Have you ever paid attention to teenagers' ignorant view of love? Many people think that teenagers don't understand the concept of love because they haven't grown up and know nothing about the world. So, let me share with you the knowledge about teenagers' ignorant love view. I hope everyone can understand it.
Teenagers' ignorant view of love 1 There are three feelings in life, affection, love and friendship. Affection makes people warm, friendship makes people happy, and the role of love has always been controversial. Some people say that love makes people happy, while others say that love breaks their hearts. In a word, love is an elusive thing.
At the moment of our youth, love is like a beloved toy, and we will be disappointed if we don't get it; Just like a favorite food, it tickles if you can't eat it. For boys, when a beautiful girl appears, it often attracts his attention. After all, I am still young, and my understanding of love only stays on the surface. Once there is a fly in the ointment, this love is insignificant. In addition, if a girl is not only beautiful, but also studies well and has a good figure, such a girl must be attracting the attention of thousands of boys. However, after all, such girls are few and far between, some with unique vision and some with arrogance. Of course, girls who just want to study are not excluded.
In short, it is almost impossible for boys to fall in love with such girls. For girls, a boy is handsome and studies well. It is estimated that it will attract countless girls. This is an era of looking at faces, and everyone will automatically look for the best-looking face. If a boy likes sports, studies well and has a gentle personality, he is a male god. However, such boys are also a minority. Once the result is obtained, it will often be pursued by those more extroverted girls. As a result, those male gods often fall.
What I want to say is, at our age, what should I do if I have someone I like in my heart? You like him (her), maybe because he looks good, studies well, is considerate and has a good personality, or maybe just because of something. In short, you have her in your heart, but the other person is not interested, even ignoring your love and treating you as air. At this time, your fragile heart will be hurt and you will feel pain. But the more so, the more I can't let go, the more I can't let go, and the more painful my heart is. Like a circle, it keeps circulating and has no exit. You may have made up your mind to forget her you like more than once, but you remember her better. I can't help but miss her, want to see her, want to talk to her and want to be close to her. You see her, but there is nothing you can do, and finally you can only be silent. In this way, repeat it for several years. Once you graduate, you will be far away. Gradually, you find that you don't like her so much. So, in the new environment, you begin to like another person as before, but you will find that this person must have similarities with the person you once liked.
But we are still teenagers, and our mission, responsibility and obligation are learning. When there is conflict between emotion and study, we are always faced with very difficult choices. In the long run, you must choose to study, because without this foundation, the future economic foundation will not be solid. Without economic foundation, everything will be very sad. This platonic love rarely lasts.
If you really like someone, you should study hard. Why? If she doesn't study well, you can study, you can help her and the person you like, and you will be very happy. If she studies well, you will study harder, because if you catch up with her, or even catch up with her, you may win her favor, and you will be happy in your heart, because you stand side by side with her in your heart, which is beautiful! If you really like someone, be kind to yourself and others. In fact, we all know that when we were students, we seldom got together, because there are many uncertain factors in this era, and we are always full of longing. Once we are impacted by reality, this dream is bound to be fragile. We all know this, but we don't admit that many people's puppy love is based on money. Without money, it is inevitable to break up. Puppy love is a nightmare for girls. When it gets out, others will vilify it in various ways.
In fact, these things are hard to say clearly, but I think if you really like someone, please put this love away, keep it in your heart and say it at an appropriate time. If it's really fate, let's be together. If you forget this love slowly, then when you think of it, let it go with a smile.
Teenagers' ignorant view of love II. A correct view of love.
Cai Kangyong said that true love has no choice: I don't like any kind of people. If I love you, I only like you. But nowadays, there are too many feelings just because you are just right. Marriage life is more like choosing the right goods with high cost performance, and everyone tries to figure out each other on the box. I only hope that loving 1 people all my life is the correct concept of love, and loving your feelings with my life is not a legend.
People will meet more than 29.2 million people in their lifetime, but the probability of their love is only 0.000049. Although the probability of their love is very small, it is enough to love only one person for a lifetime. I hope I don't have time to look back and grow old together with deep affection. There is no rehearsal in life. What is valuable is that I like 1 person, which means a lifetime.
The past time is very slow, and I only like one person all my life. A beautiful sentence, "I only like one person in my life." I want everyone to think about it. They have promised to serve themselves. I only love one person in my life. But after that, after that, it was too complicated, too unpredictable, too unpredictable, and the result became too many opportunities. The service promise has always been very happy, but the food, clothing, housing and transportation are too real.
"How many couples love you until how old are you? When life can still throw caution to the wind for you, who is wrong in a thousand people's fingers and walk through the ups and downs of the world hand in hand?" This song "Ranking" sings the love resonance point buried in the hearts of many modern people. Two people who love each other, even if the standards at all levels are wrong, no matter what the outside world thinks, lovers will grow old together, only love one person for life, and love 1 person for life.
I just want to love 1 person all my life. Many people want to say that in this red light and green society, it is not easy to love only one person for life. I think, life is too short, why spend so much energy to love many people, only love 1 person, like a person well, feel that life is not enough, and want to love the next life, three lives and three lives.
Nowadays, the Chinese fast-food concept of marriage is permeated with a lot of utilitarianism and vulgarity, so love 1 is incorrect. Sometimes people have to learn to train people in the past, how to love themselves and how to manipulate every emotion. Only loving one person in one's life is the correct concept of love.