When I was a teenager, I had a rough life and was bullied.
You don't have to go after details, so you can know how Liu Xue has come through this short life.
Finally, he said: when you were born, you were light, and when you were still young, you were clean.
Come into this world is despised, and leave this world quietly.
Who is the executioner?
Relatives, bullies, media reports, cyber mobs, or a disorderly society? Who caused the avalanche? No one ever confessed.
Liu Xue: When I left, the whole world began to love me. What a hypocritical world it is.
The following 16 law, let's see the coldness and absurdity that goes deep into the bone marrow.
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alligator principle
Alligator Principle
Alligator principle, also known as crocodile effect, is one of the technical rules of economic transactions. The law refers to:
Suppose a crocodile bites your foot. If you try to get rid of your foot with your hand, the crocodile will bite your foot and hand at the same time. The more you struggle, the more you get bitten.
In the world of public opinion on the Internet, the people who commit cyber violence are just crocodiles. Once you are bitten by them, the more you argue with them, the more you will be hurt. The most important thing to do at this time is not to argue, but to give up the argument decisively and quit in time.
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The 80/20 Rule
Pareto Principle
In any system, the most important part only accounts for about 20%, and the remaining 80% is secondary, so it is called the 28 law. The same is true of today's Internet environment. Rational netizens are only a minority, while those who are loud and emotional will always be the majority.
In such a public opinion environment, no matter how Liu Xue defended itself, it could not resist the voice of the "majority".
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Anchoring effect
Anchoring Effect
Anchoring effect refers to people's preconceptions when making judgments about something, and their thinking is influenced by the first information or the first impression. The first information, like an anchor sinking to the bottom of the sea, firmly fixes people's thoughts somewhere, which leads people to unconsciously pay too much attention to the information they first obtained when making decisions or judgments.
When people saw the news released by the media, they assumed that Liu Xue was taking advantage of the kindness of netizens to gain sympathy, so they immediately went to Weibo, Liu Xue to abuse, instead of slowing down, and thought more about the news itself.
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Seven seconds memory
7 seconds of memory
In modern society, the Internet can store huge amounts of data, but people are getting better and better at forgetting, and even only have "seven seconds of memory". Although the seven-second memory is only an image metaphor, it is an indisputable fact that the Internet is becoming more and more forgetful. It's not only Liu Xue that experienced cyber violence, but also the anchor "Luo Xiaomaozi" and the female nurse "Fei Tuotuo-Mu Xiuxiu", and similar incidents abound. But people are good at forgetting, and after today, it will remain the same tomorrow. Liu Xue is not the first person to experience cyber violence, nor will it be the last.
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Black sheep effect
Black Sheep Effect
The so-called black sheep effect refers to the mysterious phenomenon that a group of "good people" bully one "good people" while other "good people" sit idly by. In the anonymous internet, many people will stand on the commanding heights of morality, pull the banner of self-righteousness, and work together to "condemn" and even hurt an isolated individual with words. Liu Xue is an isolated individual in the whole cyberstorm.
Those who don't want to be the perpetrators or victims, that is, many people who knew about the incident in the early days, would rather look on coldly than take practical actions to stop this harmful behavior. In the end, almost everyone became a "bad guy".
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chaos theory
Chaos Theory
In a system, under the initial conditions, even a small change can drive a huge chain reaction of the whole system, which is called chaos effect.
He was sold by his biological parents at the moment of birth, and his four-year-old adoptive parents died unfortunately. He was discriminated against and violated at school, and was blacked out after recognizing his parents ...
Being abandoned at the moment of birth is the starting point of Liu Xue's life and the beginning of his whole life tragedy.
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Moscoe theorem
Mosco Theorem
This theorem means that the first answer you get is not necessarily the best answer. This is because when you ask people questions, their first reaction is often to think or deal with them at will, and only by continuing to ask questions can they get the answers they want. When Liu Xue committed suicide and passed away, people blamed cyber-bullies, but is it the best answer to solve the problem of cyber-bullies? If we don't reflect and ask more questions, is it an extension of tragedy to condemn the behavior of cyber bullies?
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Law of wine and sewage
Wineand Sewage Law
If you pour a spoonful of wine into a bucket of sewage, you get a bucket of sewage; If you pour a spoonful of sewage into a barrel of wine, you will still get a barrel of sewage. In other words, the ratio of sewage to wine does not determine the nature of this bucket, but the spoonful of sewage really plays a decisive role. As long as there is it, no amount of wine will become sewage.
The same is true of the Internet environment. For the victims of cyber-violence, the horror of cyber-violence lies not only in the large number of cyber-violent people, but also in the cyber-violence itself. Sometimes even if the cyber-violent person only makes a slanderous remark, it is enough to cause great psychological harm to the cyber-violent person. Words like "scheming bitch", "Die" and "Nianpao" are unbearable spoonfuls of sewage for Liu Xue.
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Iceberg theory
Iceberg Theory
An information system supporting decision-making is based on the correct collection and processing of a large number of information data. Although people don't see much in the foreground, a much larger system is running in the invisible background. Just like an iceberg, only 1% of it is exposed to the water, but the underwater part is enough to sink the Titanic countless times.
