classified by stages, love letters can be divided into three types.

1. Love letters to people I have never met.

second, a love letter to someone who has been in contact with him but has never directly expressed his love for him.

third, love letters to people who love each other.

in the third case mentioned above, it seems that there is no need to make special explanations, because as long as you follow your own thoughts, you can play freely.

the first and second cases are more difficult.

in the first case, instead of writing a love letter, I suggest that we should make contact with each other first. Some people may say that you want to write a love letter because you want to get in touch with it. If that's the case, I have to persuade you to give up this idea of writing a love letter. Unless the other person is a fickle or idle person, anyone will be wary of receiving a love letter from a stranger. This kind of feeling can be felt as long as you put yourself in the shoes and imagine yourself a little.

Then, let's study the writing of the love letter in the second situation.

Dear XX:

Although the writing at the beginning of this letter is natural, it is unnatural in the second case. Because the premise of writing "Dear XX" must be that the two people are quite familiar with each other, otherwise, when addressing each other like this, it will only turn into one-sided wishful thinking, which will surprise the other party or make the other party keep alert. Therefore, in this case, it is more appropriate to express it as indirectly as possible. However, different from conversation, try to use words such as "like". For example, in an article, you can express your love for each other in a roundabout way. For example, you can write: I have never liked a person like this. Compared with the straightforward writing of "I like you", this kind of indirect performance is not only easy for the writer to write, but also won't be too abrupt for the reader. The word "love" is also a bold expression. It is best to avoid it and use the following expressions instead. Is this called love? What should I do? I seem to be in love with you. A statement like this is also a more tactful expression. The word "love" can also be used as follows. "Now, like a man and a woman immersed in love, I feel full of ups and downs and uneasiness." In addition, you can also quote other things to express your thoughts to each other diplomatically.

so we are generally the third type. There are more introductions in other parts.

How to write a good love letter

There may be millions of ways to write the first love letter of millions of lovers, but can the successful artistic first love letter be roughly summed up in the following ways:

1. Implicit method, or metonymy method. Implicit or pinned one's feelings on telling something or a story. There was a young officer who met a female classmate in high school when he was visiting relatives in his hometown, which triggered his hidden affection for her. After returning to the army, in his first letter to her, he told a beautiful love story. This letter is ingenious and artistic, and its feelings are deep and intimate. Later, their marriage came true, and I am afraid they also benefited from this successful first love letter.

2. gradual method, or quiet method. The first time I wrote to the other party, it didn't involve love at all, but what I talked about was what the other party cared about. In the letters returned frequently, each person gradually got to know more about each other's interests, knowledge, hobbies, dealing with others, insight into each other's thoughts and life analysis, and so on, thus quietly sneaking into the silent growth of love. With this kind of communication, it may be difficult to tell which is the first love letter. This is a natural and artistic technique that many people have used. The first letter that Xu Guangping wrote to Lu Xun in those years began with seeking advice, and then they exchanged hundreds of letters for more than two years. Literally, they could hardly find words like love and death, but between the lines of each letter, they were full of deep love. As Xu Guangping later wrote in the poem "For Love": "... all the story can be seen in the Book of Two Places, where there are no splendid flowers and passionate love, and our hearts are changing, working for mankind and walking hand in hand."

3. exposure method. Some people like to be deep, some people like to be lively, some people are tender, and some people are passionate, so lovers should take the most agreeable and convenient letters according to their own circumstances and characteristics, and knock on the hearts of both sides at once. However, the method of revealing the truth should not be used at will, and it must be based on the initial contact and understanding with each other. If we rush into it, it will inevitably lead to jokes and even unexpected results.

4. Pouring bag method. In love letters, not only courtship, but also "prognosis"-pour out the situation when two people fell in love, the possible trends in all aspects after marriage and their attitude, so that the other party can see the depths of your heart. Here, courage is needed, but sincerity is more needed; Need to catch up, but more need to be confident. Lao She, the famous writer, gave his mind, worries, prospects, intentions, etc. all in his first love letter to Hu Jianqing. His sincerity touched Hu Jianqing, and his soul won Hu Jianqing.

It's important to pay attention to methods and art when writing the first love letter, but it's probably the most important to condense the true feelings and intentions at the end of the pen. It doesn't matter if any love letter is rough. The most important thing is that the feelings of courtship or love should be true, natural, close and deep. And any affection of ostentation, affectation, ostentation and irrelevant language is the fatal wound of love letters, especially the first love letter.

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I'll give you a funny version:

I'm sorry, I haven't studied for a few years, so the letter is not well written. Don't laugh at me. Originally, I didn't want to write, but I wrote anyway, because there are some things I have wanted to say to you for a long time, and now I really can't hold back.

now I must admit that my heart is full of inferiority when I stand in front of you. This is determined by our economic strength. I know that love should not be mixed with too many realistic factors in this era, but I really can't ignore all kinds of disharmony caused by the gap between our economic strength.

now let's look at our gap. You have eight acres of seven fields, and you can be regarded as a small landlady in the village. As for me, the total * * * is only four points of land, which is poorer than the fraction of your field. I am like a long-term worker working in the landlord's house in the old society, and I am pitifully managing a little land. Fortunately, the relationship between us is not between landlords and long-term workers, so there is no deep hatred. Every time I think about this, I feel very comfortable. After all, as long as I ignore my economic strength, I may be with you ...

Your field is planted with rice, sweet potatoes, tomatoes, green beans and cucumbers, and all I can find in my field is a little weed. So I always go to your field to pick up the ears of rice after your harvest, and sometimes when I pass through your field, I will pick a tender cucumber or a ruddy tomato and digest it on the spot. I don't know if you saw me do these things, if only you didn't. It's not a bad thing if you see it, because you know how hard my life is, and it also proves that you are a compassionate woman. If I am with you ... < P > Although you are not very beautiful, I know that your heart is beautiful. Although I am not rich, I have a handsome face, strong arms and broad mind. Do you understand what I said? I mean ..... I want to cooperate with you in a benign way, combine your advantages in land resources and my advantages in human resources, and give full play to the greatest economic effect. Let's be a shining example for more than one billion farmers in socialist China in the 21st century, and let's make our due contribution to agricultural modernization.

Well, I've said so much, I think you understand what I mean? If I understand that, I am very happy, and you will know how to deal with our relationship; It doesn't matter if you don't know, really, I won't lie to you, it doesn't matter. But next time you hire someone to plow the land, will you please consider me first?

wish: a bumper harvest of grain!

it's not famous, because you know who in the village has only four fields.

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