What if the child has poor self-control? Poor self-control means that children can't manage their emotions and behaviors well in some situations or when facing a certain goal. Self-control is related to everyone's sense of social achievement. If children have good self-control, they will be more likely to have a sense of discipline and a higher sense of social achievement. What if the child has poor self-control?

First of all, cultivate from living habits and guidance. It takes a process to form a habit. Parents should let their children develop good living habits from an early age, such as the time to sleep, the time to get up, the time to do homework, and the time to play. Emerson once said that habit can be your best servant or your worst master. Habit is the embodiment of one's self-control. Form good habits and use your self-control to restrain your bad master. In addition, parents can formulate some guidelines to restrain their children, but not too harsh and don't let them lose their independence. Habits and norms go hand in hand, so that children can be self-disciplined in their actions and thoughts.

Secondly, cultivate children's awareness and improve self-control. Many parents worry that their children don't have enough self-awareness to learn. They need to be urged by their parents day after day to do their homework every day. In fact, children's self-awareness is an important factor affecting children's self-control. Parents should help their children improve their self-awareness so that they can study consciously, instead of their parents' day and night. The most direct way to improve self-awareness is to let go of parents. Parents should make their children realize that they should be responsible for themselves. Many things he does must have his own independent ideas. Parents do not need to tell their children what to do and what not to do. ? Instead, tell children that the results of what they do will make them realize their self-awareness.

Thirdly, the development process of self-control also needs an example. Imagine if you are hungry at work and your colleagues are eating snacks, then your work will definitely be influenced by your colleagues. Similarly, if your child is studying and your parents are playing games, eating will definitely affect the child, so in the process of cultivating children's self-control, parents should set an example.

Finally, let children's interests be persisted and extended. Interest is the most powerful force for children to persist, so it is necessary to cultivate children's interest and let them persist. In the process of persistence, they will restrain themselves with fun and self-control, gradually expand their interest and let them persist. They realize that they can not only insist on one thing, but also do many things.