First of all, you should really understand that learning Buddhism means going out of the world, whether it is discipline or asceticism, it is to get rid of the six divisions in the wheel of karma. As the Shurangama Sutra says: "You can't get rid of lust and dust", so it is very important to break the edge. When you see a handsome guy and a beautiful woman, your first thought should be: "I am a yogi, I want to go to the outside world, I can't immerse myself in the lust of men and women!" " Always keep in mind the idea of leaving this world so as not to immerse yourself in the external environment.

Second, you can learn some impure articles. I know that no matter how beautiful a handsome girl is, her stomach is full of shit and urine, and she only has a mobile toilet with a leather bag. )

Third, "if there is love, it is more than lust. Always remember to respect avalokitesvara. You must leave your desires. "

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In the most elementary realm, when you see a beautiful woman, you can suppress your desire, just like seeing a beautiful scenery, just enjoying it. Because he knows that husband and wife have karma, fornication leads to bad karma, so if he doesn't think about lust, his heart will be clean and calm; Then, when you see a beautiful woman, you can think of her appearance at different ages. Every age stage, from birth to children, youth, middle age, old age to death, can appear in your mind like a slide show, and you will have a more rational understanding of life. Of course, a beautiful woman, in the process of her birth, illness and death, exists with a short and beautiful life as her life career, and deduces the gratitude of her life and the karmic cycle of her fate.

With the continuous purification of practice, his realm of life has been sublimated and his wisdom has been sublimated. Looking at a person's life from such a wise point of view is not just about her whole life process, but about her life in a long cycle, such as thousands of years, and the karmic deduction process of her life: in each cycle, different people become parents, children, couples and other different roles, which may be men or women. There is no feeling of appreciation for the continuous cycle of life, but a sigh of suffering and sympathy. In Buddhism, it is said that "the sea of suffering is boundless, and turning back to the shore", the redemption of life and the fate of practice feel the most precious fate.

If you can see the existence of advanced life in the realm of practice, it will be another feeling. In the past, a Buddhist monk described a state in the book Travel Notes of Western Elysium: "But I saw a bright light, fairy birds and strange birds singing in unison, beautiful and happy, pure and happy, far and near, the more natural. Fairy fairy boy, dressed in colorful, elegant and gorgeous neon fairy clothes, lined up neatly and wandered around, with flowers blooming everywhere and dazzling. Pavilions and pagodas are far and near, and all kinds of pagodas will shine. It is really a fairyland on earth, and it is unparalleled in the world. " Then, looking at people is just a kind of life that circulates in the lower level. Without lust and appreciation, it is a kind of compassion for struggling life in the sea of suffering.