Youth without loving scum is not a complete youth, and life without loving relatives is not a complete life.

Wen/Su Mu

1

I deliberately looked up the meaning of "blind date".

the first meaning is to love each other; Be close. Guo Moruo wrote in "The Earth, My Mother": "I only want to be naked with my feet, and I will always be blind with you."

The second meaning is a meeting arranged by relatives of both men and women when they are discussing marriage. "A Dream of Red Mansions" said in the first 118 times: "Ping Er, seeing her first, but also guessing that it must be a blind date."

in other words, a blind date can only be successful.

blind date, I don't know if this is the way for men and women left by our ancestors to know each other, love each other and have children. Anyway, my parents' generation is like this.

Every young girl in the village who is in free love will be gossiped by her neighbors. "Why are XX girls so indecent?".

since our generation began to have free love slowly, we can be said to be lucky. The times are developing, people's minds are changing, and all history is removing the dross and taking its essence.

However, with the change of love style, the divorce rate is also increasing. There are advantages and disadvantages, and some people are bound to become victims of this social progress.

Today, with the trend of thinking towards the West, some girls can't escape the clutches of blind date.

Shanni is one of those who have been corrupted by traditional ideas.

2

Shanni, 28 years old, is short, fair-skinned, with straight brown hair. She likes to wear long white dresses and short floral skirts, and she is clever.

A cup of jasmine tea, a kindle and a computer are her daily necessities after dinner. By the way, there is often a book called "Spending a Long Time with Anthony" around her. She likes Anthony, an author who rarely uses punctuation in writing.

She always said that she likes her present life, working during the day and doing what she likes at night. This is a realistic and ideal life.

However, Sanny, who seems to have a simple life, had a "simple" life a few years ago.

3

Behind every well-behaved daughter, there is a strong mother. As you might expect, Shanni's mother is a career woman who is strong both inside and outside.

"You're in your twenties, and you're not dating. What do you want?" Every time Sanny's mother speaks rudely.

Sunny, a newly graduated new media editor in a second-tier city, was forced to arrange a blind date as soon as her job was stable.

The other person is a TV reporter with short hair, dark skin and sunshine. I heard that he was the basketball captain of the school team in high school.

When Sanny was just trying to get to know her, she was stopped by her mother. The only reason was to find out that the boy's college entrance examination score was only over 2 points, and the undergraduate degree was bought by money.

oh, my god, can a person's ability and potential be reflected by his education alone? Can a dry college entrance examination result explain the problem?

After a few days, Shanni was introduced to the blind date, an official second generation, and they first added WeChat to each other.

"My name is Lu Ming, and my family arranged for me to contact you. How tall are you? How much? What do parents do? What's your job? How much is the salary? "

Sunny was confused by a series of questions, and some sharp questions made her very disgusted.

after a few minutes, only a few words were replied, "Less than 16."

"I'm 185, and you're less than 16. Do you think we deserve each other? Not worthy! My parents forced me to contact you. If you don't think we are suitable, we don't need to meet. Tell them each other's wishes, which is an explanation. What do you think? "

"ok." Sanny flew into a rage. How could there be such a strange man in the world?

This time, the boy made an appointment with KTV, and made an appointment with a few more friends. Shanni thought it might be to avoid embarrassment.

Sunny wore a formal red dress, and the blind date met her at the KTV gate.

A boy, short, with a middle part, wears a vest embroidered with a skull pattern on his upper body, a fluorescent green underpants on his lower body, which is so dazzling, with a pair of split-toe sandals under his feet and a cigarette in his mouth. He looks like the underworld boss, No, and can only be said to be like a small follower behind the underworld boss's ass.

Pushing open the door of the KTV room, there are two women dressed like ladies sitting on the stage, and two men, whose dress styles are surprisingly similar to those of the blind date. Confirmed the sentence "Birds of a feather flock together, people are divided into groups".

The blind date sang two songs and flirted with two other ladies, oh, no, with two ladies.

Shanni felt out of place with them and hurried away from the scene. If we don't say it's a blind date, we think it's a criminal gang, the crime of adultery.

The boy, oh, this time he should be called a man. He is a prison guard, seven years older than Shanni.

Two people made an appointment in a western restaurant near Sunny's house.

The man has been telling stories about prison guards and prison guards, early warning and criminals, criminals and criminals all the time, and he kept talking.

Shanni has been enjoying delicious food, and her ears are turned on with automatic shielding function. She only sees the other person's mouth opening and closing all the time, saying something, and she smiles politely at him from time to time.

an hour is like a century, and the time is so long that it doesn't end.

"I think, Shanni, I'm a little older than you, and there may be a generation gap with you. It's okay. There are many young boys in our bureau. I'll introduce them to you then."

"ok." Sanny was embarrassed to the freezing point, and who knows what radian her mouth was frozen to.

4

The fifth time, the sixth time, the seventh time ... Sunny went on blind dates for more than 2 times in four years.

Sanny's mother secretly went to the fortune teller. "Your daughter, don't worry about it. She has to find her fate by herself. Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life. "

Shanni's repeated resistance is not as good as a fortune teller's words, so Shanni stopped her long blind date.

Four years' experience has refreshed Shanni's views on love and marriage over and over again.

shouldn't love be pure? Shouldn't love be simple?

when I speak, you will listen; When I am willful, you will love; You'll be there when I need you.

shouldn't it be like this?

since when is love based on marriage? And marriage is based on family, work, education and other external conditions that have nothing to do with love?

"What kind of love should I want?" Sunny reflected for a year until she met him.

That family is not very prominent, and its education is not outstanding, but it is responsible enough, self-motivated, has a sense of belonging to the family, and loves him very much.

5

Girl, please don't lose yourself on the blind date, understand what you really want in your heart, be loyal to your original heart, and you will always find true love.

actually, love is a mirror. You stink of copper, and so does love; You are warm, and love will naturally be warm.

Love is really simple. It is just a small room, which has nothing to do with everything. There is only one woman who waits for a man to come home in a small room every day. True love is to love you after seeing you take off your makeup, brush your teeth and wash your face.

Anthony wrote:

when I think of love on the way, I think the best love is that two people are each other's companions. Don't bind, don't entangle, don't possess, and don't be eager to dig meaning from each other. It should be, the two of us, standing side by side, looking at this lonely person.

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