Full record of Western-style wedding ceremonies

At present, more and more young people are joining the ranks of Western-style church weddings, because church weddings give people a solemn and sacred feeling, but for Many people don’t know much about the etiquette of Western-style church weddings. The content of a Western-style church wedding is rich and colorful. Here is a brief introduction for you:

(1), entrance of the pastor, entrance of the groom, bridesmaid, and best man

(2), The bride and her father enter the ceremony

1. Bless the newlyweds who have been praised and blessed by their relatives and friends for their union in front of the altar.

Who approves of this new couple’s marriage?

You can respond appropriately according to your personal wishes.

(3) Calling and praying

1. Calling

Two loving newlyweds, we Today in this sacred and solemn church, in front of God and in front of the congregation, a sacred wedding will be held for you, brother XXX and sister XXX. According to marriage, marriage is extremely precious and was established by God. Therefore, we should not be careless and hasty, but should be respectful, pious, and respect God's will to accomplish this great thing.

2. Prayer

God, we thank you for this joyful wedding; we thank you for this important wedding day; we thank you for this important moment. ;Thank you for being with us all the time; in the name of the Holy Spirit of Christ. Amen. (Playing wedding march).

(4) Chorus: 185, "Wedding Song"

(5) Pastor's exhortation

Standing in front of God, I exhort You two, remember that love and faithfulness are the foundation upon which a joyful and everlasting home is built. If you always keep your solemn vows; if you unswervingly seek and follow the will of your Holy Father, your lives will always be harmonious and happy; and the family you build will withstand any changes.

Of course, you must also remember that you are not embarking on the journey of life alone. When you are faced with difficulties, do not be afraid to ask others for help. Helping hands come from ------ friends, relatives, and church. Accepting help from others is not an act of shame but an act of sincerity. All around us, the Lord reaches out to us. The hand of Jesus Christ is everywhere. Most importantly: we witness the union of this new couple. Amen.

(6) Engagement contract

XXX, would you like XXX to be your (wife/husband) and live together as friends and partners? Do you love (her/him) and respect (her/him)? Are you willing to share happiness with (her/him) as an equal, regardless of pain, victory or confusion?

(7) Exchanging vows

XX, choose you XXX to be my (husband/wife). From today on, I will own you and stick to you. No matter good or bad, rich or poor, sick or not, I will love you and cherish you until death separates you and me. In obedience to the will of God, I pledge my love to you and my devotion to you.

(8). Exchanging rings and “lighting concentric candles”

1. Exchanging rings

Pastor: “Wedding rings symbolize eternity; An eternal union of hearts and souls with endless love. Now give her the gift of your love and your earnest desire for your hearts and souls to be united forever. You can give this wedding ring to your bride. .

Groom: "XXX, this ring I give you symbolizes my love and loyalty to you.

Pastor: "Also give him a gift of your love and your earnest desire to unite your hearts and souls forever. You can give this wedding ring to your groom.

Bride: "XXX, this ring I give you symbolizes my love and loyalty to you.

2. Plot description of "Lighting Concentric Candles"

Lighting the two outermost candles represents two people with different life trajectories. When they get married, it symbolizes two candles merging into one. This is the Lord's will.

The Lord said: "For a man will leave his father and mother and live with his wife. The two will start a new life." From this point on, you must think about each other, not just yourself. You have the same ideals, and you share the joys and sorrows together. When you each hold a candle and light the middle candle, you extinguish your own candle. This is because lighting the middle candle represents the beginning of a new life for the two of you. In the homes of Christian believers, this candle cannot be severed and is a testimony that two people will live together forever and become an indivisible one. May the light of this candle bear witness to your union in the Lord Jesus Christ.

(9) Pastor’s declaration

Since Brother XXX and Sister XXX have made two oaths in front of God and the congregation, they join hands with each other. In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, I declare these two to be husband and wife.

(10), blessings from relatives

(11), choir singing: "Two Rings", "Covenant"

(12), Pastor’s blessing (please refer to three cases)

1. Bless you and be with you. May the merciful and generous Lord favor you. The Lord will bless you and keep you safe.

2. Bless you and protect you. The Lord will support you below you; guide you in front of you; protect you behind you; the Lord will be by your side and deep in your heart. The Almighty Lord can give you what you cannot. Joy and harmony are the Lord’s rewards for your loyalty. They are things that this world cannot give or take away. It all depends on Jesus Christ. We will always praise our Lord.

3. May the Lord bless the newlyweds. Immortal Father and Savior Jesus Christ, now we surrender to you. As this new couple takes the first step in their new journey of life, we would like to ask the Lord to protect their home. Pray that the Lord will always teach them faithfully, stabilize their marriage, provide for them, and be their guide in life. May they praise the Lord when they make decisions and whatever they do. This also includes all pastors. They will draw people to worship the Lord. They are proof of faithfulness to the Lord on earth. We ask the Lord in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

(Thirteen), kiss

Pastor: Brother XXX, you can kiss your bride.

Introducing the Newcomers:

Pastor: Now I have the honor to introduce to you, Mr. XXX and Mrs. XXX.

(14). The wedding exit sequence is usually as follows:

1. Groom, bride

2. Bridesmaid, bridesmaid

3. Bride and groom’s attendants

4. Flower girls, ring attendants

5. Ushers guide the guests and escort them out.

6. Ushers can dismiss guests and ask them to leave in an orderly manner.