1 Learn to get along and cooperate

In August p>23, after six months of adventure and fear, the kidnapping of 15 European tourists in the Sahara desert was finally solved. Fourteen people survived, except the German female tourist Michelle Spitze. Looking back on the whole kidnapping process, Michelle's death was not accidental. To some extent, she couldn't get along and cooperate well with others, which led to his death. < P > During this death journey, it is particularly important to get along and cooperate with passengers and kidnappers. Personal experience and charm determine her ability to get along and cooperate with others in this group and determine her position in this group. Michelle's stubborn personality and uncooperative attitude make her severely isolated in this group. Michelle doesn't trust anyone, and she often conflicts with her peers, all because of trivial things. Kidnappers are extremists. They ask the disadvantaged people to wear headscarves and coats. Among the abductees, only Michelle refuses to cooperate. After repeated persuasion by her companions, Michelle is increasingly alienated from her companions and has to stay alone. Most of them are good. She just lies on the blanket and sighs and talks to herself. Because of the growing emotional distance between Michelle and her traveling companion, even the kidnappers did not punish her after her disobedience again. Because they have realized how isolated Michelle is among the hostages, there is no need to make an example of her.

Michelle died silently, and the group (including kidnappers) became more harmonious and caring, which can be seen from the smiles in the photos of kidnappers and hostages. Hostage Mark-Heidi said: "It's not that Michelle has finally stopped making us nervous, but that we have seen that if we can't get along well and cooperate with each other, it will lead to even worse consequences."

getting along and cooperating well with people is a virtue at any time, which is the need of society. Getting along and cooperating well with others can make your personality noble, share others' success with an open mind, and affirm others with an appreciative eye, so your life realm will be improved; Getting along and cooperating well with others can build a healthy and harmonious interpersonal relationship. In a fast-paced modern society, learn to adapt and understand in a flawless living environment, and people will be more harmonious and less estranged; To get along well and cooperate with others, we must overcome that narrow mentality. A person who always thinks about his own gains and losses, a person who is always wary of others, and an arrogant person will never experience the happiness of getting along and cooperating.

The happiness of getting along and cooperating is not obtained by cheap flattery and unprincipled praise, and it is not a spiritual bribe of kowtowing to his liking, but a true value judgment based on objective facts.

2 Talking about cooperation

Feeling about the old saying. Some economists also said, "If you are not strong enough, you should make your own trunk and hang others' locomotives.". You can imagine the importance of cooperation.

anything bigger is done by a group, and it is by no means a matter of individual ability. Without the cooperation of three outstanding heroes of early han dynasty and butcher heroes, Liu Bang could not have established the Han Dynasty. Without Taoyuan Sanjieyi, how can selling children be the best in the world? If there is no tile hillock seating, it will make the brown boy. There is also an old saying: "One arrow is easy to break, but five arrows are hard to destroy". It can be seen that the importance of teamwork. We must ask for cooperation with different places to do business better.

I also feel that I was cheated when I cooperated with others in the past, so I really recalled my previous cooperation and made a summary. And if some cooperation contracts use the contract specification in the gobbledygook? Law? Is the tomb awkward? Tragic? Hey, brother? Waiter?

1. The cooperative relationship includes:

1. Equal cooperative relationship.

2. cooperative relationship between boss and employee.

3. Primary and secondary cooperation.

4. cooperative relationship between husband and wife.

5. Parent-child cooperation.

don't be deceived by the word "cooperation" that some people talk about.

Second, why do you want to cooperate?

1. Reduce personal efforts and investment costs.

2. Establish a platform to seek development opportunities, and surround shareholders more powerfully.

3. What each partner has invested and what they want.

4. One person counts as long, and two people count as short. Two men are better than one.

Third, the way of cooperation:

1. Have the spirit of cooperation.

there must be negotiation, communication, division of labor, cooperation, obligation and responsibility. For example, every shareholder should have the obligation to pull business.

2. Have a sense of enterprise.

a. even a small investment requires investment, even if you invest 1, yuan, you can better see the food and eat with investment. There must be an enterprise establishment, even a three-person leather bag company must have a professional title, a division of labor and a wage system. For example, there should also be a salary system of 1 yuan per person per month, a reimbursement system, a meeting system, etc., so as to make people feel like enterprises.

