In fact, although Rape resists playing with his friends, I can feel his inner desire for playmates. He often talks, hugs and kisses his penguin dolls. Although many people tell me that my child doesn't want to make friends now, it doesn't matter if he goes to kindergarten, but I hope he will have the ability to get along with others of the same age when he is in kindergarten, and he will be less anxious and more confident and calm when he is separated from his relatives for the first time and gets along with teachers and children alone.
In order to improve the social ability of rape and get through the sensitive stage of two years old, I decided to improve it from three aspects, and make more use of early education centers to meet peers; Go less to large indoor amusement places such as Qiaohu Happy Island; Organize children of the same age to come home or find a party in the surrounding hotels on weekends.
Every parent who reported early education for their children has his own expectations and reasons. I reported early education for rapeseed in the hope of giving him a social environment, but I didn't make good use of the resources of early education institutions, and just went to class once a week to complete the task. Indeed, every weekend after the early education class, because there is a class to follow, there is not much spare time to communicate with other children and parents. Even so, the early education center is a better social place for children, because everyone's living standards and educational concepts are not much different, and it is easier to make friends. I used to leave after class, so I wasted such good resources in vain. After class, I decided to stay in the public area of the early education center for a while, looking for the parents of rapeseed classmates who hit it off, and only by taking the initiative can I create opportunities for rapeseed socialization.
When I go to Qiaohu Happy Island, I also hope that rapeseed can meet some peers. The only function of this plastic castle is to consume the children's extra energy. For children over two years old, such an indoor playground seems to have no positive effect on social enlightenment, but even more negative.
There are many projects played in Qiaohu Happy Island, and there are also some interactive games from time to time. Therefore, even if you go to Qiaohu Happy Island every day and meet a few friends of the same age who often come, it will be difficult for children of this age to play a project or interact with each other because their attention is easily distracted. More often, rape is playing with an interesting toy alone, and other children disturb her from time to time. She is very unhappy when she touches it or touches it. From ignoring it at first to shouting and finally hitting people, she is just conscious of the rules. Her mother often teaches her not to rob other people's toys, and she tries her best to do it. But in this playground, "robbed toys" are staged every day, and the rules her mother said are constantly broken here. Although he has developed a strong ability to protect his toys, this constant interference has made him distrust other children. Finally, he would rather play alone than with other children. Therefore, although we will still take him to Happy Island, we will try to let him slide instead of playing popular projects that are likely to cause conflicts. Some people may say that children should adapt to this environment, but I think children should adapt to this environment after learning basic communication with others, otherwise their inner rules will never be established.
since last week, I have started to implement the children's social plan. Last week, I invited two families with children to Hangzhou for a holiday. From the beginning, Rape refused to associate with children to the later, which made me feel very gratified. Although the gathering time was very short, Rape just found the feeling of playing with children, and I will continue to organize gatherings between Rape and children in the later period. I believe that Rape's social ability will gradually improve with our efforts.