"Food, Prayer and Love", I believe that only after watching the movie, I won't mistake these three words for describing a beautiful love.

[A bad marriage-the only thing more impossible than staying is leaving.

"Keep your feet on the ground, as if you had four legs, then you can stand in this world. Also, look at the world through your heart, and then you will know God. " The therapist in the cave will start to enlighten and heal your mind with the words "You are a traveler in the world" for thousands of years.

I remember hearing a sentence before: I can't imagine the life of the same person when I open my eyes every day after I get married. That's terrible. Liz, the heroine played by Julia Roberts, has been eager to grow up and have children since childhood, and now she has nothing to ask for. "Having a baby is like a tattoo on your face. You can't regret it." She, for life gradually feel empty and panic, as if everything around her is not her real pursuit. What is the value of a woman's life?

if we get married too young, we will drift apart. For a bad marriage, the only thing more impossible than staying is leaving. "Maybe he doesn't hate you, but his heart is broken." Instead, she made a decision: pray and ask God to pray.

[short episode-when you are a complete stranger, you can see yourself better than you. ]

At first, the object you admire brings you a feeling of intoxication and dizziness. You never dare to admit that you hope that this intense love and excitement can develop rapidly. Soon, you begin to yearn for the attention of the other party. This longing bothers you, just like being addicted. Once you can't get it, you will be sad, crazy and dissatisfied. It was he who first made you addicted, but now he refuses to provide you with what you want. He used to provide services for you for free. Next, you become thinner because you don't think about tea and rice, hiding in the corner and trembling, only knowing that you will sell your soul, just to regain your former beauty. At the same time, the object of your admiration now thinks you are a problem. He looks at you as if he had never seen someone before. Ironically, you can't blame him yet, so walk away quietly. You're a mess. You don't even know yourself. Now you have reached the final destination of infatuation, which is a kind of safe and ruthless self-depreciation.

[ When you feel that you are in a worse situation than death, you need to change. Go to a place where you are impulsive again. Putting your whole life into a space of 12 square meters and locking up the past, in fact, this is not to escape, but to start again. ]

[Food-Italy]

The first stop of Liz's trip-Italy, is the sweetness of doing nothing. Maybe my fate with this movie started in Rome. The picture of the film instantly recalls the meaning and experience of a similar real and unforgettable trip in the past. Think hard, every city has a word. For example: Stockholm, compliance; New york: Ambition; And Rome is sex. Fall in love with this city-Rome, love everywhere. Familiar streets, familiar cafes, familiar wishing pools, and everything in the movie. Love Italian food: a bite of spaghetti, eating delicious food on earth; In the city of Naples, I am in love with my pizza. "Recalling every food I ate in a day, counting all the calories I ate, and not forgetting to criticize myself when I took a shower, I threw caution to the wind, I don't want eyes, I just had enough of guilt. So I will do this, I will eat the whole pizza, then we will go to the ball game, and tomorrow we will go on a date and buy ourselves bigger jeans. "

Only you who are in a relationship can judge the good or bad. Don't deceive yourself. As for the short-lived love episode after divorce, "If we admit that the relationship between two people is bad, but we stay together anyway, we accept that we often quarrel and we hardly have sex anymore, but we don't want to leave each other's life, so we can live a miserable life, but we are glad that we won't be separated." In fact, we all pursue eternity and live in misery because we are afraid of change. Perhaps life is not so chaotic, and the real trap lies in gradually attaching to the world.

travel to meet better people. Thanksgiving dinner, everyone said a prayer. For liz, watching all this and participating in it is the perfect ending of her trip to Italy.

[Prayer-India]

Compared with Italian food, the spiritual journey in India is quite difficult. In contact with yogis, liz deeply felt the power of prayer and washed her chaotic body and mind. After attending an Indian custom wedding, it is interesting that you will eventually think of your own wedding. For her newly divorced, she is not waiting for him to forgive me and liberate me. The most important thing is to forgive herself. For the imperfect ending that we have to face, we don't want to be people who are overwhelmed by regrets, but let it go completely, give the people who have loved that tolerance, continue your practice and keep moving forward in life. God exists in your heart and becomes you.

[Love-Bali]

Having a broken heart means that you have tried, and the only way to cure it is to trust. Javier bardem, who has the same experience as liz, fully proves that the best love always appears in a coincidence inadvertently. For him, time is right. For liz, what she needs is no longer a man, but a champion.

In the face of new love, she hesitated. We sometimes lose our balance for love, just to live a balanced life.

At the end of the movie, liz is riding a bicycle in crazy pursuit of her beloved Brazilian man. She mentioned the physics pursuit rule: If you come bravely, leave everything familiar and comfortable, including anything from the house to the painful scars, and start a journey to find the truth, whether externally or internally, you are really willing to regard everything that happened to you during this journey as a clue and everyone you know along the way as a teacher. As long as you are ready, it is very important to face and forgive the thorny reality that bothers you, and then the truth is not far from you.

Everyone has his own words. The Sanskrit vocabulary is "antevasin", which means that people who are happy in the middle and live on the border, away from the noisy secularism, are the enlighteners of life. This is liz's word. She is not the one who is looking for her own words in Italy.

pack a trip for two people, because you meet the most beautiful yourself.