hello, I'm negative Xuan, and here are my answers.

Smart people are endowed by heaven. They can understand what they do at first sight and understand it at once. This is a high IQ endowed by heaven. Therefore, such people, who are capable and have clear choices, rarely have wrong intersections on the road of life. Such a person is a successful leader in career, family and love. They-they reject people who are not smart from the bone marrow and hate those stupid people.

When I was in college, Xiaoli in the dormitory was a person with high IQ, but Xiaomin in the same dormitory was very dull, and Nuo Nuo always couldn't tell the difference. Xiaoli doesn't like her very much. Every time she talks to her, she feels very, very hard. If she tells someone something, the other person will immediately understand the meaning, but Xiaomin is beside the point. When choosing the employment direction, everyone chose a very popular industry, but Xiao Min was not very active in choosing it, thinking that he would find a good job as a college student. As a result, the next year's fresh graduates flooded in, and she was eliminated. An undergraduate can only go to the sales industry of junior high school students.

it really hurts. Poor people must be hateful, which is why some people. Born to hate these stupid people.

this is very simple, because he can't accept his stupidity! The more a person hates, judges and hates, basically he can't accept this part of himself. Therefore, this kind of performance is just like a mirror, which makes it easier for people to see what they or others are resisting and why they can't accept the whole self. For example, they admit that they also have selfish side, stingy side and cowardly moments. Only when they allow themselves (the permission here is not laissez-faire, but to see this point and surpass it) will they be able to do so.

There is only light and no darkness, only beauty and no flaws. A person is incomplete. If you want to be better, it is a prerequisite to recognize and accept your own darkness.

"Why do some people naturally hate stupid people?"

First of all, I would like to talk about my own views on this sentence literally and objectively:

First, no one is born with the function of hating anyone. If there is, that person may go down in history as a baby.

Every baby is born with an instinct, and looks cute and cute. Everyone wants to hug and kiss when they see it. Six months ago, they all smiled aimlessly (everyone laughed when they saw it), which almost sprouted everyone's heart. This is a natural survival instinct given to babies by nature.

second, the definition of stupidity

I especially like to look at topics with psychological "contextual behavior" and "relational framework".

all behaviors need to see under what circumstances? With whom?

For example, in the story of Su Dongpo and Fo Yin in history, Fo Yin in Su Dongpo's eyes is a mass of cow dung, while Su Dongpo in Buddha's eyes is a flower.

On the surface, Fo Yin looks so stupid. In fact, from the perspective of psychological projection, only people with flowers in their hearts will think of flowers.

third, why do you hate stupid people?

Actually, it doesn't matter who you hate. Whether this person is really stupid or not needs to be verified and it doesn't matter.

what matters is your relationship with hatred.

"You hate this person and think this person is stupid". What is the demand behind hating this matter?

are your expectations not understood or met? Or has it caused you inconvenience?

I remember that when former South African President Nelson Mandela walked out of prison, he roughly said, "If I live with hatred, I will walk out of prison and build a prison in my heart."

Even if we do meet people with physical mental retardation, they have no reason to be hated or looked down upon. Life is not easy, so why should we make it worse?

I don't think anyone in this world is really stupid, only people who don't say what they say and don't mean what they say. It's sad that they don't have the ability to communicate honestly and truly.

In fact, it is a manifestation of self-lack of patience and self-cultivation and self-conceit. If you have time, you can read more books and cultivate more interest, so that your perspective on things will gradually change and your potential self-awareness will gradually recover.

if you want it too much, you will see it as big, even as big as the whole world, occupying all your thoughts. My advice is that in the end, whether you get what you want or not, you should jump out of it in time and truly see its true position in the whole world, that is, its insignificance in infinite time and space. In this way, you won't get carried away if you get it, and you won't be miserable if you don't get it.

The biggest sorrow for adults is that they suddenly understand Lu Xun.

When they were young, everyone yearned for radiant and soul-stirring, and they all cherished heroic dreams or gorgeous princess dreams, or wanted to be a chivalrous hero, a general, an emperor, haunters, a noble family, or a scientist, a soldier and an athlete who made outstanding contributions. At worst, they should be upright and excellent.

When teenagers are pushed by time to grow up, they find that there are no crystal palaces and heroic swords in the world of adults, only messy places, and we, being impartial, have just become what we once hated most.

