What does this stalk mean?
The specific explanation is this: It means that in this cold autumn, having a cup of hot milk tea means that people who care about you are especially warm and see your news, or take the initiative to send you money for milk tea in 52 yuan, so that you can drink the first cup of milk tea in autumn.
Of course, the main purpose is definitely not to drink milk tea. After all, a cup of milk tea really can't reach 52 yuan, and even my circle of friends sent 520.
I think, maybe we can call "the first cup of milk tea in autumn" a thousand and one ways to feed dog food.
Some people really like to drink milk tea, and some people definitely follow the trend.
Most of the people who look at the circle of friends are girls called husbands, or red envelopes sent by boyfriends to themselves, and some of them are sent by girlfriends and friends.
Originally, when I saw this terrier, I just smiled gently and ate this bowl of dog food happily, thinking it was a little fun between couples. When two people are together, occasionally giving red envelopes to give gifts is originally a matter of enhancing feelings.
Sending each other between friends and girlfriends is also a small pleasure, that is, there is a feeling of being remembered.
I remember once, there was a similar stalk. A teenager sent me a small red envelope. I didn't know what it meant at the time. After asking, I was surprised and thought I was remembered.
This kind of thing is harmless as long as it is not excessive.
Besides, 52 yuan really doesn't have much money.
Until the evening, I heard a boy vomit such a thing.
He quarreled with his girlfriend because of this terrier. His girlfriend offered to give him a red envelope, but 52 yuan didn't do it because he didn't think it was necessary.
In his view, today is neither a holiday nor a birthday. Why do you want to send this gift for no reason?
Then, his girlfriend got angry and said that he didn't love himself, and he would be reluctant to part with the 52 yuan.
He said it was not that he could not bear to part with the 52 pieces, but that he regarded it as a matter of principle and felt that if it was a holiday, he should show something.
He said, today is autumn milk tea, what will it be tomorrow? Winter cotton-padded clothes? 52 yuan this time, 520 yuan next time. As long as you don't send it once, it is destined to be like this.
He thinks this is a bad habit and can't get used to it. Once you get used to it, it's a bad start.
So he later became angry because of his girlfriend's insistence, thinking that she was completely unreasonable, and said, why don't you give me money to buy a cup of milk tea?
After a while, he found that his girlfriend had blacked himself out.
He thinks this is not a sign of love, but death.
Then, I went for a walk in Weibo, and I found that many boys seemed to have a lot of complaints about it.
They took it to another level.
From a girl's point of view, it is not money that matters if you want your husband or boyfriend to give you such a cup of milk tea, but the feeling that you are cared for and pampered by the other party, which is more like a sense of ceremony.
Ritual sense is something that many girls particularly emphasize and pursue in love.
But, from a boy's point of view, what is it like?
I found a lot of cynics.
Some boys think that this stalk reflects the abnormal love values of contemporary people.
Girls talk about equality between men and women, but in fact they try their best to take advantage of each other and blindly drive each other to work hard.
Even some boys think it's just a girl asking her boyfriend for money. This is a bad style.
In my opinion, there is no need to read too much. For some people, they just come to join in the fun and add some fun to the boring life.
I also saw a girl send it to her boyfriend. It feels like a declaration of "I love you".
For example, I also saw several girls ordering milk tea together, that is, as good friends, catching up with each other through the autumn wind.
But if this terrier affects the relationship between two people, it will not be worth the loss.
In other words, it is even more stupid to define love between two people with this.
Some girls may think, if he loves me, how can he even be reluctant to part with this 52 yuan?
Really, feelings, that's not true. Whether he treats you well or not is best reflected in his daily life. A cup of milk tea or a red envelope from 52 yuan really doesn't mean anything.
I have seen such a boy. He dotes on his girlfriend very much He is definitely a boy with a good personality. Now both of them have proved this after getting married. He is really a trustworthy person.
However, he just hates this kind of girl who asks for money from herself for various reasons.
At the beginning, he and his girlfriend had a conflict because of this.
His girlfriend asked me what to do. I said, "You've been with him for two years. Don't you know what he looks like in your eyes? Do you want to define it with a red envelope? "
She thought for a moment and said, "He's fine. He told me before that he didn't like this behavior of asking for money. "
I said, "Since you know, you should respect him."
Now that they are married, he sometimes gives his wife a red envelope.
Because I love him very much, I often prepare surprises for him first, and sometimes I send him first in various festivals. He was quite happy when he received it, and later he gradually realized this feeling and began to take the initiative.
What many people dislike is not the sense of ritual in love, but their unilateral efforts, and even the other party kidnapped me in the name of love, saying that not doing so means not loving me.
People are rebellious, and when you have to insist, it often backfires.
Love is not shown off in a circle of friends. It is true happiness that two people live well at ordinary times.
Love is not only expressed by boys to girls, but also expressed by girls to boys first. This is mutual.
Other girls, in this name, abruptly turned themselves into online beggars, asked the opposite sex for money, and then showed off in the circle of friends.
This kind of practice is definitely unacceptable.
I think this is really a bit of a loss of personal face and dignity. Compared with that little money, it's really penny wise and pound foolish and not worth it.
Therefore, it is most important to straighten your mind at this moment. Don't blindly follow the trend. Your personal situation is different. You must treat it rationally, which is the best policy.