? Xiao Huang and I said, her boyfriend is the director of the company, often busy with work, early morning and late at night, the whole day to see people. Information is also a long time to reply once, every time you make a good meal called home for dinner said the company things, ate fast food. It is difficult not to let her suspicion, afraid that he will be tired of her, and then appeared bored with the psychology. At that time, if the emergence of a small three is not good.
? I made Xiao Huang a cup of tea, looked at her and said with a smile:
"Maybe he's so busy that he doesn't have time to be with you because he wants to work harder to make a better life for you? You still have to buy a house, get married, have children, all these he has to be responsible for you ah. A man who is motivated shows that he is a good man ah!"
? Xiao Huang nodded, and shook his head, frowned, looked at me and said:
"But he always does not come home for dinner, I am worried that he is out there eating with other women. He used to always say that my cooking was to his liking, but now it's hard to taste a bite ......"
I asked rhetorically, "Then wouldn't you make him a bento sometime and bring it over? This way he eats healthy, you meet more often , both to promote feelings and can meet more ah."
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Later, Xiao Huang did not complain to me about her boyfriend, look at her circle of friends, every day, not heavy love bento, and her boyfriend to eat the photo. I think they should be quite happy now!
? The fact is, there are a lot of girls like Xiao Huang. The girl is a sensual animal, think more, delicate mind. But it doesn't mean that you can weaken your trust in each other.
? More should be more trust is right, can find ways to go more with him, do not just ask him to take the initiative to accompany you. In love, both sides are mutual, men who work outside, most want to give you a good life, he does not want you to follow the suffering, I think this kind of man, really is a good man, so learn to understand, to think differently.
? Shortly afterward, another friend of mine Jue Jue came to chat with me again. Most of them know me well and treat me as an emotional expert ...... haha.
? Jue Jue said, she and her boyfriend recently rarely pay attention to each other. Usually at home is, a play games, a chase drama ...... feel are not interfering with each other, as if the feelings fade. In the past, they will play together, laughing and joking, now there is no such feeling.
? I handed Jue Jue a candy and sat down to look at her.
? "How can feelings fade, do you really believe all those other people talk about feelings fading? The sweetness of feelings is maintained by oneself. Everyone has their own interests and hobbies, you should also like a complete him ah. If you want to increase the degree of communication between the two sides, then find a **** the same hobby ah, or two people do some interesting small games ah"
Jue Jue nodded, I continued to say,
"You accompany him to play games, he accompanied you to watch TV, this way it's good ah, or you can go out for a walk together, watch a movie, I believe the feelings will quickly rise. Watch a movie, I believe the feelings will quickly warm up da!"
? Later, Jue Jue shared with me that she and her boyfriend made handmade cookies together, watched movies together, had a big motorized ride together, and even bought a dance carpet and danced at home ......
? Looks like she should be happy now. Two people together, the important thing is to communicate and exchange, no matter how many years together, there should be a certain sense of surprise, should be together to do a lot of meaningful things, this way the feelings will never cool down oh!
? Since we are together, we should be together well! A lot of people say, the doctor does not heal himself, himself and others reasoning is heated, but can not pass their own this pass, they face these problems will be panicked.
? Then you are very wrong, I live with my boyfriend is very good, we often watch movies together, climb mountains together, together with the motionless storm, I prepare a surprise small gift for him every month, and recently embroidered a pattern in the clothes what to give him, he liked it very much. We have a very happy life, every day so sweet.
? As long as they are sweet enough, they will not want to envy others. Since we are together, we should be good together! Communication is the exchange of two people's souls Oh, love each other to think more differently ...... less suspicion, more trust and understanding.