1. As a family member, you should listen carefully before deciding how to deal with it.

2. If you can't solve the problem with a family member, you can find a reasonable person. Do not find someone who has a good relationship with one party to comment. That way, we are not taking an impartial stance, and not only will no problem be solved, but both parties will become angry, and the more they argue, the more trouble they will have.

3. If both parties hold different opinions and have their own reasons, especially when parents have conflicts with their married children, the most critical thing is to let them live separately. Originally, old people and young people have different habits. Living together is not a contradiction at all, but it is also a contradiction. Moreover, the old people are even more displeased when they see children they don't like. Therefore, they must first live separately and then solve the problem.