Contemporary Kong Yiji-Shen Wei

The wandering master Shen Wei became popular on the Internet, and his experience of wandering for more than 2 years was immediately stripped out. The civil servants of the Audit Bureau gave up their jobs, dressed untidily, and picked up rubbish in the street. He likes history books, likes painting, has knowledge and self-restraint, but what he doesn't have is the dignity of a modern man. He advocates literature but achieves nothing, but he is poor in promoting garbage sorting.

People who rub the heat happily take pictures around him, and no one respects him from the bottom of his heart, just like Kong Yiji walks into the store, and the people around him are full of laughter.

Kong Yiji is lazy, kind, lofty and pedantic. He is a down-and-out beggar who is full of "what's wrong with him". He is teased and mocked by others. He also pays his bills in the pub in a proper way while stealing. He is hungry and likes to give children writing and fennel beans.

as long as he is here, the store is always full of happy atmosphere. The phrase "how can a scholar's business be called stealing?" has become a famous saying of pirated and plagiarized writers, which has been passed down ridiculously and sadly.

Shen Wei, like Kong Yiji, "makes people happy, but without him, others will live like this".

Master-Shen Wei

How many people have become leap soil

Campus is the weakest place in the whole society, allowing humble people to believe that "knowledge changes fate". Rich boys and powerful ladies who are not accustomed to dandy are no different from you. They attend classes, play ball games and taste roadside food every day. But three years after graduation, the aristocratic family who used to be nothing like you is sitting in a spacious office, and you need to go through office cubicles and long corridors to see him.

You stood in front of him, bowed your head, handed in the report humbly, and called "Manager". At that moment, you remembered the "grandfather" that Runtu respectfully called to his childhood playmates.

Runtu was once a lively, sincere and witty boy. He grew up happily in Gua Tian, the snow and the vast seaside. He was carefree and should have done something unusual. However, the growing environment and experience highlighted his poverty and humbleness, and his courage and spirit could not help him break the class limitations. He was gradually smoothed away, bent down his spine and became a slave to life. And those who succumb to fate are never just leap soil, but also how many you, me and him.

How many people have become the pathetic leap soil, from the youthful spirit to the grovelling.

How many people have become Ah Q

Your leader is a man with both talents and virtues. He comes up with some unrealistic ideas and asks you to carry them out without hesitation. Of course, the effect is not good. Your colleague was caught as a typical example and was severely criticized at the meeting. But he dared not speak out in anger, and nodded in dismay to admit his mistake. During the break, he was filled with indignation in front of people, cursing unreasonable plans, unpractical leadership, and no one came forward to refute it.

finally, he said with relief, "It's not just me, but everyone is the same." And then quietly leave. At that moment, a person pops up in your mind-Ah Q-the person who comforts himself while contradicting himself.

Lin Xingzhai commented on Ah Q: simple, ignorant and arrogant; Self-esteem and self-contempt; Frank, willful and orthodox; Competitive and humiliating obedience; Hate power and become attached to the situation; Narrow-minded, conservative and blindly fashionable; Reject heresy and yearn for revolution; Sensitive taboos are numb and forgetful; Overbearing and cowardly and sad; Uneasy about the status quo and content with it.

In order to calm the inner contradictions, Ah Q created a set of great and ridiculous spiritual victory methods. This lame figure and lame spiritual victory method have been teased from the 2th century to the 21st century, and they have also been followed in the 21st century. Sadly, people gradually realize that they can't stand in society without learning this spirit.

From the clear distinction between good and bad to the rare confusion, how many people have lived to be a lamentable Ah Q..

How many people have become Xianglinsao

Unfair and grievances flow in every corner of the world, and when they fall on a person's head, they are always caught off guard. Break up, unemployment, bankruptcy, divorce, death of relatives, terminal illness ... When bad luck repeatedly hits a person, powerlessness and grievances are overwhelming.

It makes people toss and turn, bitter, depressed, and crazy. It seems that only by talking over and over again can the pain in their hearts be relieved, and hope and vitality are slowly drained. Gradually, when people find trivial complaints, everyone is just like Sister Xianglin.

Simple, sincere, diligent and traditional, Sister Xianglin failed to change her fate by her own efforts. Her husband was robbed of marriage, died of illness, her son was taken away by wolves, and she was rejected by her boss. She was oppressed by fate and the times again and again, and became the beggar who complained to whom, and died alone in the snowy night. Everyone lamented her misfortune and angered her. Ironically, when she was wronged and unfair, most people became her again.

There is only an unfortunate distance from hating others and complaining about depravity to complaining about depravity, and from ordinary people to Xianglinsao.

How many people have become Hua Laoshuan, who buys human blood steamed bread, and Uncle Kang, who sells human blood steamed bread?

