At that time, she just disliked my poverty and refused to live a down-to-earth life with me. Now I still feel that women are unreliable. They look at precious things in their eyes and complain that you are unable to let her have them. That's why I still don't look for a woman. If I have no money, who will really live with me?
My ex-wife and I were in love for several years before we got married. At that time, I thought she was not a woman with special material, and she was kind at heart. But after she came out of the society and got married, she began to like to compare, like to buy this and that and dress herself up. Later, because of work, she and I also separated, which caused our marriage to break up.
Once, I went to see her, took a long bus ride, and after that, she didn't have much enthusiasm. I took her to eat and go shopping, and she seemed to be unhappy. Then I found that at night, she started talking secretly in the toilet, and I went in.
I felt very inappropriate, and then I began to ask her. She told the truth, saying that she knew a rich man and was very kind to her. She began to like him. I didn't say anything, just slapped her and left.
Later, I went back, pretending that nothing had happened and moving on. I thought she would turn around, after all, she had not made a mistake. I also called her to come back, but she wouldn't listen to me anyway. I didn't stay until she said she was divorced. The derailed woman, who had been outside for a long time, couldn't help it.
After the divorce, I began to be in a daze. When I saw the child, I got back on my feet and my life was getting better and better. But I didn't ask for her news. One day, she sent me a message saying that she was having a bad life. I didn't say anything, but I felt a little lucky for no reason.
During the Chinese New Year, she came back to see the children and looked at her with a haggard face. It turned out that the man abandoned her and she wanted to go home. She said that she would come back to take care of my children, but I didn't agree, because I knew that her heart was still not wild enough.
Every woman who cheats always considers the consequences. Between the balance of interests or the needs of women, women still choose to cheat. The woman before the affair must have thought about these six things. And these six things, women who cheat have three fears and three fears. How many men do you know?
One: fear of passive divorce and loss of financial resources.
Men value face, women value reputation, and the consequences of cheating between men and women are very different. Although cheating is emotional betrayal, men can make love, but their wives are not allowed to have an affair. There are also differences between men and women in the attitude of cheating. Men are easier to be forgiven by their wives after their return, while women are harder to be forgiven by their husbands when they cheat. A woman's psychological reaction after derailment is complicated, and it is easy to leave clues. As long as her husband pays attention, it is not difficult to find out. Once a woman is caught cheating, she will face the danger of being expelled from her home, and there is a great possibility of leaving her home clean. If a divorced woman's income is meager, the quality of life will inevitably decline, and it will be even worse for her children to award themselves. Therefore, what do women fear most after cheating? The most important thing is passive divorce and loss of stable financial resources.
Two: I am most afraid of being framed by my lover when I am passionate.
When a woman and a lover have an affair, although they are full of passion and energy, after all, it is only dew, and some are just desires and there is no real feeling at all. No matter how long they have been in the dew, they will not have a heart-to-heart relationship. Moreover, there are many examples of extortion by men filming small videos of women, which makes women very worried, fearing that they will lose their wives and lose their soldiers.
Three: I am afraid that my husband will peek at my mobile phone.
After being separated from her lover, the way for a woman to contact her lover will be through her mobile phone, whether it's online chat or mobile phone call, which is the way for a woman to contact her lover. However, when a woman comes home, she will be afraid that her husband will peek at her mobile phone. Although sometimes, a woman will deliberately clear the chat record, she is always worried that there is something she has not deleted, so she is afraid that her husband will peek at her mobile phone and find something wrong, which she cannot explain.
Not afraid of no company.
If her husband doesn't have time to accompany herself, the marriage will easily become fragile. When a woman has an affair, she will no longer worry about having no one to accompany her. As long as her husband is not at home, she will start to go out on dates.
Not afraid to go home alone.
In the past, women were afraid of the dark. When they came home too late, they always asked their husbands to pick them up or wait for them at the intersection. But after she had a lover, in order to avoid being seen by her husband or neighbors, women came back from a date and were no longer afraid to go home alone.
Not afraid of not having money.
