First, change the concept: the concept determines our behavior, behavior creates our destiny. Fate is self-made, to have a good fate first to have a good idea, if the world is full of anger and hate, cool Buddha will become a house of fire; embracing love for everything in the world, live a happy life, dirty Saha is the beautiful Pure Land. Therefore, by removing evil and incorrect concepts, establishing correct knowledge and positive views, and turning self-loathing into the power of positivity, good fortune will follow.
Second, change the attitude: the same encounter, each person's attitude in the world is different, the results are very different. Stingy people will only enrich their own pockets, like to give people always want to help the community; anger and jealousy heavy people, all day mood depressed, open-minded people, every day happy; anorexia recluse only want to be alone, love of family and the country is active in the service of the townships. Everyone's attitude towards the world is different, the breadth of friendships is different, and the level of influence will be different.
Third, change habits: vices eat away at our lives, destroying our happiness; bad habits, once formed, not only affects the whole life, the consequences are endless, and the harm is endless. As the saying goes, "It is easy to change one's habits, but not one's nature", it is very difficult to change, however, there are those who are willing to make a firm determination to reverse years of bad habits and change their lives. For example, if a person who often curses others and has no goodwill can change his or her ways, then he or she can speak more kindly and praise others more often, and his or her goodwill will follow him or her.
Fourth, change the personality: replace the bad heart with a good heart, replace the disgusting heart with a good heart, replace the evil heart with a positive heart; will be difficult to change the character of the correction, the violent temper into a soft, aloof temperament into the fate of the change, the fate of the change must follow.
The heavens do not have the ability to turn us into saints and sages, the heavens can not make us become a peddler, into the saints and sages have to rely on their own to accomplish, the so-called "no natural born Sakya," as long as we strive to be good and upward, a good fate is expected. How to change fate, there are four points of view:
First, change the concept,
Second, change the attitude,
Third, change the habit,
Fourth, change the personality.