Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. We should also be strict with ourselves in life. When dealing with people, you should have a tolerant heart, even saints make mistakes. When the other party admits their mistakes, we might as well put down our pride, our obsession and forgive each other's mistakes generously. This is the wisdom of saints.
Don't bind others with others' mistakes, and don't bind yourself with your own mistakes. Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. We should also be strict with ourselves in life. When dealing with people, you should have a tolerant heart, even saints make mistakes. When the other party admits their mistakes, we might as well put down our pride, our obsession and forgive each other's mistakes generously. This is the wisdom of saints.
Tolerance is sometimes not to forgive each other, but to forgive yourself. If you can let go of your obsession, all kinds of troubles caused by other people's mistakes will disappear. You know, sometimes pain is not the thing itself, but the ideas and attitudes we impose on it. If you forgive each other's mistakes and don't cling to the troubles caused by others, life will be broad and cheerful, and right and wrong will be less important.
When you make a mistake, realize your mistake and try your best to remedy it, what you need is to gain your own tolerance, don't cling to your mistakes, and try to develop on the bright side, so that your life will get better and better. Don't bind others with others' mistakes, and don't bind yourself with your own mistakes.
Summary: Emotion determines the way to treat.