When a woman and her lover are together, they must not worry about eating and drinking. After all, at this time, there are two men raising her. Women who cheat often spend money lavishly. If a man finds his woman suddenly rich, then your woman must be cheating.
Women often can't bear loneliness when men can't satisfy themselves. At this time, they will naturally seek comfort from other men. Maybe a woman thinks it's over when she comes home and washes her body, but it's not. The derailed woman is desperate, and even if her body is cleaned, her bones are still not white.
0 1, pay attention to your husband's time out.
I didn't pay much attention to my husband's going out time before, but now I ask him when he will come back or when he will go out from time to time. In doing so, a woman just wants to have a private date with her lover while her husband is at work.
02, often going out to socialize has become a part of women's life.
Sometimes women always come home late, and on Saturdays and Sundays, Ran Ran often talks about working overtime and stays home late at night. Women spend less and less time at home and more time outside. Infatuated men think that women are completely for work, but they are not. It is just a cover-up for women to perfunctory their husbands, so as to deceive themselves into cheating.
03, deliberately please or cover up
Some women feel guilty when they cheat, and they always feel guilty. Because of her husband's words, women will think too much and get suspicious, and then they will think about being nice to her husband and divert her attention. As everyone knows, nothing is courting, and it is either rape or theft. The more women do this, the more guilty they are.
Even if the derailed woman washes her body cleanly, it is difficult to hide these details.
When Zhao Ping and her ex-husband got married, their feelings were very general. At that time, there were many men who liked Zhao Ping. In the end, she chose her ex-husband only because he was the richest one.
However, the married life is not what Zhao Ting thought. Her ex-husband not only didn't give her too much money to squander, but also was busy with work all day, so he didn't have time to talk to her at all. Marrying a rich man's house didn't make her live a happy life, but it was endless emptiness and loneliness.
Once a woman doesn't feel warm, as long as others give her a little consideration and care, she will feel that this man is the true love for herself, so she will completely fall into the arms of a man.
During her husband's business trip, Zhao Ping met Wang Tao. Although this man is not as rich as her husband, he can bring her physical and psychological satisfaction. She has had the urge to divorce her husband countless times, but she still hesitated before her so-called love at the thought of losing everything she has now. But this didn't stop Zhao Ping. Instead, she vented all the love she couldn't get from her husband on Wang Tao. She bought expensive clothes and watches for Wang Tao so that Wang Tao could be worthy of herself when she went out with herself.
Over time, Zhao Ping's care made Wang Tao feel that such a life was really comfortable. He was attached to Zhao Ping like a parasite. In order to please Zhao Ping, Wang Tao obeyed her and never dared to refuse her.
However, all these good days came to an abrupt end because of Zhao Ping's pregnancy. After learning that she was pregnant, Zhao Ping was also blindsided. She was not sure whether the baby in her belly was Wang Tao's or her husband's. Zhao Ping thought that since she didn't know who it was, she would just be born. If it was Wang Tao's, she would divorce her husband. Anyway, this kind of life has been enough. If it is her husband's, maybe she can still get a lot of money from her husband when the child is born.
However, Wang Tao is worried that if the child is really his own, Zhao Ping and her husband divorced because of this, and his good days will be over. He is worried that the affair between the two people will be exposed, so he said nothing to agree with Zhao Ping giving birth to this child.
Just when two people hesitated to make a decision, Zhao Ping's affair was discovered by her husband, and she couldn't hide it. Zhao Ping simply told the whole story about her pregnancy. Zhao Ping thought that she would divorce anyway, so she might as well gamble with the children in her belly, and maybe she could get a general share of her fortune.
However, just when Zhao Ping divorced her husband to divide the property, Wang Tao left Zhao Ping and ran away without a trace. He knew that he could not afford a woman like Zhao Ping at all. Besides, there was still a child, and no one could find Wang Tao. She didn't expect that she would give up her marriage and family for such a coward in the end.
