Two years with my ex-girlfriend. Finally broke up, because I was a poor boy then. She is a good girl and can't give her a stable material life, so I want her to find the happiness she deserves. The reason why I broke up with her was not that I couldn't give her a happy life, but that I fell in love with another girl. I remember when we broke up, she cried very sadly. Now, it's been more than a year since we broke up. She has a new escort, and I'm still single dog. I met my ex-girlfriend while shopping the other day. She felt very uncomfortable in the skirt I gave her.
She said eight words to me awkwardly: Long time no see, how are you? Me: My girlfriend is waiting for me in front. I want to get there quickly. In this way, I haven't contacted her since we broke up in a hurry, and I haven't bothered her even if I miss her after getting drunk. As the favorite woman in my life, I just want to make her happy. When I met my ex-girlfriend, she was shopping with her current boyfriend in the skirt I gave her, and she felt very uncomfortable.
Li Muzi answered the reader's question: Many men, like you, feel that if you love a girl deeply, you should let her live a rich life. When they can't give it, they will choose to break up, but they ignore a woman's determination to suffer with her. This shows that your ex-girlfriend has at least not completely forgotten you, or accused you of "cheating" her with a trace of hatred. You know, she gave you the best years she thought, but you pushed her away from you with the happiness you defined. This regret will be your eternal pain.
What I can tell you is: never tell her the truth about your breakup. Maybe it's unfair to her. Watching her secretly forever and not disturbing her is the best ending. I know you will eventually have your own wife and children. Once you get married, please don't be fickle. This is the bottom line that a husband or father should have. In a few years, you will feel stupid, naive and self-righteous. Good luck to you.