Friendship in the world is gender-neutral.

However, since the other party belongs to friendship, and both of them have love or marriage, we should keep a good sense of proportion and get along well with each other, and we should not casually cross the line.

Otherwise, your life with the other person will be a mess, and the reason is that you don't know how to choose and distinguish emotions.

What happened to the man who was close to Lan Yan's bosom friend? To be honest, if there is ambiguity or simply crossing the line, it is generally not very good.

There is such a man and woman, and even after marriage, they still have many friends around them. Some of them have ordinary relationships, while others get along well because of the same interests.

The reason why these people didn't turn into love at first may be that they are too familiar with each other and feel that the other party lacks freshness and mystery; Secondly, it may be that I didn't think the other person was that deadly attractive.

For example, Dong and her boyfriend Zheng Daxin belong to this category.

But the problem is, there is no problem in fighting before marriage, talking and laughing, and going out to eat, drink and watch concerts when you are free. Because at that time, unmarried men and women were unmarried and did not hinder others. Even if they can naturally develop into lovers, no one will say anything.

But when you get married, you must understand the simplest truth: no matter how good the relationship is between friends of the opposite sex, you must know how to keep your distance, which is also a respect for the other half.

If there is always an unnecessary misunderstanding on this point, there will be problems between husband and wife sooner or later.

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It was Jeong Da Hooeon's wife who caused the displeasure first.

Every time, no matter whether her husband was planning to stay at home or what he was doing, as long as Dong said he had something to find him, he could really leave everything at hand and his wife and go out at once.

But as long as she expresses jealousy and dissatisfaction, her husband will think she is unreasonable.

This means that he knew Dong long before he knew her. If something shady happens between two people, it won't be her turn to get married. But having said that, you can't stop your partner from thinking so. After all, she is also a real woman. Who knows what they will do in private? This idea is more obvious in Dong's husband.

Men are possessive, where can there be such a so-called blue confidante around their wives?

So there are some angry people who investigate and follow in private.

Although she didn't find anything at first, Dong's husband lost his temper and she ran out to find her confidante to drink and complain. That kind of backslapping, patting and playing, cuddling is really unacceptable to her husband.

To tell the truth, sometimes it is not your bad temper and selfishness that ruin a relationship and marriage, but your carelessness. This practice like Dong is undoubtedly a way to destroy marriage.

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If a person doesn't want to be suspected by others, he must first control his behavior.

As the old saying goes: a gentleman does not stand under a dangerous wall? Knowing which behaviors will arouse your partner's suspicion and which behaviors are easy to cause some unnecessary misunderstandings, you should try to avoid suspicion as much as possible, instead of fooling around with your temper.

What is even more frightening is that some people have reached the point where they can't live without friends of the opposite sex. This relationship is actually terrible, but it's actually emotional infidelity.

Because in this person's mind, the weight of this friend may be more important than his partner, and it is much more irreplaceable. The only unique thing in the world is love.

Although they call each other confidants or confidantes, I'm afraid they have another feeling inside, but they just don't understand it themselves.

Therefore, it is suggested that unmarried men and women who have a particularly good relationship with the opposite sex should first understand the difference between friends and lovers before considering whether they need to find another life partner.

Only by completely attributing friends to friends can your close friendship go further. Then, after entering the marriage, there is no doubt between husband and wife.

What do some women call it in real life? Blue confidante? In fact, this is just their spare tire, but naturally they won't admit it or say it.

Why do some women have no feelings for these blue faces before marriage? It is because the other party lacks some key elements to attract them, but he has always been more likable and particularly kind to them, so he doesn't want to give up keeping this connection.

Once you are in love or married, after the comparison, the situation is different.

When she is angry with her lover or partner, she will immediately compare it with her bosom friend.

The more you compare them, the more you can find the bright spots in men's girlfriends. In addition, in this case, they will intuitively like to find the other side to solve their troubles, and the other side will comfort and convince them. I am afraid that women who are already in an unbalanced state will impulsively do things beyond friendship. This situation also happens from time to time in life.

To be sure, even if their marriage or family is destroyed in this way, their cherished friendship will become indescribable and unrecognizable.