Later, Zhao Ting went to the hospital alone to abort the baby, because it was meaningless for her to keep it. No matter who it was, the baby had to be raised by herself. Originally, Zhao Ping hoped that she would beat the child and her husband would forgive herself, but all this was just her whimsy. A woman who went off the rails was dirty not only in her body, but also in her soul.
Women always have to pay a certain price for cheating. Even if their marriage is unhappy, it is best not to cheat, and they can fall in love after divorce. This is the right choice, but some women are not afraid at all.
I'm not afraid of no one to accompany me
If the marriage is unhappy, women will choose to cheat, even if they know that they can't get together with their lover in the end, even if they know that they may get divorced, they are still not afraid. Let's be happy first, and it doesn't matter if there is no one to accompany them in the future.
Second, I am not afraid of separation from my husband.
If she has a stable relationship with her lover, she won't be afraid that her husband will fall out with her, so she can live with her lover. Separation is a trivial matter. Anyway, she doesn't love her husband. It's better to separate.
Third, I am not afraid of staying alone.
I cheated on myself, and my husband is likely to choose the same way to retaliate against women when he knows it, so women are not afraid to keep their rooms empty at all, and it is possible to go out to meet their lovers and take them home. For women who are disappointed in their marriage, they can do anything.
In feelings, a woman can make any mistake, but the only mistake she can't make is derailment. This is the bottom line. A derailed woman is like a broken shoe. Since it is broken, she must throw it away!
I. insatiability
Women in insatiability always dislike their own men, always look at other people's men, and will never be satisfied. It is normal to complain and dislike, so she often chooses a powerful man as a lover to satisfy her vanity.
Second, there are many telephones and many mobile phone messages.
This kind of women always wander among countless men, and mobile phones are an inevitable tool. Maybe when you are eating with her or watching a movie, she will always stare at her mobile phone from time to time because there is information about other men.
Third, there are obvious changes in appearance, which are inexplicable
When a woman has an affair, there must be many changes in her appearance and heart that make you puzzled. Externally, the most common thing is that there will be more elaborate dressing, more daily expenses and changes in habits than before. Internally, you are not pleasing to the eye, your mood is impermanent, your hobbies are changing, etc.
Fourth, seeing you is not pleasing to the eye.
Women are so strange. If you love someone, you will love them desperately, but if you don't love them, you will be enemies. Because your existence is the obstacle between her and people outside marriage. I can't wait for you to disappear so that she can be with people outside marriage.
Five, often go out and socialize more.
Extramarital affairs need to run at both ends, and it takes time. No matter when men cheat or girls cheat, they will find many excuses not to go home. For example, it is a very dangerous signal to suddenly start working overtime and often go out to play.
Unless she gets a promotion, a raise or a new job that requires frequent overtime and entertainment.
Sixth, I began to be cold to you!
In life, her enthusiasm for you is no longer the same as before. Every time she comes home, she says she is tired, takes a shower and goes to bed or does her own thing. She doesn't want to say a word to you at all. Sometimes even if you take the initiative, she will shirk it for various reasons. In fact, in the final analysis, it is because she is full outside!
Seven, each other seems to live in two worlds, like strangers.
Husband and wife were originally close, but some people in strange bedfellows, at this time, have less communication with each other, or even zero communication, so that there is no concern and greetings before, and even little daily conversation, let alone any communication. What's more, they can't see each other's figure for a long time, like strangers. In this case, I'm afraid her heart is not with you.
Cheating is a devastating blow to a family. Even if one party can forgive the other, the inner nature can't forget such betrayal, and the estrangement will accumulate in the heart day by day and eventually break out. I hope you will stay with your marriage as always, and I hope you will enjoy a picturesque and comfortable life.
To tell the truth, the second married woman is not a good bird!
With a bang, my wife slammed out the door and was shaken by a phone call from a strange man in the middle of the night. In fact, this situation has been our normal since we got married for two years. Because there are still houses to be demolished in their family, my parents told me to bear it. It is not too late to mention divorce when this share of money is distributed to me.
Sometimes I think, I'm too mean. A man lives without any self-esteem, but every time I think of divorce, I feel sorry for it. Why should a second-married woman, married with children, and a first-married man look at her face?
