If the method is proper, any man can get a girlfriend with three dates-Sish (will smith) in The Rival of the Nation.

In most cases, whether there is a chemical reaction of "love" between men and women often depends on the first three dates.

If the situation of the first three dates is bad, then if you want to warm up the relationship between the two sexes later, the difficulty will increase exponentially.

On the other hand, if the first three dates are handled properly, love will come suddenly like a tornado.

You can ask yourself, do you always only look back when you first meet someone of the opposite sex, and only smile at each other?

As far as falling in love is concerned, the probability of "love at first sight" is much greater than that of "love for a long time", which contains psychological "primary effect", "halo effect" and "suspension bridge effect", and we won't talk about these major truths.

Today, we are going to talk about dry goods. How to determine a love relationship with three dates? How to do it?

if you see a beautiful girl in a public place, she is sitting alone in a dimly lit corner, quiet and dignified, and bored, then how do you get to know her?

Maybe, you know some "rustic love stories" and feel humorous. You go up to her and say "You look like my next girlfriend".

if she is good enough, most of the results will see through your routine at a glance and think you are glib.

or, if you want to take a sincere strategy, you can tell her frankly that I am attracted to you, and your eyes are really beautiful, praising her beauty.

If you don't look as good as Eddie Peng Yuyan and Daniel Wu, she won't buy it.

Then, change the strategy. You want to show your "deep thinking" and "unusual" and try to analyze her innermost thoughts.

However, that will not only fail to achieve good results, but may also cause resentment.

In the end, Cheng Yaojin ran out of three axes. She showed no interest in you, so you had to leave in anger. Beautiful love seemed so far away from you.

so, what's the problem?

what will a master do? How did the master win the beauty home through three dates?

warning: the premise of using this guide is to have awe of love and to hold a sincere and loyal attitude towards love. Any act of playing with feelings will eventually reap the consequences at your own risk!

The general outline of the guide

The general outline is equivalent to a martial arts unique skill. If you want to understand the practical dry goods of love, you should first understand the underlying logic of gender psychology.

Find out a question, what kind of people and things do people like? What kind of people and things can make people involuntarily want to get close?

Focus, the likes and dislikes of human emotions can be summarized as two points: liking accidents and being afraid of losing.

For example: "You earned 211 yuan from your work" or "You won 111 yuan in the lottery by accident", which makes you happier?

the answer is undoubtedly "winning 111 yuan in the lottery", because the lottery income is "unexpected".

The "sense of gain" caused by accidents is far greater than the money itself.

Let's take another example: "You earned 211 yuan" or "You lost 111 yuan", which makes you more upset?

the answer is still the latter, and you will be more concerned about losing money.

people are more afraid of losing what they already have than getting something.

"accident" and "loss" are the "mentality" of the operation guide we will talk about next. The gist of three dates: move your heart with "accident" and stabilize your relationship with "loss".

well, once you have the mental method, you can do your best!

familiarity means "treating a first date like an acquaintance". When you meet an acquaintance, you won't be shy, let alone pretentious, and you will make a sincere and bold joke.

This will have two effects. First, it will create a comfortable atmosphere and quickly bring the relationship closer. Second, make her feel "unexpected", curious about you and think you are "different".

if you don't see, you can't see. No matter how beautiful the other person is, you should just ignore her and treat her like an ordinary person. You can tell her that even if two people live their own lives, they will certainly live well.

More importantly, the first date should be "stopped in time". After arousing each other's curiosity and creating a harmonious atmosphere through "accident", stop in time, say "Nice to meet you" and leave immediately. Let the other person feel unfinished and look forward to meeting you next time.

do you know what it's like to be in love?

In a short period of time, a person continuously encounters two "diametrically opposite" psychological stimuli, such as happiness and sadness, excitement and loss, and his heart will naturally "rise and fall", and the contrast caused by the sudden appearance of two emotions is the feeling of "love".

knife elder brother has always stressed that a date must be divided into "the first half" and "the second half", and the emotional stimulation of the two games should be completely opposite. The key to the second date is to create emotional contrast and make the other person feel "in love".

For example, in the first half, she was taken to ride a jet ski, and her heart was pounding.

In the second half, I took her to the Immigrant Memorial Hall to relive the wandering road of our ancestors. She was warm and moved, and her heart was rippling.

well, I feel in love!

after "emotional contrast" touches the other person's heart, don't forget an important point, "lay the groundwork" and pave the way for the next date.

For example, when sending her to the car, she accidentally left her clothes in the car, because returning the clothes would make the third date a natural thing.

In fact, emotional contrast and foreshadowing are all "accidents", which can surprise people or make moves invisible.

The first two dates have made the other person interested in you, established a good trust and emotional connection, and the seedlings of love began to sprout. So, at this time, can you ask the other person, "Would you like to be my girlfriend?"

no, never ask!

what should I do? I'll teach you another trick

"Intention to sign a contract" is a marketing term, which means that in the marketing process, although customers are interested in the product, they have not made up their minds to buy it. At this time, if you directly ask customers "Do you still want to buy it?", customers will immediately feel pressure, or even give up the deal, resulting in all previous efforts being wasted.

The correct way is to guide customers to sign an informal letter of intent with no legal effect. The essence of the letter of intent is a "psychological ceremony", which will give customers a full sense of gain, and once the sense of gain is given, people will be "afraid of losing".

On the third date, don't be in a hurry to confirm the relationship with the other party, but establish the "intention" of communication and make some short-distance plans. For example, make an appointment with each other to taste several delicious foods in the city together and plan to walk around interesting places nearby. Once the plan is reached, she will never forget it.

At the same time, there must be "physical contact" on the third date. Polite physical contact is not only harmless, but also can pull into the relationship between men and women.

don't underestimate "physical contact". As mentioned above, although signing a letter of intent is a ceremony and has no legal effect, it must be signed. This action will leave a mark of "clinch a deal" to the customer's psychology, and make people feel "gained".

If you look like Yifeng Li, Li Xian, or your family is like Wang Sicong, then you may make more intimate moves, and the fire of love is burning.

any man has a chance to charm any woman, as long as the method is correct.

knife elder brother is talking about love on the surface, but actually marketing psychology.

I'm an emotional psychological scalpel. I'm a real person, and I think I'm arrogant.