When I was two months pregnant, the doctor said that there was a bit of preeclampsia, and asked me to take a leave of absence to rest, but I didn't take it seriously and didn't ask for a leave of absence, and went to work all the time.
Then it is to go to work, before I was pregnant, I was on my own transportation to work, after pregnancy is the same, from home to the unit only a direct bus, the whole process takes an hour to catch a very unfortunate is that our unit, that repair road, no direct car, can only be backed up, every day 6:00 less than to go out, the road is farther than before, the time has also become longer, but I've never been people people to send, it's just a matter of time. I've never had anyone give me a ride, I've just been going back and forth on my own until I had to be born.
From pregnancy to now there is no too pretentious, at the beginning of pregnancy no pregnancy reaction every day is to do what to do, but to the eighth week on the nausea began to hard to eat and then after the dry vomit, every day, water and rice not into the face of the bed to drink some water to hold the toilet spit half a day, so difficult to trouble others, even their own mother did not let her help even the A meal did not ask her to do, a whole month do not eat, drink and vomit to the end of the stomach are bleeding half a month from 110 pounds to 90 pounds, the only time and her husband pretentious in bed rolling and crying said the child do not go to the hospital to fight, but then looked at him heartbroken and helpless with tears in his eyes, a word did not say their own drive out to cry me from that time and never pretentious again, vomit can not stand up to the husband took me to the hospital to maintain infusion, no matter what, go home and lie down on the bed and bite the tongue, and I will be able to take my husband to the hospital. No matter how it is used to go home and lie on the bed by yourself and grit your teeth, fortunately, after 16 weeks of the belly of the baby is not torturing me, now 29 weeks of all the work at home is their own, every day, shopping and cooking and clean up the housework and washing clothes did not use anyone, in fact, the pregnancy is a normal process of conception do not need to be too pretentious and appropriate not to let the family have pressure for this!
My pregnancy is the most ostentatious is 60 days test double line, and then, did not tell mom and dad, with her husband and two people to go to Bohol for a week. Because the elders and friends around me said that 3 months is not stable, especially flying will not be safe, I finished the test, the first thing I said to my husband is " I think I have it, but I still want to go to the Philippines. "
The pretentious thing two, to 39 weeks of pregnancy still take the ball outside the class to listen to lectures, the beautiful name of fetal education. In fact, eight and a half months when I began to take a vacation, but the days of leisure only after a week began to pretentious busy, about friends to eat a lunch, go outside to see a movie, take a class or something. I always feel, in the home either dizziness, or stomach desperately moving, a go out of the door on everything is good.
The third thing is to insist on being alone at home until the prenatal period, not accepting the mother and mother-in-law to take care of the home. I'd like to stay home alone, read a book, write an article, draw a doodle. Mom came to hush instead of difficult, a moment to not let me eat ice cream, a moment to tell me the story of the family of seven aunts and uncles. My mother-in-law used to think I was underdressed, why don't you wear socks, but my husband is still barefoot at home.
Ornery deed four, train my husband to cook for me before work, although not I forced. I don't know how to cook, there is no old man to help, and worry about me taking out all day long, so my husband can only get up early every day to cook for me. And I, too, obediently and forever praising him for doing a good job, so that he can not find a reason to strike.
The fifth thing is, because I am not used to seeing my friends with children being led by their parents, I also went to learn positive discipline, but also coincidentally became a lecturer, and became a parenting expert. I have to say, pretentiousness makes progress!
The sixth thing, during the pregnancy, I ate crayfish, crabs, spicy hot pot, almost every day an ice cream, but also swore to the side of the pregnant friends, Cui Yutao, Duan Tao said you can eat, you eat up.
I think it's good to be a little bit more aggressive when you're pregnant, and you're not a 10-month queen for nothing.
I didn't have to be "flippant" when I was pregnant.
The key is that my physical state was almost the same when I was pregnant as it was when I wasn't. I didn't have any vomiting, I didn't have any discomfort, I was in good spirits, and most of all, I had a superb appetite, and I commuted to and from work every day, and many of my coworkers didn't even know that I was pregnant when I was in my 6th and 7th months of pregnancy.
If I have to say something "pretentious", I guess it is in front of my husband's various "can" it, relying on their own pregnancy, instructing their husbands, all kinds of do whatever they want;
There is also the excuse that you can refuse to go to places you don't want to go or do things you don't want to do on the pretext of being pregnant. I don't want to go anywhere or do anything, for example, I don't want to go to my husband's relatives' house for dinner, and if I feel uncomfortable and twisted, I can say that I don't feel well and want to rest and sleep for a while.
I seem to be from pregnancy to birth has not been pretentious
Is it possible that I am a fake woman? Or am I a woman?
Probably because of the education from childhood, before I was pregnant and gave birth to a child, I was always quite afraid of giving birth to a child, afraid of the pain can not stand, but really pregnant, it is a real breeze, but also their own to go to the maternity check, their own to go to buy food, their own to go to cook, did not produce a certain need to take care of others to take care of their own meanings, and then even the mother is not around.
Because from childhood, mom's education is to do things by themselves, do not have to rely on others, now mom is still so.
The mother's instinctive protection
After having a baby, the mother naturally has a deep desire to protect the child. So it's a bit of a cautionary tale. Especially in the first trimester, it's a time when you really need to be protective, of yourself and of your child.
As a baby mom who has just given birth to two babies, I would also like to answer.
First, know that after the pregnancy is not in the kitchen, to know not pregnant before is every day in the kitchen, just pregnant when not much feeling, but that is not going to cook again, through to the husband to deal with. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world.
