I think Cai Shaofen's point of view is very correct. This is the wisdom of a person who has experienced it. No love in this world can compete with time. Only by being pragmatic and sober can you less hurt yourself. The divorce of Ma Yili in the article some time ago is actually no accident. When Ma Yili was pregnant with her second child, Wen Wen cheated on her husband. It was probably not the first time he had cheated on her. It was just the first time it was photographed. The big-hearted Ma Yili chose to forgive. Wen Wen also said that he would not do it again in the future, and he still wanted to protect his eldest daughter and Ma Yili. Tattoos on body and legs. The Internet revealed that the reason for the divorce was that Wen Zhang had cheated on her again, and her scumbag nature was fully exposed.
In addition, when talking about money in love, don't get carried away and always think that love comes first. A marriage without financial support will always be just a castle in the air. Don't think that talking about money in love will hurt your feelings. If you don't talk about it, then you don't even know whether the other person really loves you. This is a tragedy for you who love him deeply. In love, the other person's attitude toward your spending determines his love for you. When a person who truly loves you sees a gadget you like on the street, he will definitely buy it for you without hesitation. No matter how expensive it is, he will be willing to do so, because loving someone means regardless of gain or loss.
Cai Shaofen is a very smart person. She has been carefully managing her love, so his love can always be stable. She is the one who contributes and the beneficiary. As a combination of a strong woman and a weak man, she takes great care of Zhang Jin's face. When she first married Zhang Jin, Zhang Jin had no reputation at all. But whenever she talks about Zhang Jin in public, Cai Shaofen talks only about her admiration for him and his merits, so that for a while, she was called a "husband-dazzler". In front of her mother-in-law, she also has high emotional intelligence. The mother-in-law said in front of everyone on the show: I hate you! Instead, Cai Shaofen hugged her mother's shoulders and comforted her carelessly, explained the reasons to her, and made her laugh with her cheerfulness and smile.
So you must learn to be pragmatic in relationships, otherwise one day you will find that love is so fragile.