I just graduated from school and was introduced to a shoe factory by my cousin.

On the first day I entered the workshop, I met a tall and handsome boy. He smiled at me naturally and enthusiastically. Ask me where I'm from. Who introduced you? What's your name? How old is it? I felt that he was like the big brother next door. I had a feeling of deja vu, so I told him everything.

The workshop I entered was Face. On the second floor, everyone is busy. Sewing machines are busy loading goods, painting vamps by hand, drawing frames and delivering goods. The supervisor is a woman, sitting in front of the computer and playing computer. Only that boy is the most leisurely, wandering around. It turns out that he is a mechanic.

He kept talking to me, and talked to me after work, but somehow he pushed me against the wall. I leaned against the wall, and he stood opposite me, holding the wall with one hand. Staring down at me.

I suddenly felt particularly scared and uncomfortable.

Then our female supervisor found my embarrassment. She shouted the mechanic's name and said, I'm still a little girl. Don't hurt her.

The mechanic blushed, released his left hand propped on the wall and backed away. I pretended to be calm and went downstairs.

I told my cousin about it when I got to the dormitory. My cousin told me that you should stay away from him. This man is a playboy. Basically, he plays with all the girls in the factory as long as he likes.

When he spoke to me later, I looked very serious. No matter how he teased me, I was expressionless. Later, he stopped teasing me and joking with me.

Then I worked in that shoe factory for three years. I saw him find four girlfriends. They are all from our factory. One is a lathe worker who has worked in the factory for several years, the other is a deputy director he introduced from other factories, and the other is a new boy in the molding department. The last one is quality inspection. Our face is called Yinghai.

What surprised everyone most was that he and the quality inspector named Yinghai. In the past, those girlfriends broke up three to five months ago, and this quality inspection has been going on for almost a year and they haven't broken up yet. In the eyes of many of us, this quality inspector is mediocre, short, bigger than him, and not very rich.

Then once, both of them took time off to go home. When she came back, Yinghai told us that she and the mechanic had got a marriage certificate. But the mechanic said they were not married and didn't get a marriage certificate. I don't know which of them is telling the truth and which is telling the truth.

Many people say that it is often sad to be alone since the machine maintenance and quality inspectors met the sea. I'm not as happy as before. The director once joked that what means does this meet the sea? Make you listen?

The mechanic replied, hey, I'm tired. In fact, women are similar.

