When feelings go deep, they tend to calm down, because the hot time has passed, and the feelings begin to enter the adjustment period. At this time, there is not much passion left in the feelings, and couples think more about practical problems. As the passion of feelings fades away, many couples will find that there is not much to talk about between them, and their daily chat and communication are perfunctory, or they don't chat at all, and their emotional development seems to have come to a standstill!
This situation is a normal phenomenon for couples. There is nothing to worry about, but couples can't let it go on like this. They need to find a way to solve it. Generally speaking, as long as couples have nothing to talk about, they can try to chat like this. In the right way, couples can still rekindle the flame of love!
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If you have nothing to talk about, you can talk some nonsense, and it is important to keep communication.
When some couples are caught in a situation where there is nothing to talk about, they tend to stay in a state of not talking, and they can't talk for several times a month. After a long time, their feelings will fade sooner or later. If they really have nothing to talk about, they can talk nonsense. Talking nonsense is also a way of communication, and as long as there are communication problems, they can be solved!
You can talk nonsense like this. You have three meals a day, ask several times a day if you have eaten, and then talk about what you have eaten. You can talk about what you have eaten and how to do it. There are three time periods every day, ask several times a day, and then talk about what you have done and what you have done. Every day, the topic will be endless, because everyone's life is different every day. But remember to change several chat angles when chatting like this! Don't bore each other! Always communicate again is the most important thing!
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No topic to talk about, find a topic to talk about yourself
Many people think that it is easy to finish the topic when chatting too much, but in the end, there is no topic to talk about. Actually, this is not the case. No topic to talk about is just an excuse not to find a topic to talk about. There are many topics to talk about if you really have the heart. The key is whether you are willing to find it or not!
There are many topics. Usually, you can talk about news and current events, talk about popular TV series, spit out the plot or analyze the characters, or you can share the eight-part entertainment, such as music, movies and books. It is easy to talk more and more, and the topics are basically endless, because news will happen constantly and new dramas will be broadcast continuously! In short, the topic can't stop, and lovers who feel that they have nothing to talk about can just talk!
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There is really nothing to talk about, and there are many other methods.
Sometimes, if you talk too much, you will always feel bored. At this time, couples need to use other methods, such as playing games and other entertainment projects. If you are bored, you can have fun, play a game or watch a movie, or at worst, you can play some new game facilities, script killing and board games. After entertaining together, there will naturally be topics to talk about, and feelings can still remain hot. Not letting feelings be silent is the best way to maintain feelings!
There are always various problems between lovers. Only by successfully overcoming them can the relationship be successful. When encountering problems, you should not try to escape, but actively solve the problems in your relationship. This is a really good attitude to maintain your relationship!