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Tang Lanlan: I thought it was a rebirth, but I didn't realize it was a dying struggle.
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On November 11, 2008, after the vacation, Tang Lanlan did not go home.

Afterwards, Wan Xiuling received a phone call from her daughter, "Mom, I'm pregnant, it's my father's".

Wan Xiuling could not believe it, suspecting that her daughter is not a target, they called the child's great aunt ready to pick up her daughter home.

Three days later, Tang Lanlan, with the help of Mr. and Mrs. Wang Fengzhao, wrote a letter of accusation to the police by hand.

And the content of the letter shocked the world.

Tang Lanlan said that from the age of 7, she was raped and gang-raped by more than ten people, including her father, grandfather, uncle, aunt, teacher, village director, and countryside neighbors.

Tang Lanlan also said:

When I was raped by my father, my mother saw no control;

When I was raped by my grandfather, my grandmother saw no control;

When I was raped by my cousin, my cousin's mother saw no control.

(Tang Lanlan's whistle-blowing letter to the police)

Tang Lanlan begins her letter by saying, "I am writing this letter so that I can let my godmother and godfather redress my grievances."

The letter of complaint was also adopted by the court.

The letter of accusation was accepted by the court, and at the end of the month, 16 people from the village were arrested in three days. 4 years later, 11 people, including his parents, were sentenced to rape, and the parents were convicted of forced prostitution.

Honestly, when I first saw this, I and the people around me thought it was too outrageous, too exaggerated, unbelievable!

The first time Tang Lanlan was sexually assaulted, she was only 7 years old, still a child, and the rapist was actually her biological father!!!!

In addition to her own closest relatives - her father, grandfather and cousin, the people who sexually assaulted her were also most of the adult males in the village, and such sexual assaults and gang rapes lasted for 7 whole years!!!!

Tang Lanlan said it was her father and mother who personally pushed her to a group of demonic villagers for their pleasure.

They were watching porn at home, and the father said, "Let my girl play with you", while the mother said, "If you want to play, you can, but you have to pay", and then one of them charged 50 yuan to have sex with Tang Llanlan!

(Tang Lanlan, Tang's mother and brother)

Piece by piece, pile by pile, constantly refreshing our cognition, subverted our three views.

It's horrible!!!!

We can't imagine what kind of purgatory life Tang Lanlan has lived in the past 7 years.

In the end, the local household registration police, in order to protect Tang Lanlan from being disturbed and re-victimized, granted special permission to move Tang Lanlan's account away from her parents' household registration, and arranged a new identity and residence for her.

According to the case file, Tang Lanlan's appointed guardian is the director of the Municipal Women's Federation Office and the director of the Rights and Interests Department of the Municipal Women's Federation.

But the original dusty past, because Tang's mother Wan Xiuling released at the end of her sentence, as well as her uncle and brother want to obtain state compensation, once again pushed into the limelight.

(His aunt, Tang Yumei, filed a complaint for her husband, Liu Changhai, with the Second Circuit Court of the Supreme Court.) ?

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The Tang Lanlan incident can't help but remind me of a movie based on a true crime case in South Korea - The Beginning of the Kim Bok-nam Murder Incident.

Kim Bok-nam was just an ordinary rural woman.

She was often brutally beaten by her husband for no reason, and her aunt not only did not stop, but also constantly taunted and abused to ask for work, and the people in the village watched and likewise turned a deaf ear.

She was wantonly raped by her brother-in-law, and her husband knew that the beating was still her, and her brother-in-law could still do whatever he wanted, and became a tool for the two brothers to vent their frustrations.

No one helped her and never expected them to let her go with a clear conscience.

After realizing that her husband had actually extended his claws to her daughter and possessed her, she nearly broke down, and she didn't want her daughter to become the next Kim Bok-nam.

Bok-nam begs her friend Hae-won to take them away, saying that her husband raped her daughter. But even her best friend doesn't believe her, saying that she's making up outrageous lies.

