Why do some people feel very temperamental and cultured at first sight?
Temperament is a subtle feeling that can only be understood but not expressed, which is hard to describe. Before, like most people, I thought that temperament was reading, walking and improving artistic taste. This is temperament. Later, when I met more people, I found that some people really didn't necessarily read a few books, even a dream of red mansions, and their temperament was actually good. However, there was a woman who did read many books, but she had no temperament at all. She was rustic, simple, not well decorated, and she couldn't see elegance in her speech. Of course, she wouldn't be vulgar. Where did the books she read go? Temperament, I later found out, is really a part of it, just like the mark in the blood, which may be lineage, heredity, or even an unbreakable password in a previous life. At first, I didn't agree with this statement. In early childhood, you will find that some children have their own aura, which is completely different from other children.