Women's first child is very important and a gift from heaven. Don't abort it easily, otherwise these bitter fruits are waiting for you.
Bao Ma Xia Yu and her husband are college classmates, and they got married after graduation. Although their love is sweet, as newcomers born in society, they also feel the pressure of society. After less than a year of marriage, they accidentally got pregnant. Both of them were not ready. They finally discussed it and agreed not to have children for the time being, so they reluctantly aborted the children.
However, after a few years, the career finally stabilized. Bao Ma Xia Yu and her husband discussed it, but when they were ready to have children, they were unable to conceive. They tried many methods, but none of them worked. Finally, they went to the hospital and were told that Bao Ma Xia Yu had had many miscarriages before, which led to the current situation of being unable to conceive children. Bao Ma Xia Yu and his wife both regretted that they should not have aborted their children.
A woman's first child is very important and a gift from heaven.
For Bao Ma, a woman's first child may not be ready, but it may undoubtedly be a gift from heaven. When Bao Ma first started to get pregnant, generally speaking, she was younger. At this time, Bao Ma's physical quality was the best in all aspects, and it was easier to get pregnant. The baby born at this time is also the smartest and healthiest, and the chances of being smart and cute are also the greatest.
Therefore, women's first child must be cherished and never aborted easily. Otherwise, you may regret it later.
What is the influence of women not having their first child on Bao Ma? May leave a psychological shadow
If Bao Ma doesn't want her first child, it may be better to be pregnant in the future. If she can't be pregnant in the future, Bao Ma may be immersed in endless self-blame all her life.
You know, even if Bao Ma doesn't affect her future fertility because of turning around, it may leave a shadow in Bao Ma's mind. After all, if the first child develops normally, it is also her own child, and parents will feel guilty about it. In the later life, it is inevitable that you will blame yourself and be sad.
Do great harm to women's health.
Bao Ma's uterus is fragile. Every pregnancy is an injury to the uterus. The more pregnancies, the greater the harm to the uterus. The uterine environment in which the first-born child is located is the best. If the first-born child is aborted, it will not only affect the uterine environment, but also lead to the decline of Bao Ma's physical immunity, affect Bao Ma's physical quality and increase the chance of gynecological diseases. In addition, it may also reduce the chances of Bao Ma getting pregnant in the future.
Bao Ma can't conceive a child. In many cases, it may be due to the previous experience of aborting the child. At the time of birth check-up, the doctor will also ask Bao Ma whether it is the first child and whether she has had an abortion experience. This is not an irrelevant issue, but a very important matter, which is related to Bao Ma's pregnancy and the healthy development of the fetus during pregnancy, so doctors can prevent it in advance.
In the short term, it is not suitable for pregnancy again.
Don't think that Bao Ma doesn't need confinement just because she aborted the fetus. For the sake of Bao Ma's health, she still needs to recover well. This is often called a small confinement. For a long time, Bao Ma's physical condition will also deteriorate and she is no longer suitable for pregnancy. Maybe young people don't have much influence at first, and they can't see any problems. When they get old, they may have such problems, which is probably related to the previous abortion.
Pregnancy is not an easy thing in a year. Bao Ma should cherish this opportunity and treat each child carefully. If she is not ready and has no plans to have children, then the husband and wife must take defensive measures, otherwise there may be accidents, which is not good for anyone. What do you say?
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