B. Have an investment plan, how much will be invested, how long will it take, and how many periods will it be divided into. There must be investment back to this plan. Investment includes capital investment, technology investment and business investment. According to the investment, rice is cooked, business is developed and managed according to the investment amount, and then the planned profit is achieved. Make a profit and then invest.

C. if the cooperative shareholder has a job or works part-time in a company, such cooperation will often lead to problems.

D. cooperation should list the norms, auditing, constraints (supervision) between cooperative shareholders, especially finance. These three points are a political issue and a collective issue.

cooperation is not called without the above two points.

fourth, the most important thing about cooperation is to give up.

one person can make money, so why should several people cooperate and share the money? This is to safeguard the interests of the collective to abandon individual limitations.

V. Problems in cooperation:

If you get a license to start a company seriously, there will be fewer problems. For example, in finance, each shareholder will receive a check with a seal. But for some business opportunities, or people in the early stage of entrepreneurship, a cooperation agreement is needed.

the main problem is also the key problem: money. People who have no sense of teamwork and enterprise will cheat shareholders. This is to be guarded against. There is also a roll of money to escape, which is very small and impossible to prevent.

VI. Matters needing attention when signing a contract with shareholders:

There is a saying that "those who compete for the world don't fight for rabbits". Never do other distractions before signing a contract, and it's best not to do anything, just as my graduation guidance teacher said, "I have to sleep, eat, drink and be full of energy before I start every creation". Do remember. I have suffered a second loss, which can be said to be lack of experience. One time, when signing the contract, the shareholders talked a lot and disturbed my mind. The second time, the shareholders arranged a lot of important and urgent things for me, which made me dizzy, and then asked me to sign the contract.

in the words of an enterprise boss, "we can cooperate in any way, as long as we earn money." We should welcome all kinds of business cooperation.

I think that a good brain is not as good as a bad pen, so I write down the platitudes about cooperation.

3. Happy cooperation

The market is bustling with people. In the middle of the road, A puts a paper box on the ground, which contains bagged tea. He shouted rhythmically, "tea, look at this good tea!" Cool, fire-destroying and antipyretic. Hey, come and have a look! "

B stood in front of the box with a silk bag, picked up a bag to look at, asked the price, and put it under his nose to smell it. An old man walked by, and B grabbed him: "Grandpa, what do you think of this tea? It's still eighteen. Can you give him sixteen lines? Smell it, smell it. " He handed the tea to the old man, who smelled it, and B approached him and said, "Give him sixteen lines? Tea is really not good! You buy a bag, and I'll buy a bag if you buy a bag. This tea is really not good. "

the old man shook his head and left.

b keeps smelling.

about two minutes later, a little old lady walked behind B. B quickly turned to stop her and persuaded her to go to the tea box:

"What do you think of this tea? I want to buy a pack, but I don't understand. It smells good. What about eighteen? Can I buy sixteen? Look, look first. "

The old lady had no choice but to take a look at the tea and smell it. A couple of men and women in their thirties stopped pushing the car. The woman picked up a bag and looked at it. "How much is it?"

"eighteen." A said.

b said quickly, "cheaper, cheaper. I want a pack. " As he spoke, he took a pack of open samples and showed them to the man.

"sixteen points cheaper." A said and picked up some bags and handed them to them. The little old lady walked away.

"Fifteen, I want two packs of exactly thirty, ok?" B said, and then went out to pay.

"We also want two packs on the 15th." The woman said.

"ok." A takes two bags and puts them in her basket.

B put two bags of things into silk pockets and followed them to the north.

after a while, c came with a thick cloth. Picked up a packet of tea and put it under his nose to smell it. He repeatedly shouted, "How much is the tea? Smells so good? ! Well, good tea! How much is it? " Following his voice, a middle-aged man stood down, and C shouted more vigorously, "Tea is not good! how much is it? Is it cheap to sell? "

"sixteen cheaper. They all sell eighteen. " A said.

"it's not expensive." C shouted, taking a bag and putting it under the middle-aged man's nose. "Smell it, it tastes good!" He whispered, touching each other with his arm. "Take two packs, not bad!" Fu said loudly again, "Hey, give me two packs."

a gives him two packages.

