In the TV series "Please Answer 1988", the hostess Deshan is a very kind and sensible girl, and her family is also very warm, and the interaction between family members is often very warm, but after watching this TV series, people will feel very sorry for this girl.

Virtue and goodness are neglected by parents, which makes the audience feel distressed. The heroine Deshan in the play is a very gentle and beautiful little girl. She is the second child in the family. Her parents are not bad, but Deshan is a very sensitive girl. In the family environment at that time, she was doomed to be hurt and neglected because of her sister who had high hopes and her brother who was loved by the whole family, because her parents were also parents for the first time, and they didn't have much ability to pay attention to virtue and kindness at that time.

In simple years, like all parents, they may worry about their children's diet and study, but they also have to work and live hard, so they can't have too much time to take care of their children's inner growth. As the second child in the family, her situation may not be very good. If she asks, her parents will work too hard, which she doesn't want. So she won't ask, so her parents will put all their love and attention on their sister and brother. Because their parents' world is not just children, they need to work, so they always accidentally ignore their children's inner growth, which makes people very helpless.

Deshan couldn't vent his dissatisfaction, which made the audience feel distressed. Sometimes parents can't understand their children at home. They always think that if children don't talk, there should be no problems. Their educational methods are correct, but they often ignore the well-thought-out psychology of having a second child at home. Although Deshan is very sensible and obedient, it would be great if someone could listen to her. She is really not an unreasonable person. She loves her family and takes care of her family. Any love will warm her, but she refuses to say it. So the audience is very distressed by her. When children grow up, they will have their own world and values. In the world of love, if children don't talk, parents won't know. They don't think the child was hurt. In fact, if Deshan can speak out bravely, maybe her parents will understand her better.

Deshan is too sensible to make the audience feel that the family environment is not good, which will affect the child's position. Although virtue and goodness are naturally friendly and optimistic. No matter what she faces, she can forget the past pain because of a little warmth, and remember the warm people at this moment. This makes the audience feel bad, even on the screen. If emotions brew to a certain extent, people usually lose their temper and want to hate others. But deshan won't. This nature made Deshan smile and forgive his family. As long as family ties are involved, Deshan will think and deal with problems rationally.

There is a scene in the play in which Deshan's father stands alone in front of her with a cake and sends her birthday wishes. Deshan has tears in his eyes. She forgave everything. Even if she had suffered many grievances before, she would still have a round face. Maybe it was a long time ago. When she was injured, she hid in the corner and cried secretly. The moment when her thoughts were tangled and contradictory came later. Before, Deshan and her sister celebrated their birthdays together and only ate something else, but Deshan also felt that it didn't matter, because in the end, she felt that they were a family. She enjoys the warmth of her family.