Children who come out of a good family environment are confident, sunny, free and easy, and all of them exude a unique atmosphere.
Of course, the good environment here does not mean how superior and rich the family is. It is the atmosphere and mode of family getting along.
My daughter has a classmate whose mother also takes care of two children full-time. Often pick up and drop off children together, and the relationship has become very close.
But their family structure is very complicated, and there are many family members.
when I first met her, she took the children to live in the children's aunt's house, and their own rooms had not yet been handed over.
It happened that my aunt's home was near the school, so I lived in her home.
My mother-in-law takes care of her daughter, and she takes care of her two children. Together with my aunt, there are usually six people at home.
If my uncle, her father-in-law and her husband all come back from the county, there are almost ten people in that family under one roof.
Maybe ordinary people, such complicated relationships are intertwined, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must be obvious.
But in their family, there is no such problem. The family is happy and get along well.
at first, I went to her aunt's house once in a while, because I felt embarrassed to go. After all, it was not her house.
However, my elder sister-in-law and her mother-in-law are both lively people, and they like more lively family members. The most important thing is that my elder sister-in-law's daughter likes many people, and when there are many people, she is particularly happy and excited. Therefore, they often invite me to take my children to their home to play.
Because I often go there, I gradually know something about their family.
The whole family has a strong sense of ceremony. No matter whether it is an adult or a child, no matter who has a birthday, the whole family will come back to the party.
Cook a lot of delicious food, order beautiful cakes, give small gifts, and invite close friends to celebrate.
her mother-in-law is a good cook, with many patterns and good taste.
every time she goes, she is cheerful. Young people talk and drink while eating, while she feeds her children after eating well.
No matter the elder sister-in-law or the daughter-in-law, they don't worry about whether the children have eaten or not, because their mother-in-law takes good care of them.
Generally speaking, the mother-in-law takes her granddaughter instead of her granddaughter, and the daughter-in-law must be very uncomfortable, but there is no such thing in their family.
The whole family helps each other, holds hands with each other, and pays attention to everyone in the family. Everyone is valued.
Such a family, such a good family style, the children live carefree, immersed in the honey of love. It's hard for children not to be excellent.
It is better to teach by example than by words. It is better to set an example and impart a good family style to children.