Do you know how much they have gone too far? I'm telling you, I'm afraid scolding them will get my mouth dirty. ? Sister Cui continued to cry.
In my mind, I am integrating the image of Cui Jie's husband.
I comforted Cui Jie and planned to discuss it in detail the next day.
0 1, former good son-in-law, later good husband, later good father.
You say, how can he pretend? For more than ten years, he has been pretending to be a son-in-law in front of my parents. Pretend to be a husband in front of me; Pretend to be a father in front of your daughter. Well, now that we cheated, the big-tailed wolf finally showed his true colors. ? The next day, Cui Jie cried when she saw my face.
It turned out that Cui Jie's husband was born in the countryside, and his parents were farmers, and they fell in love on campus. When they got married, their in-laws didn't have the money to buy a wedding room. After the wedding in the countryside, they went back to live in Cui Jie's house in the city.
Who knows, this residence is 13 years.
During the period of 13, Cui Jie's husband listened to her parents-in-law and greeted her early and late. The old man was sent to the hospital when he was sick, to the theater when he was unhappy, and to the restaurant when he was tired of eating at home. Outsiders say this son-in-law is better than er.
Cui Jie's husband has no choice for her. Cui Jie works far away, and her husband delivers early and picks up late, rain or shine.
As soon as the weather changed, her husband kept calling to ask her to add clothes and drink water.
Her husband sent her two hot jiaozi lunches in winter, which really taught all the couples in the company two real love lessons.
Cui Jie's husband has nothing to say to the children. As a teacher, he is responsible for the children's transportation. Children's homework, he tutored; He accompanied the children on weekends.
Sister Cui once said proudly and shyly, when my daughter came to her first period, she didn't tell her this mother, but told her father. The relationship between father and daughter can be seen.
Do you have any proof that he cheated? Or make a wild guess based on clues, which is not allowed. ? I remind Cui Jie.
Such a thing, without evidence, how can you talk nonsense. He has changed. He has changed since we got our own house. ? Sister Cui began to trace back to the source.
02, disappeared son-in-law, stubborn husband, personality father.
Cui Jie and her husband gritted their teeth and mortgaged the present two-bedroom apartment three years ago. After the house came down, Cui Jie gradually felt that her husband had changed.
On weekdays, Cui Jie's parents will invite Cui Jie's family, whether cooking by themselves or going to a restaurant for the New Year, but her husband won't take off the order because of busy work or other arrangements because of physical discomfort. Husband's performance, let the parents-in-law call? Baiwenhang? .
When buying furniture at home, Cui Jie suggested that the sofa in the living room should be multifunctional and can be used as a bed when put down, so that her parents who have lived in a bungalow all their lives can move into their building in winter and do their filial piety.
But the husband just disagreed and insisted on buying only sofas, not beds and sofas. Sister Cui seems to be too powerful, so she relented and said that her in-laws can come to live occasionally, but her husband replied: My parents in the countryside will not bother you. ?
Cui Jie also said that since moving into a new home, her husband has danced in front of his daughter, bought fashionable razors and even sprayed perfume. In the past, she threw away several sportswear, but added several suits and even wore a tie.
This made Cui Jie uncomfortable, but her husband and daughter enjoyed these new changes.
Recently, Cui Jie found that her husband often didn't go home for dinner on the grounds of going out for entertainment. On several occasions, they stayed out for the night on the grounds of drinking too much.
At first, Cui Jie didn't think much, because in her heart, a man like her husband would be left to rot in the street, and no one would want him.
But after a long time, the change of her husband caused Cui Jie's vigilance.
Once, when her husband went out, Cui Jie followed her and saw her husband enter a coffee shop at a distance.
Soon after, I came out again, walked into a flower shop and bought a bunch of roses.
After a while, a woman came along. This woman was none other than a divorced female colleague sitting opposite her husband's desk.
Cui Jie flew into a rage and rushed in to scold the two men, but before Cui Jie finished, her husband took the woman away.
It's nothing, maybe it's just a meal between colleagues. You see, if they were together, they would have gone home or gone to the hotel. What's romantic in the cafe? ? I tried to comfort Cui Jie.
You are still young. You have no idea how serious the problem is. I have been separated from him for more than a year. How does he meet his physiological needs? That woman has been divorced for more than a year, can she have no demand? They are all people in their thirties and forties, and they hit it off at first sight. You don't know what that woman looks like. She is freckled, hunched and wearing a medicine bottle. What do you think of her? Besides, what do you think of my husband? What can two people do together when they are poor? ? Cui Jie said, and cursed.