On all major online platforms and social software, sellers shout "wrap it up" while pushing out health care drugs, cosmetics, clothes, snacks, credit and insurance mania.

One billion netizens have either been promoted or become salespeople, so they don't care about consulting and promoting. It doesn't matter whether the "wrapped" product is genuine or not. What matters is that some people say it is "wrapped". What matters is that it can be exchanged for real money and silver. Interest drives running all the way, who is full of sincere lies. The buyers and sellers are like Hua Laoshuan, who buys human blood steamed bread, and Uncle Kang, who sells human blood steamed bread. Some people say that some people believe it.

human blood steamed bread, for Hua Laoshuan, is a bag of money for life-saving medicine, for his son, it is a burnt white flour steamed bread, and for Uncle Kang, it is a refined and expensive product sold by himself, and the effect is questioned and blamed. The words "wrapped" and "wrapped" from left to right are like brainwashing notes, which have produced a kind of unfounded credibility in the crowd. Businessmen from ancient times to the present are all psychologists who are self-centered.

Now people don't eat steamed bread with human blood, but they all accept ruthless salesmen and become ignorant and numb Hua Lao Shuan.

Countless people have become "spectators" written by Lu Xun.

When Kong Yiji was teased, the spectators laughed. When Xia Yu was killed, the spectators craned their necks; When Xianglinsao complained, the spectators got tired of sneering and left; Ah Q was kowtowed and teased by idle spectators ... The spectators were indifferent, numb, stupid, vicious and gloating. If there is anything more chilling in this world than Lu Xun's spectator, it is today's spectator.

They asked the jumper "Why don't you jump"; Look at the person who was beaten and applaud; Ironically, the international students who were killed abroad "deserve it"; Laugh at ordinary people who are hurt by gangsters "dying in silence"; Cynicism and incitement to right and wrong on the network platform where they don't have to show up ... They have all become spectators in Lu Xun's works, hurting the parties with the most indifferent and cruel words and deeds in reality or in the virtual network, and everyone has been one of them more or less.

How sad! Everyone who is groping in society is branded with the shadow of Lu Xun's characters, and no one is spared. Fortunately, this era is no longer feudal and decadent, leaving us the opportunity to turn over.

When we have an epiphany, we might as well try to listen to Lu Xun's advice: May all young people in China get rid of the cold air and just go up, instead of listening to the words of self-destructors. What can be done, what can be voiced. A little heat, a little light, will make a firefly, or you can send a little light in the dark without waiting for the torch fire. If there is no torch after that: I am the only light.

I have written an article about the psychological mechanism of animal cruelty before. As the subject said, the psychological mechanism of this kind of group is similar to that of animal cruelty group. Abnormal but "reasonable" expression of their aggression (for the explanation of aggression, please go to my home page article, so I won't go into details here).

Abnormal expression means that they don't express their aggressiveness through social competition and other normal ways like normal groups, and many reasons are that they have more or less social obstacles and think they can't participate in social activities.

the so-called "rationality" is easy to understand, and it is also an interesting psychological mechanism. Generally speaking, it is: persimmon is soft and pinched. This kind of group lacks social competitiveness and turns to launch psychological or physical offensive against the more vulnerable groups, thus achieving the purpose of expressing aggression and gaining a sense of accomplishment.

To sum up: First of all, such people are timid and don't get along well with others, so they discriminate against so-called "stupid" people to satisfy their own psychology.

I'm also a natural stupid person who hates non-innate. Some people, if they are stupid, are mostly' stupid and stubborn' or' stupid and solid'. Therefore, on the one hand, it is more difficult to treat and guide. On the other hand, people generally do not play a positive role in social environment and development. However, due to the actual "self-interest" and social "advantages" in front of us, there is still something to see. Therefore, its "trend" still depends on its "orientation". Therefore, they are often people who take "eye-interest" as their purpose and "potential" as their tendency, so they use it for them, regardless of their merits. Therefore, people's social' human values' are generally' bottom values' or even' negative values'. We also have a lot of such people in quantity and quality.

that's because you are stupid, otherwise, what does it matter whether others are stupid or not? Hatred is a habit, and it is also the seed of your own troubles. It has nothing to do with whether others are stupid or smart. You will hate others without wisdom.

There is a saying: "It's better to lead the horse down for a wise man than to be an ancestor for a foolish man". A foolish man is also dangerous, if he is light, he will lose his life.

not born to hate stupid people. From the perspective of cognitive psychology, parents did not give him an environment of equality and trust in the family growth environment, and they kept summing up and making peace.