If a man changes girlfriends frequently, it shows that this person has great psychological problems, such as lack of love when he is young, or being hurt when he grows up, and he has a kind of revenge mentality. This kind of person is cruel and may make a difference in his career, because he is not indecisive, but he is not suitable for making real friends. When my father was young, he studied medicine with a young man in a neighboring village. At that time, food and accommodation were at the master's house. That young man is good-looking, but he lost his father and his mother remarried when he was young, and probably suffered a lot from childhood. Later, I met a young lady and they fell in love. The young lady brought him 5 million yuan and immediately opened a hospital for him. Later, when business was good, they broke up. Then the young man got married and divorced, and now he is married for the seventh time! Now I have a large group of children, but think about it with your head. How can there be a harmonious relationship? Because his wives were all female college students, college students were not very common at that time! what can I say? Every coin has its two sides. The advantage is that you will feel great and have a sense of accomplishment. The disadvantage is that you have to bear the responsibility of the past, and you have to be ashamed of your conscience! The road of life, go by yourself, just don't regret it! The older generation, most people are like concentric locks, weather-beaten, rusty, still firmly hanging there, witnessing the passage of time. People nowadays are like birthday cakes. After the celebration, it will go out as soon as it is blown. Being happy for a second can also be happiness. Not because everyone put it down, but because we put on armor and learned to control our feelings to protect ourselves. Tang Bohu ordered Chou-heung? Wei Xiaobao? Everything is too explicit. Times are changing. Some men become locksmiths and master keys ... some women become unprotected locks. Life is short, just be happy. Please don't criticize anyone's love. Behind every smile, there are the best memories. I still haven't met anyone I really like! Do you think this boy will cherish a girl who can catch up with her soon? Does this girl know how to love herself? I have a friend who always changes girlfriends like this, and there are many schoolmates. It's really frequent Some students will ask him how he changed his girlfriend so quickly. He said that it is difficult for a person who is particularly fast together to like it all the time. If it's not love rat, what is it? The more you can't get, the more precious you are. Really, what logic is this? Once the novelty of early love is lost, will it still be like this in front of that man? Sometimes I really warn some girls not to promise that man so quickly. How do you know if he really loves you? He caught you so quickly, but he thinks you don't love yourself. You are irresponsible to yourself, so you are often such a person and will not be cherished in the end. We girls must know how to love ourselves, so that men will cherish you. As love rat, changing girlfriends frequently is sometimes a kind of helplessness. Flowers must be flowers, but there are too many women who chase you or care about you. Sometimes they don't care if you are a dog or a wolf. As long as I am cool, I can't get your heart (or even think about it) or your body. A society that looks at faces, but it must have a bottom line. Well, you have a line, don't you? I have plenty of ways to deal with you. If you get together with friends, you will be entangled with friends brought by friends. Now it is not a patriarchal society, especially young people, and women's rights are more dominant. A man with good looks, good personality, good ability and good family background among his peers will not change girlfriends frequently before he has enough resume and precipitation. Off topic, it's tiring to change girlfriends frequently. Body comes second, spirit comes first. If a man changes girlfriends frequently, it means that he doesn't really make friends with women. He just treats his female friends as clothes and just plays with them. A good man who really wants to get married and have children and find a girlfriend will not change girlfriends frequently. Good men are serious about love. He just wants to find a girl he likes. Good men will always be the same. Whether his girlfriend is beautiful or not, whether he has money or not, he will be kind to her as long as he really loves her. Experience different girls' hobbies and learn more about women. Constantly changing girlfriends means falling in love with many girls, building feelings, feeling the characteristics of girlfriends with different looks and personalities, and getting to know women better. Such a man will either calm down and really find his love in the process of falling in love with different women, and finally find true love. Either, it is deeply involved, unable to extricate themselves, addicted to it. Pick up hot chicks's technology is getting higher and higher. Because many girls (women) have experienced it, the technique of bodybuilding is becoming more and more perfect and superior, especially after having too many emotional paths and life experiences. Just a few words can make a girl itch, like him, fall in love with her, and then hurt her again and again.

Hurt people and hurt themselves. Changing girlfriends so frequently and showing mercy everywhere, just like Duan, most of the beautiful women in the world are related to him. Such behavior will definitely be retaliated by women, or rejected by women and labeled as "love rat". In this way, not only hurt others, but also hurt yourself. If you are hurt, it is not only psychological, but also physical. If you indulge too much, you will lose your vitality and be healthy physically and mentally. So, be careful.

In fact, I don't agree with such phenomena and people.

I have a friend around me, 38 years old, who works in human resources.

I talked about more than 10 girlfriends in college, and talked about a girlfriend every six months after working for more than ten years, but I never got married.

Sometimes when talking, he said that he was never satisfied.

In fact, this is just your own excuse and excuse!

Some people think that it is irresponsible to find more girlfriends and experience different tastes and lives.

Sadly, once such a person has formed a habit or dependence, or experienced too many girls, his relationship with feelings, sexual orientation, appearance, figure and other factors will be disordered, and he will always compare his new girlfriend with his predecessor, and then he will always find out the shortcomings of the current one, and then he will enter an infinite replacement cycle.

Here, I would like to advise such a man or woman: life is too short to treat this behavior as pleasure, but to respect the law, face up to marriage and responsibility, and find the real spiritual belonging as soon as possible.

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I think as long as all men know this problem, besides the satisfaction of xx, the rest is always in the fresh-keeping period, which is fresh.

From the perspective of men, this is worth promoting, but from the perspective of women and society, it is not worth promoting for the following reasons:

1. From a man's point of view. Although the national law now stipulates that male polygamy cannot be allowed as in ancient times, men can get the pleasure and enjoyment of polygamy in this way.

2. From a woman's point of view. For women, a playboy is very insecure, irresponsible and terrible. A woman wants to find a life partner who can bring her a sense of security and belonging, so if a man really loves that woman, please give her what she wants and take on the responsibilities that a man should do.