03. Is there sex when a man cheats?
In the next few days, Cui Jie didn't think about tea and rice. Lacrimosa, in fact, is a traditional woman full of pain and heart.
He can't accept her husband's betrayal, and he doesn't want to give up the son-in-law, husband and daughter's father who have been supported by their family for more than ten years.
So she begged me to talk to her husband and listen to his thoughts.
I'm getting a divorce. I'm going out innocently to repay their kindness. ? This is the first sentence that Cui Jie's husband said after seeing me.
How long have you been with that woman? Are you getting married? Have you considered the price? ? I asked.
I'm not with another woman. It's not as dirty as you think. When I stayed outside at night, she (Cui Jie) was aggressive. I stayed in the hotel only because I couldn't go home. ? Cui Jie's husband was very angry.
She (a colleague) is nothing good, but she is very relaxed and free with her. ? Cui Jie's husband said.
He admitted that from the beginning, he knew he was not good enough for Cui Jie. He comes from the countryside and has a short life. Cui Jie has a well-off family and extensive contacts. After graduation, their jobs are completely different.
After getting married, she didn't want to be a door-to-door son-in-law, so she suggested that they rent a house, but Cui Jie refused. To outsiders, everyone knows that his parents-in-law have helped him more than his own children, but only he knows the bitterness.
In winter, my mother-in-law bought cabbage and asked him to move home from Hutongkou alone. His lips were purple with cold, and his hands and feet were cold. When his brother-in-law came home, his parents-in-law hurriedly welcomed him in, ate delicious food and served him.
My father-in-law is ill in hospital. He worked during the day and at night for a whole month. He never arranges his brother-in-law and sister-in-law on duty for fear that they will not get enough sleep.
When his parents-in-law eat at home, he is always the last person to serve food in the most advanced kitchen. If my father-in-law drinks a few glasses of wine, he will definitely remind his parents of their kindness at the dinner table.
Mother-in-law heard that someone had touched her son-in-law's light to travel abroad, so she could whisper something about the first half of the year in his ear.
At his parents' home, even if he wants to wear his own clothes, he will be laughed at. Once he wore a suit, his mother-in-law laughed at his clothes, and his father-in-law said that he had been making a fool of himself for more than ten years, and his clothes could only be sportswear.
What makes him even more aggrieved is that it is normal to have conflicts between husband and wife, but at his parents' home, he and Cui Jie quarreled, unforgivable, ungrateful and ungrateful.
In the education of their children, the old couple are also extremely spoiled, always talking about grandparents' dereliction of duty and shortcomings in front of their children.
In this case, how can there be true feelings between husband and wife? Apart from thanking them, I seem to think that any idea is a sin. In their eyes, I am also an incompetent and ungrateful villain. ? Sister Cui's husband is very wronged.
But she (colleague) is different. She knows my kindness. ? Cui Jie's husband went on to say that she said I looked handsome in a suit and gave me a tie. She said that it is very rare for me to be honest and take care of my family. She said that I am humorous and can solve my troubles best; He said that I have a working method and am kind to others, but I lack contacts and opportunities; She also comes from the countryside and understands my situation.
In a word, after meeting this lesbian, Cui Jie's husband has undergone earth-shaking changes both in life and psychology.
Once upon a time, the poor clerk who was worthless, unprofessional and unappreciative suddenly became a confident, sunny, diligent and practical man, and anyone would choose the second self.
When I told her these words from Cui Jie's husband, she bowed her head and said nothing. It was a long time before she looked up and asked, Do you think it will be postponed? ?
I didn't give Cui Jie an answer. Rome was not built in a day, let alone people's hearts.
When we encounter infidelity, we are often carried away by anger. I hope we can not repeat each other's ingratitude, shamelessness, dereliction of duty and incompetence thousands of times, and then nail each other to the shame column of adultery to win people's hearts.
However, we often ignore people's long-term psychological needs and repressed emotional needs when they cheat.
I have no intention to justify any liar, whether physically or mentally, because wrong is wrong.
However, I want to remind you that a person who abandons his wife and children and takes risks at a heavy price must have something in his heart, and in this pursuit, what about sex? What's its weight?
Therefore, the most important thing between husband and wife is equality. Don't forget to communicate, respect each other and allow differences. This is the normal way to get along.