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"The Biography of Pang Gong in the Later Han Dynasty": "Living in Shan Zhinan; Never been into the city. Husband and wife respect each other as guests. "
example sentence
Xiaomei's grandparents have lived together for decades.
Approximate antonym
synonym
Qi Mei? The Qi Mei case? Love each other? Treat each other like guests? Respect each other
antonym
Stay at a respectful distance from sb? Break the mirror? The harp is not tuned properly? fall out and become enemies
General regulations
During the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a nobleman named Kui Ji in the State of Jin. His father was killed after committing a crime, so he was demoted to a civilian and made a living by farming. Jique didn't blame others because of the change of identity and the great turning point of personal experience. While making a living, he learned from ancient and modern sages to cultivate his morality, and his virtue is increasing day by day. ?
Jake's wife is very virtuous. In order not to delay her husband's working time, she always cooks at home and sends it to the farmland. On one occasion, Jiu Ji, a doctor of the State of Jin, went to Lu and happened to pass by the field where Ji lacked her family when she came back. At this moment, Jique's wife is delivering food to her husband. She held the rice bowl high above her head and respectfully handed it to her husband, just like a distinguished guest. ?
Jique responded to his wife with the same courtesy and respectfully accepted the job. When Ji was short of food, his wife stood by respectfully. When her husband finished eating, she packed the tableware, said goodbye to her husband and went home.
Seeing this scene, Jiu Ji was moved and admired: "What a virtuous person a husband and wife can have such respect and care! If such people help manage the state of Jin, the country will be prosperous. ?
After Jiuji returned to the State of Jin, he told Jin Wengong about it: "Kui Ji is a man of noble character. He can treat his wife and family with respect, and he will certainly help the king faithfully. Please give him an official position! " Jin Wengong hesitated. After all, Ji's father committed a crime.
Jiu Ji advised him, "At first, Yao ordered Gun to control the flood, but it took Gun nine years to control the flood, so Shun killed him. However, Shun later ordered Yu, the son of Gun, to control water. Yu learned the lesson of his father's failure in water control and finally completed the great cause of water control.
Historically, wise monarchs can appoint descendants of guilty people. What's wrong with that? "Jin Wengong think mortar season is very reasonable, so he appointed JiQue as a military doctor, and later JiQue made a great contribution and was promoted to QingDafu.