People who have been hurt usually have a fear of love. After all, they are afraid that love will not last long.
Let’s take the example of a friend. She has a good job and outstanding appearance, but she is always alone.
It's not that she doesn't love anymore, but she doesn't dare to love anymore.
Many times she numbed her feelings by being busy, and over time she became a "workaholic" in the eyes of others.
Maybe others don't understand her like this, or maybe some people will say that she is a woman who pursues too much power, but that is not the case.
All she wants in life is a breakfast and lifelong companionship.
Unfortunately, these collapsed a few years ago.
At that time, she had just graduated from college. Since she was a fledgling, everything she saw was full of freshness, especially for work and life.
Sometimes you can’t even imagine that a girl who works nine to five can still have enough experience to meet up with a few friends in the evening to go shopping in Wangfujing, or call you to wake up on the weekend morning.
Shouting to attack nature.
She was such a girl who looked like a sunflower. When she met love, everything changed.
She no longer goes shopping in the mall at night, but spends more time waiting for the "busy" man. She no longer challenges nature like a charge, but instead uses pots, pans, and spoons to create things that can tie her down.
A treat for men's taste buds.
At the beginning, the man obeyed her and loved her very much.
But when she became more and more dependent on that person, the man felt that this kind of relationship lost its original "flavor".
In this way, men are getting busier and busier.
And she also fell in love more and more deeply, and slowly she changed from the original sunflower to the flower arrangement in the glass bottle, which was beautiful but with a touch of gloom.
Later, she made an appointment with the man to have a good breakup talk, but the man left silently without saying a word.
And she didn't feel the reluctance and sadness she imagined. Instead, she removed the gloom in her eyes, picked up the clutter in her heart and threw it far away.
Slowly she matured and no longer had the "innocent romantic" before, but what can be seen is that she changed back to the "sunflower" she used to be.
Yes, now she has not only escaped from the original gloom, but also gained a heroic and domineering attitude through life experience.
Maybe she still has a little bit of fear about love, but it can also be seen that she still believes in love.
After all, her love is still on the road now. Just like every injured child, we believe that as long as we are ourselves and keep a sunny heart, we will find a love that is most suitable for us.
Come on, friends.