3. From the social point of view. If every man is like this, it will be a huge social crisis, because men are the pillars of society. If most men show this situation emotionally, treat their feelings as children's play, treat women as playthings, and have no responsibility and sense of responsibility, it will directly lead to the collapse of social moral order like drugs. If it continues, it will even affect the rise and fall of a noble family and a country. This is why almost all countries in the world practice monogamy, especially Japan. If a man wants to abandon his wife and divorce, he will pay the price of losing everything, and even lead a totally clean life. This can be seen.

So what kind of men change girlfriends frequently? There are the following:

1. An extremely conceited person. This kind of man is more or less rich, knowledgeable and tasteful. They are basically not short of money. Besides, they are not ugly, and can even reach the standard of "Gao Fushuai" for ordinary girls. Because of this, they will think that most women stay with them for money, so as long as they follow one or two tricks, women will basically succumb to him and finally throw themselves at him.

2. A man who is seriously self-centered. This kind of man often has a strong sense of responsibility, lacks a sense of responsibility for women, has no concept of marriage and family, and does not want to get married, so he has been in a rogue state.

3. A man who thinks he is handsome. This should be combined with the second point. Although not as conceited and rich as "Gao Fushuai" in point 1, this kind of man also feels quite good about himself and thinks it is a piece of cake to pursue women. As long as you have a crush on them, you can basically catch up with them (mainly ordinary girls, and then go up, it is still more difficult for men like "white" because it is 65433 compared with the starting point. In addition, they also know women well, know their psychology, know that they like handsome guys, like fantasy, long for romance, and want to be cared for, so many women fall. ...

If a man changes girlfriends frequently, it shows that this person has great psychological problems, such as lack of love when he is young, or being hurt when he grows up, and he has a kind of revenge mentality. This kind of person is cruel and may make a difference in his career, because he is not indecisive, but he is not suitable for making real friends.

When my father was young, he studied medicine with a young man in a neighboring village. At that time, food and accommodation were at the master's house. That young man is good-looking, but he lost his father and his mother remarried when he was young, and probably suffered a lot from childhood. Later, I met a young lady and they fell in love. The young lady brought him 5 million yuan and immediately opened a hospital for him. Later, when business was good, they broke up. Then the young man got married and divorced, and now he is married for the seventh time! Now I have a large group of children, but think about it with your head. How can there be a harmonious relationship? Because his wives were all female college students, college students were not very common at that time!

what can I say? Every coin has its two sides. The advantage is that you will feel great and have a sense of accomplishment. The disadvantage is that you have to bear the responsibility of the past, and you have to be ashamed of your conscience! The road of life, go by yourself, just don't regret it!

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Share with you a man I know. Let's marry someone nicknamed Huahua. It's not a flower, it's a thoughtful flower! As far as I know, he told more than 30 women before and after, whether he was talking about friends, ambiguous or unfamiliar, a little girl or a young woman, pregnant or divorced. In short, as long as he is willing to talk to him, he will not abandon him. Although I don't have much money, I am talkative and thick-skinned, which women are eager for. I don't know what the magic is. Until now, after I got married, the flags are still fluttering and the children are still restless!

Personally, I feel that he may be a psychology of taking advantage. I am a man, and I am not in pain. I don't have to spend money to play with women. This is both safe and economical. Sometimes, if we talk well, the woman will give him extra money!

Then I feel very attractive. Look who's who. They are all my girls. They are all my girls with 4.5 yuan. Drinking and chatting are twice as embarrassing!

Until now, he is still free and easy, and several husbands have looked for him to solve the problem, but in the end they all went away. We can only say we admire him!

Brother, I don't understand your definition of "frequency" very well. What can I call it "frequency" If it is once every few months, I think it is ok and barely acceptable. If it is several times a month, it is a bit too much.

Of course, everything is relative. Being able to fall in love several times a month shows that the quality of the object you are looking for should not be so good (not only appearance, but also intelligence and wisdom, as well as inner truth, goodness and beauty). As far as people around me know, most excellent girls don't start a relationship at will (of course, there are special ones), and they often need more time to understand the man's personality, conduct and other characteristics. If you change it several times a month, are you sure that the person you are looking for also changes it several times a month? If you don't mind, forget it.

Most relationships are relatively beautiful. Please cherish every relationship, so that you are responsible for others and yourself.

The above only represents my personal opinion. If you are wrong, look at Haihan. Don't spray if you don't like it!