1, pregnant women are not allowed to go to the grave
If a pregnant woman is pregnant, it is forbidden to go to the grave, because Yin qi is very heavy in the cemetery. If a pregnant woman goes to the grave, it may cause fetal discomfort in her belly, which is the most important thing for young people to know among the top ten taboos for burning paper at the grave.
2. Married daughters are not allowed to go to the grave.
As the saying goes: "The water spilled by the married daughter", the married daughter should not come back to her parents' grave, but only pay homage to her parents' ancestral grave in her husband's house, because in people's traditional concept, the married daughter is already a husband's family, and it is not allowed to go back to her parents' grave to pay homage to her ancestors, which is detrimental to herself and her family's geomantic omen.
3. It is forbidden to go to the grave when a woman has her period.
If a female friend's period comes, she must not go to the grave, because menstrual blood has the effect of exorcising evil spirits. If her period comes to the grave, it will disturb the ancestors in the cemetery.
4, too young to go to the grave
No matter where the custom is, it is not appropriate for a daughter to go to the grave because she is too young. Generally speaking, if a child is less than six years old, it is not suitable for both men and women to let him attend the activities of paying homage to his ancestors. Because the child is too young and the yang is weak, and the cemetery is a place with heavy yin, it is easy for the child to see some unclean things, and it is easy to cause some negative gas fields to wrap around the child.
5, should not wear bright red and green clothes.
Dress neatly when you go to the grave to show courtesy and respect to your ancestors. It is not suitable to wear bright red and green clothes, which is not in harmony with the atmosphere of the grave. It is suitable to wear dark and black clothes, and plain or white clothes are also suitable.
6. It is not suitable for outsiders to participate in ancestor worship.
As an outsider, it is not appropriate to go to the grave, and it is easy to cause unnecessary trouble. Because they are not a family, their blessings are different, which may cause disorder in the gas field and lead to disharmony and bad luck.
7. Pay attention to your own fortune when going to the grave.
Before you go to the grave to worship your ancestors, you can see if your forehead is black. If it is, it means that your fortune is low. It is advisable to avoid going to the grave as much as possible.
8. Pay attention to paying homage to the grave.
Going to the grave to worship sacrifices should be in order. In order: father, mother, eldest son, eldest daughter, second son, second daughter and so on.
9. Burn the paper on the grave before you go.
When burning paper on the grave, many tributes will be burned. At this time, people who burn paper on the grave must wait until all the paper is burned to avoid unnecessary fires.
10, burn paper in circles.
When you don't burn paper in the cemetery, you should draw a circle on the ground before burning paper in the open space, and then leave a hole in the burial position of your ancestors. When burning paper, ancestors came from this direction to get paper money.
The above contents should be combined with the actual situation for reference only.