First, the table manners
1, take a seat
A dinner party must be a matter of seating at the beginning. On the wine table, you don't just sit around. Everyone is particular about where to sit, and different positions also represent different degrees of importance at this dinner.
2. Move chopsticks
Don't move chopsticks at will after serving. After the leader speaks, the leader and guests move chopsticks first, and then move chopsticks. After serving, go to the leaders and guests first, and they will taste it first. When the leaders and guests are holding the food, don't turn the round table.
If you want to help the leaders and guests, remember to use public chopsticks. Also, remember to pay attention to eating. You may be tired and hungry after a day's work. Don't gorge yourself. This is the most basic etiquette.
Step 3 pour wine
Generally, the wine is poured by the host himself. If the company entertains customers, the leader arranges you to be a deputy to help pour the wine. Remember to stand behind the right side of the guest when pouring the wine, hold the bottom of the bottle with your right hand, hold the bottle with your left hand, and slowly pour the wine into the cup, usually nine minutes is enough.
4. Toast
On the wine table, toasting is also exquisite. You should wait for the leaders to respect each other before respecting yourself. When toasting, raise your glass with your right hand and hold the bottom with your left hand, and the cup should be lower than the other's. Remember not to drink to many people, to others, and not to drink less than each other. After all, you are drinking to each other.
5, manners
As the old saying goes, "wine depends on character", and it is inevitable to drink on the wine table. At this time, you should grasp where your own quantity is, and don't let yourself get drunk on a whim. The words and deeds after drunkenness all affect the leader's opinion of you, so grasp a degree and don't give yourself the opportunity to get drunk and make a fool of yourself.
Second, speaking skills
1, leaders take the initiative to invite dinner to take the initiative to agree. Eating with leaders in the workplace has two advantages. First, you can take this opportunity to deepen your feelings with leaders and build an image. Later, leaders in the company may be impressed by you. Second, you can learn more about the internal affairs of the company through leaders.
2. How to refuse the invitation of the leader? If you really don't want to have dinner with the leader, you can refuse, but it's not as simple as refusing others at ordinary times. It's necessary to show that you have business to deal with with in a tactful and humble manner.
3. What should I do if I encounter the leadership rhetoric? When having dinner with the leader, the leader will take this opportunity to ask questions. As an employee, we should pay attention to the tone and expression of the leader when talking in this situation, observe carefully and deal with it carefully, and we must not say what we should say.
4. When inviting a leader to dinner, you should first observe the mood of the leader and make sure that he has no worries or troubles before making a friendly invitation to the leader. You can invite the leader to dinner in a relaxed tone. Don't let the leader see that you are looking for him before inviting him to dinner.
Chinese etiquette
China is known as "the state of etiquette", and it is called "the summer with etiquette". Zhou is the most important etiquette in China, and it was generally practiced in ancient China. In ancient China, there were five rites: the ritual was auspicious, the wedding ceremony was joyful, the guest ceremony was guest ceremony, the military ceremony was military ceremony, and the funeral ceremony was fierce ceremony. Folklore believes that etiquette includes four kinds of life etiquette: birth, crown, marriage and funeral.
In fact, etiquette can be divided into politics and life. Politics includes offering sacrifices to heaven, land and ancestral temples, and offering sacrifices to teachers, kings and sages; Rural drinking, meeting ceremony, military ceremony, etc. Life includes five sacrifices, high-ranking sacrifices, Nuo ceremony, birth ceremony, crown ceremony, food etiquette, gift etiquette and so on.