However, what we are most afraid of losing in the world is the love of our parents. Parents raised us and left us all the best things, and we can't bear to be wronged.
However, we will leave home one day, we need to go far away, farther and farther away from our parents, or we may be busy with our studies and work, and have less and less contact with our parents, but our parents will always care about us.
Therefore, as children, we should not wait until our children want to support them, but call home more when we have time, and they will be very happy.
I once saw a movie called the most beautiful parting in the world. When watching it, people on the barrage said they were crying. I watched the movie that lasted two hours and five minutes in the lower left corner of the video screen, and some people cried for two hours until the end of the movie.
The most beautiful parting in the world. This film is mainly about a mother's ordinary and great life. In the movie, the hostess in the family is a masterpiece of women's sadness: the younger brother is involved in pornography and drugs, the mother-in-law is as crazy as a martial arts star, the husband is indifferent to his wife, the daughter is a mistress, and the son who has repeatedly failed in college almost got pregnant with a teenage girl, and he suffered from terminal uterine cancer on the eve of the completion of his dream villa.
The scene of the husband sleeping and talking with the hostess in the movie is even more touching:
"Will you miss me when I die?"
"Every day."
"When do you think about it every day?"
"Go to work every morning, when wearing a tie;
When drinking bad sauce;
When drinking delicious soy sauce;
When drinking, after drinking, when you wake up and see the bed;
When sleeping, when I want to listen to nagging;
When mom is in a temper;
When Xiuyan got married;
When Zhengxiu starts school, graduates, and marries his wife;
When frying round cakes in the Spring Festival and making bean buns in the Mid-Autumn Festival;
When you are sick and lonely;
....."
But it is this tragic life that highlights the greatness of a mother. Parting is never beautiful, but the passing and remembering of family love is the most important thing. The tragic climax of the whole movie is the husband's answer when he will miss her. He said that before going to work in the morning, when wearing a tie, when drinking miso soup, when drinking miso soup, when drinking, when waking up, when his daughter gets married, when making rice cakes in the Mid-Autumn Festival ..... It turns out that love melts into a little bit.
At first glance, I felt that this family was so strange, as if the relationship was not very good. Why can this family be so indifferent to a sick woman, and can still order this woman like this? Is it because this woman is too kind? No one in this family can pay attention to her and have a relationship with her. The mother is so sick that the children don't know what's wrong. This woman is dying, and she has to feed her mother-in-law, and no one else cares about eating at the table. Even if children don't know that cancer is so severe, they should do more to help their mother when she is so weak. I can only understand that this family is naturally cold and selfish.
I don't know how this selfish and depressed family can have a good-natured and caring mother. In reality, good temper has long since worn out.
However, the most beautiful parting you think is actually because you are usually too indifferent. Don't wait until the trees are quiet and the wind is not over, and the children want to raise and don't stay.
It is false to say that there are no tears in Moscow. In this ancient country, there is heavy snow. If you look at it coldly, leaving a cold back far away, my heart will be broken.
I often get the message that "not being in touch doesn't mean I don't miss you. Maybe I'm not living in a circle of friends, but I always pay attention to you ..." I think the existence of affection, friendship or love needs to be precipitated by contact, but contact can better make up for the defect of distance and dilute your indifferent surface. Because contact is your concern for them.