Many people are shocked by Liu Xue's suicide, but they don't know that behind this decision, childhood experiences, parents' malice and online abuse have become a huge system, which led to his final decision.
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The spiral of silence
The Spiral Of Silence
When people express their thoughts and opinions, if they see that the views they agree with are widely welcomed, then people will subconsciously "firmly believe" that their views are "correct"; On the other hand, if people find that their views are not widely supported, then people will choose to remain silent. In Internet communication, the rational majority is often the silent majority.
Before Liu Xue committed suicide, his Weibo and private letters were full of accusations and abuse, which caused some well-intentioned people to be silent. The spiral effect of silence is bidirectional, and the more silent the silent party is, the more radical the expressive party is. It was not until Liu Xue committed suicide that the spiral was broken.
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D-K Effect
Dunning-Kruger Effect
The Ducker effect is called Deng Ning-Kruger effect. Ducker effect refers to a phenomenon that an individual makes an inaccurate evaluation of his ability when completing a task in a specific field. When completing a task in a specific field, those with low ability will overestimate their ability, even significantly exceed the average level, while those with high ability will underestimate their ability.
In the Liu Xue incident, people with low abilities overestimated their abilities, abused and accused, and pointed fingers; High-ability people underestimate their abilities and remain silent.
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Murphy's law
Murphy's Law
If there are two choices, one of which will lead to disaster, then someone will make this choice.
In the face of goodwill and malice, some netizens chose malice; Faced with suicide or persistence, Liu Xue chose suicide.
If you are worried about something happening, it is more likely to happen.
When Liu Xue was faced with layers of malice, some netizens worried that Liu Xue would commit suicide, and it finally happened.
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Schrodinger's netizen
Schr? dinger’s Cat
In a closed quantum system, Schrodinger's cat can be both dead and alive at the same time. On the internet platform, the same person can be "both the perpetrator and the voice of injustice" at the same time.
The people who used to cyber-storm Liu Xue and those who are now cyber-storming "cyber-stormers" are actually the same group.
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Imaging law
Convex lens imaging
The law of imaging means that if an object is placed outside the focus of the convex lens, it will become an inverted real image on the other side of the convex lens. There are three kinds of real images: reduced, equal and enlarged. The smaller the object distance, the larger the image distance and the larger the real image.
Our cognitive structure and the words that present news events are all convex lenses. People often think that what the eyes see is the event itself, however, what they actually see is the imaging of the convex lens. Only by recognizing the existence of "convex lens" and relying on reason to overcome the prejudice brought by self-cognitive structure and news reports can we get closer to the truth and avoid the recurrence of the tragedy of cyber violence.
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Entropy increasing theorem
The Law Of Entropy Generation
In an isolated system, molecules always tend to be dispersed and disordered from the original centralized and orderly arrangement. In the spontaneous process of the system from order to disorder, entropy will always increase, which is the so-called "entropy increase principle" Schrodinger said that only through the intervention of external forces can this phenomenon be reversed. As a relatively closed social platform, Weibo's public opinion as a whole presents a state of disorder. In the whole incident of cyber-violence in Liu Xue, cyber-violence spread rapidly at first because there was no external intervention.
If there are corresponding laws and enforcement agencies at the beginning and more "entropy reduction" actions can be taken, for example, to control the words and deeds of cyber violence, then the "entropy" of this system will not increase to a critical point. Or force platforms like Weibo to make corresponding adjustments to prevent cyber violence. Then, the whole incident may not necessarily be the end of such a tragedy.
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Heine's law
Heinrich′s Law
There are countless mistakes that we haven't seen. Behind every serious accident, there must be 29 minor accidents and 300 near misses, as well as 1000 accident hazards. Heine's Law emphasizes that accidents are the result of accumulation of various minor hidden dangers, that is to say, before every serious accident, there are 1329 minor hidden dangers, and every hidden danger is an opportunity for correction.
Abandoned at birth, adoptive parents died in an accident when they were four years old, and they were discriminated against and violated at school ... These are the "hidden dangers" behind suicide in Liu Xue. If these problems can be avoided or corrected at the beginning, then Liu Xue will not commit suicide. In the tragic life of Liu Xue, too many people have missed too many opportunities for revision, and social disorder is hidden behind it.
knot
16 cold theorems are followed by human nature reflected by the noise.
Liu Xue died not only because of the probability of Murphy's law, the entropy reduction of isolated systems and the stupidity of Ducker effect; But also because of the indifference of the spiral of silence, the contempt of seven seconds' memory and the promotion of Heine's law.
"The sun shines on the sea, and I also belong to the sea. Ending my life from here also took away the most beautiful scenery in the world. " Liu Xue's suicide note has a quiet poetry.
However, behind this quiet poetry, people are reminded of what Mr. Lu Xun said in "Grave": "Just close your eyes. If you are really here and hear me, teach this crow to fly to the top of your grave and show it to me. "
This muddy world does not deserve such a clear soul.