear this situation will be severely punished. If the circumstances are serious, the highest can be shot;
3. Set up a special parent supervision meeting. Each class organizes a parent-teacher conference once a week. The students complained that they were treated unfairly at school. The parent supervision Committee has the right to ask the school to change teachers, and the superior ZF supervision Committee will ensure that once illegal and criminal acts are committed, they must stop immediately;
4. Students and parents implement a grading system for teachers, which is graded once every quarter. Teachers whose comprehensive scores are not up to standard will be suspended for the first time 1 month. Teachers will teach normally within this month, and will grade again after 1 month. Those who are qualified will remain in their posts, and those who are unqualified will be expelled!
Personal opinion, I hope I can do my part!
8. Reflection on what happened in a kindergarten in Taiyuan, Shanxi Province from the incident of child abuse by kindergarten teachers.
The surveillance video shows that the teacher slapped many children, and one of the girls was slapped dozens of times. Then someone exposed a set of photos and exposed the child abuse incident of a kindergarten teacher in Wenling, Zhejiang. The teacher grabbed a child's ear with both hands and lifted him off the ground. The child's expression was painful.
After the video and photos were exposed on the Internet, public opinion was in an uproar. Such cruel abuse occurred in the kindergarten where children were sheltered, which made parents feel sad. I wonder when this will happen to their children.
However, the violent and cruel behavior of teachers in videos and photos also makes people have more general doubts and worries: even if the identity of kindergarten teachers is not considered, their behavior violates the basic common sense of human nature. They have been or will be * * *, mothers, and they should have love for their children based on human instinct. What caused them to abandon or lose such nature and become so surly and cruel? From the videos and photos exposed on the Internet, it can be seen that the former kindergarten teacher slaps a child dozens of times, and the degree of violence is far from anger or impatience, but it seems that there is infinite resentment and needs to be vented.
When the kindergarten teacher of the latter mentioned the child's ear, she not only had no sympathy for the child's pain, but even laughed jokingly. After the incident, in addition to angry condemnation, public opinion also analyzed and attributed the frequent occurrence of such behaviors.
For example, because there is no special child abuse charges in China's criminal law, the punishment for the parties involved in such incidents is weak. The teacher of child abuse kindergarten in Wenling, Zhejiang Province was detained for the crime of "seeking trouble and causing trouble", which obviously exposed the embarrassment of the law.
In addition, some critics believe that the insufficient supply of preschool education resources in China, the uneven qualifications of private kindergarten teachers and a large number of unqualified kindergarten teachers are also important reasons for frequent child abuse incidents. For example, the kindergarten exposed to child abuse in Taiyuan, Shanxi Province is an unlicensed "black kindergarten", while the kindergarten in Wenling, Zhejiang Province is a private kindergarten. The two kindergarten teachers who were involved in the accident have not obtained the qualification of kindergarten teachers.
The Ministry of Education has issued a statement that such incidents will be dealt with seriously. I believe the law will punish them appropriately, and the establishment of "child abuse charges" should be put on the legislative agenda as soon as possible.
When incredible events occur frequently, we should not just regard them as accidental bizarre cases, but should see more lessons and hidden worries from them.