At the beginning of this year, my sister followed her personally, and as a result, she and an old man said that they were partners in business. In fact, the discerning eye could see that his wife had an abnormal relationship with this man, and that his wife and husband were commensurate with each other. My sister had a fight with her for this matter, and as a result, the old man found a group of young people in the underworld to threaten our family. That is, from this time on, our family did not dare to talk about his wife's private affairs, and our husband and wife made do it for the sake of fame.
Over the past few years, I have been in poor health, and I have always done something hastily in bed. Later, I was disgusted with the love between men and women. I was physically overwhelmed and my self-esteem was always hurt psychologically, so many times I only had a perfunctory attitude. After a long time, she began to complain about these things:
"It's a mistake to marry you. Other men can not only satisfy themselves, but also take care of women outside marriage. You are different. Every time you perfunctory, you live like an old lady when you are young. Are you going to be widowed for a lifetime?"
Last month, she was pregnant. She has been married for more than two years, and she has never been pregnant. Since the relationship between husband and wife declined, she suddenly got pregnant. As we all know, the child is definitely not mine, but she always said that the child is mine.
I want to have a paternity test, and then I want to know if the child is mine. If not, let's end this marriage happily, and let's end the interest dispute between us, because I also want to be a real man!
What would you do if it were you?
The most humiliating thing for a man is wearing a green hat on his head, which is the most unbearable thing for a man, so when looking for a woman, you should be optimistic to avoid this kind of thing. Three characteristics of a woman who is cheating, you should know one thing! Let's take a look.
The first one: revealing clothes.
A woman with scantily clad clothes can easily remind people of some unfair occupation, while some women say that scantily clad clothes make people look at their personality, and she likes this style of clothes. In fact, these are all excuses. In fact, in her heart, she hopes that all men's eyes will gather here.
The second one: heavy makeup.
The present makeup technology is called the second cosmetic surgery. For women, there is indeed a big gap before and after makeup, so many women love makeup. However, in life, you only need light makeup. Too much makeup is not good-looking. Only some special women will do this, and they are just trying to attract men's attention.
The third: love flirting with men.
Some women are very popular with men, surrounded by many men. They like the feeling of being surrounded by men. Not only do they not avoid them quickly, but they often flirt with them. Such women actually don't know what self-esteem and self-love mean at all.
If a woman wants to go out of the wall, you can't lock it, and this kind of thing is impossible to prevent, so we should screen it well at the beginning and kill it in the cradle at the source. If you like a woman, you should not only look at her appearance, but also look at her heart and see what her essence is like before you can decide whether you can continue with her.
When a woman is married, if she has a heart for someone outside marriage, it may not be obvious to you. Because a woman's heart has long been trying to get rid of the shackles of this marriage, it's just futile for you to see it at the moment. I have a harmonious family and a harmonious marriage. But I didn't expect that because of the woman's derailment, there was nothing in the end.
Before we got married, we were in love for a year, and we got to know each other. And our career, also have some improvement. I can also save some income every month. But because I had children after marriage, I let her give up her job, let her take care of her children and her family. But I didn't expect that my practice became the cause of her infidelity.
After the children grew up, they were sent to kindergarten. And she was bored at home, so she fell in love with playing games. Playing games is nothing, but she gives birth to feelings in the game. At first, I just chatted on the game. After that, I left contact information with each other and turned it into a chat in the network.
When she was chatting, I accidentally saw her once. In a rage, I broke her cell phone. And for a short time, she is not allowed to have contact with any man. She was also honest for a while because of my anger. But this honesty is also temporary. Later, after seeing her honesty, I bought her a mobile phone.
After buying this mobile phone, she learned to be smart. When chatting with men, she usually doesn't let me see it. And every time I finish talking, I will delete it cleanly. And I thought she was just having fun at that time, and I let my guard down for her. But unexpectedly, my relaxation finally turned her into indulgence.
She was still chatting with men, and finally ran to reality and finally had an affair. Maybe when a woman wants to cheat, it is not a man who can lock it!