I used to work in an internet company. As long as the boss is not at work, the office is the center of the party. One of the most important pastimes is to tell us all kinds of dirty jokes and cold jokes, while tossing about the small program he is working on. It is really normal. Bear is a freak who loves to cook. He said that every time he went to the barbecue, he would order a pig whip to eat, which would be fun! These heavy tastes should be a common phenomenon in the office.
I don't think the chat between colleagues should be too ambiguous, otherwise it will be very embarrassing. Sometimes you don't know the background of your colleagues. If you don't know if you are married or have a boyfriend or girlfriend, then you really shouldn't think too much, or you will feel strange if you have to work together.
If there is a background about the benefits of bullwhip, let's discuss it again. No matter whether male or female colleagues tell you that they are complementary, don't fantasize. We just talk about the matter and let the topic unfold, but we can't end the topic. After all, sometimes work is boring, and talking about something will at least make you feel less boring!
In addition, sometimes, if colleagues have a good relationship, they know your life, know your physical condition, tell you something to make up for, and let you eat something to improve. This is still a gesture of goodwill and gives you some guidance. For example, a couple who have been married for many years have never given birth, and a colleague in a similar situation has successfully given birth to a baby. She (he) gives a heterosexual some remedies on how to conceive, which is just a kind communication.
If we say a topic with a strong flavor, it should be a stormy day. We are all on our way to work, provided that most people drive motorcycles to work, so it is normal to get wet in the office! As soon as the assistant director arrives at the office, no matter whether the male colleague is in the office or not, he directly says, this weather! My underwear is wet. At that time, we young girls all laughed and felt embarrassed. Our male colleague even joked, is it really wet? We'll help you dry it.
Seriously, I really don't think it's interesting. At that time, everyone just joked about the topic, so that the atmosphere would not be so stiff in an instant. If the careless director assistant didn't get a response after saying this, it would be even more embarrassing!
I understand it this way, because under normal circumstances, if you like you and want to confess to you, female colleagues should not give you such a faint heavy taste, and colleagues will not insinuate that you can do nothing!