1 Understand the cause of the matter
Children are bullied, perhaps because other children are too overbearing, or because their own children annoy other children, find out the cause and analyze the fundamental solution. If other children are too overbearing, let them learn to tell their teachers or parents when they are bullied; If your child is naughty or too selfish, you should find out the reasons from yourself and do a good job in the education of your child.
Tell children to be strong.
When children are bullied by others, blindly emphasizing tolerance will make them feel that their parents can't protect themselves, which will breed cowardice, give in blindly when things happen, and can't shape a strong character. Therefore, parents are advised not to put too much emphasis on "forbearance" education. Modern society is full of competition and needs strong character most. If you are bullied, you can shout loudly to attract the attention of others, and at the same time give the bully a warning and shock.
Don't scold the children.
It's already very sad for a child to be bullied. If parents still scold him, then the child won't dare to tell his parents next time he is bullied. If the child can't talk to his parents about his difficulties and can't get comfort from his parents, it's a double misfortune.
4 correctly guide children
Parents should not stop the conflict when they see it, depriving their children of a complete communication experience. At the same time, parents should educate their children not to be bullied or bullied by others.
5. Don't criticize angrily.
Some parents directly find the bully's child to teach him a lesson or blame the other parents, which is not conducive to solving the problem and may have more serious consequences. Or go to the kindergarten to blame the teacher, which will cause estrangement between homes, damage their own image and put children's interpersonal relationship in an awkward position. We should communicate with the other parents calmly, tell the other parents the objective facts, and try to solve the children's contradictions by discussing and asking.
What are the reasons why children are bullied?
1, the personality problem of "I"
Some children are naturally introverted, quiet and timid, and they don't know how to get along with others when they get to the new environment of kindergarten. If you are bullied for the first time, you will be afraid to tell your teachers and parents because you are timid and afraid, and you will not dare to resist.
2. Parents' improper upbringing of "I"
Some parents are usually grumpy and moody, and often reprimand their children for a little mistake, so that their children are always in a state of mind that they are at a loss, feel insecure inside and don't know how to express their emotions.
3. The speech and behavior of "I" are rejected by children.
If a child always says that many people bully him when he comes home, parents should be on their guard. Children in kindergartens are simple, and there won't be many bullies. Even if parents teach their children to say, "whoever hits you, you will hit him, and you will have a father if you break it!" Most children also don't have the guts to hit children. From this point of view, the problem may lie in his own children-whether he can't communicate with children, his meaning is unclear, and he is misunderstood by children; Is it that you don't understand humility, and you are a little overbearing and not liked by children? Do you tell the teacher every little thing, making children hate him ...
4. "I" is ignored and exaggerated to attract attention.
If the mother seldom cares about the child, or the child really wants to keep her around, he will find some ways to make her pay attention. At this time, he will make something that worries his mother, such as: "Someone bullied me."
5. Negative attitude of "I"
Some children, because of their personality, like to shrink back when encountering problems or difficulties, can't face them positively, and don't know how to ask for help from others.
7 children are bullied, what should parents do?
1, let children know their scope of authority.
The so-called scope of one's own authority means that the other party can't go beyond this limit. Children are constantly learning to divide the scope of power with each other in conflicts, but if parents often treat their children with violence in peacetime, their sense of boundaries will be unclear.
2. Cultivate children's self-confidence and make them believe that they have the ability to solve problems.
You can try to cultivate a specialty that children are proud of, and at the same time pay attention to cultivating children's good behavior habits, so that children can have their own small group and good friends. When someone bullies a child, having friends to help can reduce the chance of the child being bullied.
3. After being bullied, parents should help their children vent their emotions.
When a child is bullied, parents should help him express his emotions. Otherwise, if this continues for a long time, some potential information will have an impact on the child. If there is another major event related to this one day, the child's outbreak will be a one-time explosion, which will be very destructive.
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What should I do if my baby is injured in kindergarten?
1, fall injury: When a fall injury occurs, don't rub the affected area with your hands. You can soak a clean towel in cold water or wrap an ice cube with a towel and apply it to the injured area. After cold compress, apply it to the affected area with a damp and hot towel and gently massage it to help reduce swelling.
2, cuts: If there is no foreign body in the wound with less trauma, use a band-aid; If it is a foreign body such as metal or glass, it is necessary to clean the foreign body and disinfect the wound. If the cut is serious and bleeding is excessive, the wound should be bandaged in time, and the wound can be tied with rope and other things near the heart, and the child should be sent to the hospital for treatment immediately. If a child's finger is cut off by a sharp weapon, protect the broken finger, put it in a container and send it to the hospital together with the child for treatment in time.
3, sprain: a slight sprain can be applied to the wound with a towel or ice soaked in cold water, or you can use safflower oil to spit on the sprain. If the sprain is swollen or bruised seriously, don't let the children walk around. Send them to the hospital for treatment immediately. For the severe sprain of a certain part of the limbs, you can use bandages to fix the upper and lower parts of the sprain first.
4. Abrasions: For minor abrasions, use a sterile cotton ball dipped in low-temperature soapy water or normal saline to scrub around the wound and clean up foreign bodies, and then apply mercurochrome. For more serious wounds, gauze can be used after disinfection, and those who are particularly serious should be sent to hospital for treatment in time.
Nutrition collocation skills of kindergarten recipes
Kindergarten children's diet is basically the same as that of adults, but the intake of food in the staple food is less than that of adults. All kinds of foods can be selected, but it is still not appropriate to eat more irritating foods. Attention should be paid to the balance of diet, the diversification of colors and varieties, the collocation of meat and vegetables, and the alternation of coarse and fine grains. Cooking must pay attention to color, fragrance and taste to arouse children's interest and promote appetite. The food is suitable in temperature, soft and hard, and easy to be accepted by children. Children should develop a good habit of eating without adult care, eat regularly, regularly and quantitatively, pay attention to food hygiene, and avoid eating snacks, partial eclipse, picky eaters, overeating and uneven hunger. Examples of recipes for children aged 3-6 are: breakfast-milk 220 ml (sugar 10 g), egg pancakes (eggs 40 g, flour 50 g, sugar 5 g, oil 3 g). Lunch-75g of rice, diced peas with water bamboo (25g of peas, 50g of water bamboo, 50g of meat), and soup with red pestle eggs (25g of tomatoes and 25g of eggs). Meal-soybean milk 100 ml (5 grams of sugar), 25 grams of biscuits. Dinner-50g of rice, stir-fried vegetables and mushrooms (vegetables100g, mushrooms10g). Extra meal-pear100g.
When children go to kindergarten, parents should pay attention to preparing scientific and nutritious food for them, so that they can grow up healthily and happily, and they can absorb the nutrients they need in kindergarten, so that their babies will become smarter. Therefore, diet is very important for young children.