1. If things go against your wishes, believe that God must have other arrangements; everything lost will come back in another way. Believe in yourself and believe that time will not treat you badly.
2. Life is not for compromise. The more you retreat, the less space you have to breathe. Life is not for making do. The more humble you are, some happy things will be further away from you.
3. Most people in life always want to muddle along, and then make many excuses to prove that this is not their original wish.
4. What we have been looking for is what we already have; we always look around and miss what we want. This is the reason why it is difficult for us to get what we want.
5. Instead of caring about others’ betrayal and unkindness, it is better to manage your own dignity and beauty. Look at the vicissitudes of the world with a smile, the flowers bloom and fall, there is no need to hold them back, as long as you are grateful.
6. Don’t waste money because you may lose your job tomorrow, don’t be arrogant because you may lose your position tomorrow, don’t brag about your love because you may lose your love tomorrow, don’t wrong yourself because you may die tomorrow.
7. Don’t judge someone’s sadness easily. The innocent moaning in your eyes is actually because you have never experienced the other person's low self-esteem, caution, and worry about gains and losses.
8. The older I get, the more I know that things are not easy, and the more I know that everyone has difficulties, the less I will make casual comments or look down on anyone. This is not hypocrisy, but knowing how to be considerate and deal with the world gently.
9. Time has never given us unscrupulous willfulness, life has never given us fear full of despair, and memories have never left us with reasons to be decadent and confused.
10. Some stories are reinterpreted, and I am also a supporting role; no matter how much I value some feelings, I cannot grasp them firmly after all. In fact, there is no need to care so much. Seeing things too clearly will make you unhappy. Be kind to yourself because no one will think the world of you.
11. Learn to bear pain, some words are suitable for rotting in the heart; learn to choose to forget, some injuries are suitable for burying in memory; only when all ups and downs become experiences can you be able to challenge any wind and rain.
12. There are some things that we cannot understand when we are young. When we understand, we are no longer young. Some people have been reading each other for a lifetime, but they still don't understand each other; some people just meet by chance in the vast sea of ??people, but they are determined to be with each other for a lifetime.
13. God makes people carry his own shadow, which is always a warning to those who are too optimistic that there is always a dark side in life. But I also tell the fragile people, don’t look back, there is light in front of you.
14. Life is like a glass of boiled water. You drink it every day. Don’t envy others who drink drinks of various colors. In fact, your boiled water may not quench your thirst. Life does not depend on your mood, but on your mentality. Go live. Adjust your mentality and look at life, sunshine is everywhere.
15. Not all strength is real, and not all smiles are sincere. Many times we don’t want to be strong, but we have to be strong. Many times we don’t want to smile, but we have to smile.
16. There are two great happinesses in a person's life, one is to do what one likes to do, and the other is to be with the person one likes. Achieving these two happinesses depends on luck and hard work. If you are lucky, if you don't work hard, your good luck will gradually fade away; if you are unlucky, if you work hard enough, you will succeed one day.
17. The road of life must be difficult or easy; the love in the world will always be cold or warm. There are some things that you have to do even if you don’t want to do them, and you have to do them well even if you shed tears; there are some feelings that you can’t bear to let go of, no matter how painful your heart is, you have to let them go.
18. The meal must be eaten one bite at a time, and it is impossible to become fat after one bite; the road must be walked step by step, and it is impossible to cross a thousand miles in one step. Similarly, you must cultivate your mind step by step. It is impossible to practice for a few days and then become a saint. As long as there is a little progress today compared to yesterday, it is worth rejoicing. Over time, a drop of water will surely penetrate the stone.
19. Beggars are not necessarily jealous of millionaires, but they are definitely jealous of beggars with higher incomes.
This story tells us: Without a higher vision, you will always stay at the current height!
20. If you missed yesterday, please don’t miss today again. Let time deal with the past; leave time to prove the future. What we really have to do is to hold on to today firmly, let today's self be better than yesterday's self, and let today's self shape tomorrow's self.