Secondly, after pregnancy, even the bath boil water have to be husband to do, never lifting heavy things.
My husband lives in a rented house, so every time I take a shower, I have to use a hot water heater to boil water.
All the meals are bought by the husband, and then do it yourself, since the pregnancy did not go out to eat.
Fruits, walnuts and other things are husband peeled, peeled and handed over to the mouth.
A month from the due date for maternity leave, because of the fear of premature birth of twins, so the leave, and that period of time to do the fetal monitoring often do not, the doctor often told me to let me hospitalized to protect the fetus, scared me, plus their own back and forth running is really tired.
In addition to going to the hospital, every day after the leave, sleep to wake up naturally, do not have to do anything, the husband does not need me to do, the basic work all inclusive.
The time when I was pregnant was the time when I was the most pretentious, and I felt like a queen for a few months.
I'm sorry to say that it's all tears, but I'm going to count the things that I did during my two pregnancies!
When I was pregnant with my oldest:
I threw up for more than 5 months from the beginning of my pregnancy!
From the beginning of the pregnancy, the whole five months, I had to vomit half a day to drink a mouthful of water, and I didn't dare to eat rice as a staple, because I couldn't vomit after eating rice, and I couldn't vomit in my throat, so I almost vomited out of my throat.
I remember once my husband was on a business trip, called me to ask what I ate for dinner, I clearly remember, I was alone, a hand holding a steamed bun to chew, a hand holding a bottle of mineral water, he asked me what I ate for dinner, I said steamed buns on the mineral water, he said that so frugal to do, eat a little bit of good. I said eat good bad spit ah!
In this way to more than six months, it is hard not to vomit, and began to sleep when the whole body pain. As we all know, the frequency of going to the bathroom in late pregnancy is very high, several times a night, and every time you have to have someone to help you to get up.
When I was pregnant with my second child,
I was pregnant for three months, but I stopped immediately after the third month, and I was so happy that I was not able to get up!
But not happy two days, I began to vomit and diarrhea, acute enteritis. The first thought was to go to the hospital and the doctor would not prescribe medication, so it was hard to resist. The first time I saw this, I was able to get the ball rolling, and I was able to get the ball rolling, and I was able to get the ball rolling.
After two days of acute enteritis, I began to itch all over again. The doctor gave a glycerin lotion to the hospital, but it didn't work at all, and I scratched myself all day long! The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for it!
A month later, the body does not itch, I got shingles again! The relatives who have got it should have a deep feeling, that kind of pain which is not even pregnant with a child have to be hospitalized, and I am pregnant with a child, there is no treatment, there is only one thing - to carry! I was in pain during the day and at night for another month! That month was a very long time for me, and I felt the pain that was worse than death! I really understand why some people with terminal illnesses simply cut themselves off, not too weak will, but really unbearable torture!
Fortunately, I got through it.
They are the first to be able to use their own personal computer to help them with their own personal computer.
After experiencing these pregnancy "embarrassing" things, I cherish the good life when the little bits and pieces!
It is said that a woman is a "princess for a day, a queen for ten months, and a laborer for a lifetime".
Before I got pregnant, I also fantasized about how I was going to be a "queen" when I was pregnant for ten months, and I was able to live comfortably for ten months. But when I was pregnant, I realized that I was simply "too independent", and I couldn't get up, so I did what I was supposed to do.
On the contrary, my family is more concerned about me and my baby than I am during my pregnancy. Not let me do this not let me do that; what fruits and vegetables delicious nutritious all sent to me in front; every time to do the maternity test, the family that is not available, mother-in-law also have to endure the pain of dizzy bus to accompany me to go (go once or twice or to persuade her to stay at home, do not have to accompany me to go) ...... In short, the pregnancy and I have fantasized about how to be "ostentatious". I'm not sure what I'm talking about, but I'm glad that my family cared about me, and I had a good time during the whole pregnancy.
When I was pregnant, I really didn't have to pretend, I insisted on going to work to nine months, never late, no early departure, no work a little bit to keep up with, because my own reaction to the pregnancy is not so big, in addition to not riding a bike to work, everything is very normal, when you're not nervous, not anxious, the child is also a smooth delivery of everything is good, so look at the different people, some people are not very good, they have to be The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that!
I was the most ostentatious when I was first pregnant, my husband rode an electric car every day to take me to and from work, and then I always blamed him for riding too fast, especially when he often rode to the place where there were potholes and bumped me up and down, and I said, "You're not afraid of bumping the baby off ah ！！！！".
Husband said very speechless, I gave him a whole lot, such as: "Some people just pregnant, reach for a hanger, the child is gone ......" "Some people just pregnant that will, every day lying at home to protect the fetus, can not move ...... I'm sure you'll be able to find a way to get the most out of your life," he said. I know in my heart, you said I rode a bike and bumped you, then you walk is not a more strenuous movement? Then you still dare not walk ah?"
I said, "What if? If you bump me on your bike, I'll feel like the baby is going to fall out from underneath me!"
My husband comforted me and said, "Don't be so sure about that... Those people who reach for a coat hanger and miscarry have nothing to do with reaching for a coat hanger, okay? The fact is that there is a problem with the embryo in the stomach, she is not enough coat hanger, nothing to do may also be miscarried. Those who try hard to keep the baby, especially those who keep the baby from the beginning to the end, most of them will give birth to unhealthy babies, or at least they will be in poor health after birth.
I understand the reasoning behind this, but I'm afraid that my husband won't be able to understand what it's like to be pregnant and to worry about it. After 3 months, I let go and didn't worry so much.
So, pregnant women still need to read more positive things, do not always read those scary news, or really every day will be rambling, nervous, not good for themselves.