What if I marry a husband I don't love? If I don't fall in love at first sight, I will try to cultivate my feelings and see if I can have a long-term relationship and collide with the spark of love.
If you are unmarried, you'd better not get married if you don't love. Some love cannot be forced.
I married a gambling husband. What should I do? What is my family? Every couple will get a sincere blessing when they enter the marriage hall. They will grow old together and love each other forever. But it's easy to love for a while, but it's really not easy to love for a lifetime. In the years of your life, you can indulge in a happy life and a dissolute life, and you can live a luxurious and dissolute life. When you are young, you may often lose yourself, but when you feel exhausted and need to be cured, your family is your nest. People spend a lot of time wearing masks in their lives, so pay attention to your behavior, way of doing things and appearance. At home, you can take off your mask, relax, vent, cry and laugh. . How good is home? Some people may never understand it, so they don't cherish it! Home is not a reasonable place, this sentence sounds unreasonable, but it is absolutely true; How many couples are there? How many families? How many years did it take? How bitter is it? How much do you love and hate? How many are right and wrong? How many right and wrong? A conclusion drawn in the chaos; When two people start to argue, the family begins to cast a shadow. Both people will unconsciously hold a bunch of unrecognized fallacies, be hostile to each other and hurt each other, and finally only lose both sides. Superficial reasons, either break up or divorce, or make do with life; They don't know that home is a place to talk about love, not to reason, and not to settle accounts; Many people have many expectations for marriage, hoping to get wealth, comfort, love, tranquility and happiness from it; In fact, at the beginning of marriage, it was just an empty box. You have to put something in it to get what you want back. The more you put, the more you can take; Two people walking together must be a kind of fate, which can be met but not sought; Then, the first thing you put in this empty box should be fate. If you cherish your destiny, you will increase a little tolerance, and then you will give, love, serve, appreciate, rely on and get used to each other. The second thing you should invest in is gratitude, gratitude to your parents for giving you life, gratitude to all the people who have helped you in the world, and gratitude to your children for bringing you happiness; Only when you are grateful will you have a sense of responsibility; Marriage is like a gamble. Marrying a responsible man is the key to a woman's happiness all her life. So there is a saying: women, open their eyes before marriage and close their eyes after marriage; Some people say that when we were young, we didn't understand love; Marriage makes me feel that love is love, marriage is responsibility, sweet burden and willing to pay; The third thing that should be invested is affection, which should be the most sincere feeling in the world. With this sincerity, this family will have stability and warmth; Another important thing is contentment. There is an old saying that "the contented are always happy". This sentence is easier said than done. The world is so attractive that everyone is eager to have many and colorful lives. In fact, many of us can only spend it silently in the fate we can't choose; In the face of temptation, the mentality of contentment also needs years of experience; Everyone will encounter difficulties, setbacks, troubles, pains and happiness, but they are all different. Life is really dull. Days are like leaves on a tree, and every meridian and vein are almost the same; Everyone's life trajectory is different. For ordinary people, you can't expect to be famous and have a family. Maybe you can't have more wealth in your life. The purpose of our efforts to survive may be just to make others and ourselves happier; Put aside fame and fortune, learn to give up those unbalanced mentality, and let yourself be less impetuous, less extravagant and more quiet; In the years of life, having a broad mind, a healthy body, a peaceful heart and a happy mood will make your unhappy life more brilliant; Husband and wife should be spiritually integrated. Since they are alone, do they still save face with themselves? Still talking about dignity? If two people face difficulties together, share happiness together, and feel integrated through ups and downs in life, it must be the highest realm of husband and wife. Only envy mandarin ducks, not immortals; A happy home makes people happy, and happiness makes people young; Let's welcome and wait for the silver wedding and the golden wedding with a healthy and happy mood. At that time, we were already white-haired, but we would still hold hands and recall the ups and downs we experienced, and we would definitely exclaim: I was really great; Love is really not a romantic thing, but a simple dependence. Too much pursuit of your romantic and ideal lover, or utilitarian marriage will only hurt you. Be alert to things that undermine the relationship between husband and wife and avoid stabbing mistakes or unnecessary quarrels; Make more friends who are helpful to family life; Exchange more views on family life; Couples also need to review their married life from time to time and seek improvement. Conflicts, quarrels and cold wars are inevitable, because everyone will have emotional impulses. It is important to turn every conflict into a growing experience and learn to open your heart and face the reality. Only love and consideration for each other can resolve everything. Marriage and family are like a garden. The garden should have enough space for growth and planned planting. Sometimes we have to turn over the land, sometimes we have to fertilize it, sometimes we have to transplant it, and sometimes we have to eradicate it. Planting flowers depends on the season, flowers bloom differently, and marriage life also changes in four seasons. Therefore, the flower of marriage should be carefully watered. If they are allowed to grow with weeds, they will not grow well. Just need hard irrigation and careful care.
Married a selfish and stingy husband, what should I do?
A leopard can't change its spots.
You can try to change it first.
If you can't change it, you can't stand it yourself.
You will have to get a divorce.
What should I do if I marry a husband who is not motivated? Now that we are husband and wife, I suggest being more tolerant of my husband. For the problem of self-motivation, I can slowly persuade him to establish self-motivated confidence and then work hard for a happier life for his family.
What if you marry a husband who is a sheep? As long as you love each other.
Your husband loves you.
Only color you. You can cheat.
Any color between you will be fine.
What if you marry a disobedient husband or you listen to him?
Or you don't listen to anything.
Then the other party won't listen, and you can break up.
This statement is meaningless. What is obedience?
Or is it really a negotiation between the two sides?
I married a promiscuous husband, and I don't know what to do in the future. It's your choice.
There is no blind marriage now. Before you marry your partner, you should know how to understand and accept this trait.
So stop complaining. If it is not too much, take a step back.
Hello, it's hard for your husband to get rid of this problem (because it will make men feel very * * *,
A leopard cannot change his spots. Fortunately, he has only been married for two months.
But I've been obsessed with it, and I'm going to cut the gordian knot.
What I said above may be a little extreme. The most important thing now is whether you can accept this fact.
If you can still read his kindness, you can forgive him (I think this may have happened before you met)
Just force him to promise not to make such a mistake again. And observe his behavior at all times. . .
If you really can't accept it (it is estimated that many people can't accept it), rationally choose to break up. But things.
Don't say no, don't say no, don't let him hurt you (to be honest, it really makes you unable.
Accept). And as long as you think about it, you must be firm. Such a man knows how to coax a woman and will not be coaxed back by him.
Go, or it will be true in the future. . . .
I wish you happiness in the future!
I was annoyed to meet a lazy and stubborn husband. What should I do? The best way is to let your husband know that you don't want a microphone husband. If it still doesn't work. You can take your husband back to your mother's house at any time and ask your mother's mother-in-law to treat him badly, but not too obvious or too much, just deliberately. If your husband starts complaining, you should tell your mother (your mother should know about the plan, otherwise it will be misunderstood), and you should deliberately say that your husband will be embarrassed in front of him. Will tell you not to tell your mother. When you borrow it, you can tell him that you don't want to tell his parents what you complained to him. This should solve the problem of this microphone husband, right?
PS: Let him experience this embarrassment, so that he won't talk nonsense.