Middle-aged people put down their tea leaves and turned away.

c pours two packs of tea back into the box and continues to bargain with a.

five minutes later, several people gathered around. C took the opened sample and looked at it with the people around him: "It's eighteen!" Then he said to A, "Cheap, cheaper, there is no bargain when selling things. Even the best things have to be counter-offered. "

"If you buy more, it's sixteen, for the big weekend. Less can't be cheap. " A said.

"Well, it's good tea, you can't go wrong!" C whispered to others, "it's good tea, not expensive!" " Then he said loudly, "cheaper, cheaper, I want two packs." He picked up two bags and put them in the cloth pocket, and took out thirty dollars and handed them over.

"no,no." A pushes out, don't.

"all right, all right." C forced it to him, and A had to accept it.

several other people saw it, and they also took out 3 yuan to buy two packs. A pair of helpless appearance, one by one.

c followed the men to the left.

After a while, A dragged the box to the south, and he chose a busy intersection to stop. Not long after, B and C came together. The two men poured the tea in their pockets back into the box, surrounded the box, smelled and looked at it, and asked the price.

A man stopped and looked at it. "How much?" He asked.

"eighteen." A said.

"Hey, look, this tea is not bad. It's still sold for eighteen," said B to the man. "Everyone sells for fifteen." Turn to a, "fifteen lines? If you sell it, forget it. I'll buy yours. Why don't you sell two more packs? ！”

"ok." A promised.

"Give me two packs."

"Give me two packs."

b and c are scrambling for it. The man also took a bag and took out the money.

"can't I have two packs?" A asked.

"both, two packs." Said B, poking the man with his arm.

The man shook his head, took the change and left. B and C immediately threw the tea in their hands back into the box, but they didn't go away.

at noon, people in the market began to disperse. Go left out of the market, and in a restaurant with a small appearance but some grades, three people are drinking at a table in the corner. At their feet, an empty cardboard box was thrown there at random, and there was nothing in the box except two crumpled cloth bags. The table is full of chicken, fish and seasonal fresh vegetables. One bottle of high-grade liquor has reached the bottom, and the other bottle is almost halfway through.

A's face was full of wine, so he stood up and filled it for the other two, and sat down: "Let's drink to our happy cooperation!" And he raised his glass.

B and C also raised their glasses: "Happy cooperation!"

they said in unison, and three glasses bumped into each other.

4 cooperation

First, let's look at two nursery rhymes: (1) One monk carries water, two monks carry water and three monks have no water. (2) When an ant comes to move rice, it can't afford to move it around. Two ants came to move rice, and their bodies were swaying. Three ants came to carry rice and gently carried it into the hole.

why are the "three monks" "without water to drink", while the "three ants" can "gently carry them into the cave"? Are those three monks really inferior to that ant? Yes, because the three monks are self-concerned, afraid of losses, irresponsible, uncooperative and shirking, of course, there is no water to drink. And three ants can "gently carry them into the hole", which is the result of their unity and cooperation.

It can be seen that cooperation is extremely common and necessary. With cooperation in history, the world can develop today; With cooperation in nature, nature can flourish ...

There is an old fable in China: an old man was old, and his five sons often quarreled, which was not harmonious and did not cooperate at all. One day, the old man called his five sons to his side and gave them each a pair of chopsticks to break. The old man told everyone: only by uniting together will the strength be greater, and brothers will have a happy family if they cooperate leisurely.

god gave two families two long chopsticks. The first family used long chopsticks as ordinary chopsticks and only sent food to their mouths. But the chopsticks were too long, so they couldn't eat food at all, and they all starved to death. The second family sent food to each other's mouths. They fed each other and helped each other, and their family survived. So this tells us: to survive, we must cooperate with each other, so that we can unite and progress.

In today's society, with the rapid development of science and technology, the social division of labor is fine, and everyone's thinking and knowledge are limited. The ancient Mencius had a good saying: "The weather is not as good as the geographical position, and the geographical position is not as good as human harmony."

In fact, we China people have not united and cooperated. People say, "One China person is a dragon, and three China people are three worms." This shows that China people are not united and often engage in "civil war". I think I have heard a report before: in an activity competition of an international student summer camp, almost all the winners of individual competitions were awarded to China students, while in cooperative projects, China students were all self-care and did not cooperate at all. Even if one person can be the first, the total score is very backward.

Therefore, as middle school students in the new world, we should keep in mind the lessons, establish a sense of cooperation from an early age, and lay the foundation for winning in order to meet the challenges of the new world.