And the only person willing to help her is the insignificant "lady" her husband called, how ironic.

She escapes with her daughter, and everyone on the island, male and female, contributes to stopping Bok-nam's escape.

Upon her return, Bok-nam is once again brutally beaten by her husband, and everyone continues to look on with cold shoulders and insults.

The story of Bok-nam is a story of a man's life.

It's clear that everyone watched their young daughter die at the hands of her husband, but no one is telling the truth, and they're colluding to say that it's because of her.

Even her friend Hae Won, when confronted by the police, simply said that she was sleeping and didn't know anything.

In the end, Bok-nam is driven to the brink of extinction by their indifference and ruthlessness.

She raised her scythe and killed everyone on the island - the mastermind who ruined her life as well as the accomplices 7. In the end, she herself dies at the hands of her friend Hae-won.

Just by watching the movie, we can't believe that something like this actually exists, but it does, and human nature can be so cold-blooded and heartless in some closed and backward places.

The complexity of human nature cannot be underestimated, nor can it be judged.

We only believe that a little more kindness can do less harm and save people from the fire.

Just like Fu Nan, as long as someone is willing to help her speak, she is not desperate; as long as someone is willing to reach out and pull her a hand, she is not crazy.

For the Tang Lanlan incident, I don't know who is the perpetrator and who is the accomplice, but I know that Tang Lanlan is definitely the victim, the first victim.?

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Another movie, Blind Mountain, has a simple story and is also based on a true event.

Bai Xuemei, a female college student, is abducted by human traffickers and sold to mountain people, and after being brutally raped, she tries unsuccessfully to escape several times, and after giving birth to a child, she finally uses the opportunity to pass on the message that her father should come to his rescue.

But with the local villagers in the way, Pak's father and the police are unable to take her. She eventually slips out alone one day and escapes with the police picking her up, but her child has to stay in the area.

The police take her away, but the child cannot.

It's not just this that gives you the chills. Almost everyone in the movie is antagonistic to Bai Xuemei, silent and numb to her fate.

The village cadres come to collect taxes and fees when the iron face of impartiality and public affairs, see a window in the cry for help "daughter-in-law", but only as a private matter of human family.

The highway Bai Xuemei fled to stop a car to save his life, but the driver asked her to 3 dollars, see her penniless on the gas pedal.

No one thinks that buying and selling a daughter-in-law is a crime, but the reality is even more brutal than that.

In the local area, people don't think it's a big deal to buy a trafficked daughter-in-law.

In their eyes, it's not a sin, it's a local custom, and it's the right thing to do.

According to Li Yang's recollection, the onlookers learned that this is a movie, there are people shamelessly come up to ask: "That girl doll looks good, simply sell me.

Bai Xuemei killed her "husband", director Li Yang does not want the people watching the movie only anger, he wanted to ask: "Why a woman sold alive to a place where there are all sorts of people, we all know, but she just can not escape. What are we people doing with our eyes? Just can't escape?"

He said: Blindness is the death of the eyes, the eyes are dead, not blind, these are two concepts. It's not blindness, it's two concepts.

I think that's why, Tang Lanlan was victimized for seven whole years before she was revealed.

In the past few days, I read a lot of reports and information about the Tang Lanlan incident. Seriously, I admire this girl very much, after suffering such cruelty, still did not give up on herself, and tried her best to escape from that hell.

Yes, she didn't go insane, she didn't commit suicide and die, on the contrary, she wrote a letter of accusation with her own hands, and sent all the masterminds and accomplices who harmed her to the prison, and punished them with the means of the law.

After the end of the nightmare life, she seized all the light of goodwill in her life and went to college, such courage and perseverance, I really admire!

But that's just it, there are still unscrupulous media pursuing hard, wearing the cloak of justice, and needing the person concerned to give an answer.

But why should they give you an answer, why should they tear open their wounds and show you? Since the government chose to protect her, then also please raise your hand and let this child go.

More kindness, less harm.

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